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Henry S. Ryon

On May 10, 1925 Henry S. Ryon was born in Brooklyn on Fenimore street. Henry’s youth was spent in the shadow of the famous Brooklyn Dodgers Stadium, Ebbets Field. Walking home from school he could see if the bleachers were full. The roar of the crowd could be heard as he approached closer.

He spent summers with the family in a rented cottage in Peconic. There was no electricity and water– except for when the windmill turned the pump. It did not matter because the view from the cliff of the Sound and the days on the beach is all they needed.

A young Henry S. Ryon. Photo courtesy Ryon family

During high school he attended Boy Scout Camp up in the Catskills. The war had started but he was still too young to join. In his senior year, 1943, he took the army program test and scored high enough to be accepted into the Army Specialized Training Program. That September, he entered basic training in Fort Benning Georgia before returning to Brooklyn to study. The need for more troops ended the program in February of 44 and off they went to Kentucky to join the 75th division and prepared to go overseas.

They boarded a small British liner and joined a convoy; 15 days later they arrived in Liverpool. Heading to the front, he saw 36 B-17s fly just over their heads, dropping paratroops; three planes were shot down in front of them. They arrived in the Ardennes on Christmas Eve and were immediately thrown into Germany’s last major campaign known as the Battle of the Bulge. 

His platoon carried much needed ammunition to the front lines.  Next, they headed for the last French City occupied by the Germans. While staying in an old barn, they discovered German Troops hiding in the hayloft just above their heads. One of Henry’s platoon members spoke Yiddish and convinced the trapped Germans to surrender.

In the Spring of 1945 they were pushing up the West side of the Rhein with many small skirmishes along the way. At one point the Germans held some high ground across a canal with a 30-foot high retaining wall on the other side. His platoon had to transfer ammo to the front line under heavy mortar fire by wading across the water and scaling the wall. For this he received the Army’s Bronze Star.

After the end of the war, troops that had been in the war the longest got to go home first. His platoon was tasked with cleaning up the piles of ammunition left over.

Tragedy struck one morning when an ammo depot blew up, killing half of his 30-man platoon. 

After coming home, he entered college on the GI Bill and graduated Cornell University with a BA in Liberal Arts. Then he received a Teaching License from Adelphi and got a job at Port Jefferson High School.  In 1957 he married Theora Newcomb, built a home in Poquott and had two sons, Christopher and Thomas.

In the early 1960s, he took a sabbatical leave to study at the University of Virginia and got his Master’s Degree. He later became director of Pupil Personnel at Charlotteville School District the very first year they integrated the schools. The title was good but the pay was low and the family returned to their Poquott home. In 1967, he became Head of the Guidance Department at Bellport and finally finished his career in the North Babylon School District. 

Henry is survived by his two sons, Chris and Tom; three granddaughters, Linnea Curry, Emma Steinhart and Anna Voulters; and five great-grandchildren, Kiki, Ralph, Lenny, Theora and Lily.

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Dr. David Mark Silberhartz

Dr. David Mark Silberhartz, a devoted psychiatrist, beloved family man and passionate advocate for mental health education, passed away on May 26 at the age of 74. A longtime resident of Stony Brook, New York, he leaves behind a legacy of compassion, integrity, creativity and service.

Born in Brooklyn on March 1, 1951, Silberhartz graduated from the University of Pennsylvania in 1972 and went on to earn his medical degree from Stony Brook University’s School of Medicine in 1980. He completed his psychiatric residency at Stony Brook in 1984 and remained closely affiliated with the university and Stony Brook University Hospital throughout his distinguished 40-year career.

A Life Fellow of the American Psychiatric Association, Silberhartz was known for his commitment to practicing psychiatry in its most human and thoughtful form. He personally handled both therapy and medication for his patients and upheld a philosophy of care grounded in deep attention and empathy.

Silberhartz also worked tirelessly to support the next generation of psychiatrists. He established the Silberhartz Family Award. The award, given annually to a graduating Stony Brook medical student entering a psychiatric residency, was uniquely designed — with the recipient chosen by a vote among peers, encouraging students to reflect on what “good doctoring” truly means.

His commitment to education, mentorship and service extended beyond medicine. As a member of the Stony Brook School of Medicine Alumni Board since 2011, he was a generous benefactor to many university initiatives, including the Stony Brook Cancer Center, the Staller Center for the Arts and the Stony Brook Symphony Orchestra.

In addition to his medical and academic accomplishments, Silberhartz was an award-winning poet and singer-songwriter whose creative spirit enriched the lives of those around him. His art reflected the same depth of empathy and introspection that defined his work in psychiatry.

Silberhartz is survived by his devoted wife of 45 years, Sheila; his daughter, Jamie Silberhartz, and her husband Adam Mays; and his beloved grandchildren, Auden and Cosette. He was the cornerstone of a loving family, and his gentle wisdom, generous spirit, and unwavering compassion will be remembered and cherished by all who had the privilege to know him.

In his final act of generosity, Silberhartz was an organ donor, offering the gift of life and healing to others even after his passing.

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Nelson Whitney Roberts

Nelson Whitney Roberts passed away on May 8, 2025 at the age of 78. He was the son of Nelson and Monda Roberts, who ran the Three Village Inn for 43 years.

He served in the United States Navy for 4 years during the Vietnam War. He married his wife Suzanne and they had two sons, Jeffrey and Gavin. Gavin passed away in 2021.  Roberts worked with his parents for 22 years managing the Inn and then went on to manage the North Fork Country Club for 11 years. He attended the Stony Brook School and Hinckley private school in Maine. He was an avid sportsman enjoying tennis, golf, fishing and skiing. He was also a member of the Old Field Club and Three Village Historical Society. 

Roberts is survived by his wife, Suzanne and his son Jeffrey, brothers James and Lawrence and his sister, Monda J. He impacted many and guided young lives, helping them make their future.

Services will be held at the Stony Brook Community Church on June 6 at 10 am.

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Dr. Seymour Musiker

Seymour “Sy” Musiker M.D., a beloved pediatrician for over 40 years, providing medical  care to three generations of patients, died on May 19 in Stony Brook.  

Musiker grew up in the Bronx and Far Rockaway, New York alongside his sister, Bunnie, and his Latvian immigrant parents, Rose and David Musiker.  While attending Cornell University, ROTC, he met Stephany Goldberg on a “blind  date” and they were married for 40+ years before her passing in 1997. Together  they built a beautiful life — moving to Chicago where Sy went to Chicago Medical  School, quickly followed by the Bronx where he did his training at Albert Einstein College of Medicine, and two years as the Chief of Pediatrics for Noble Army Hospital at Ft. McClellan, Aniston, AL before settling in Stony Brook with their four daughters in 1966.  

In addition to treating the patients in his solo practice, Musiker was proud to serve in  many leadership positions. He was the Director of Pediatrics at Mather Memorial  Hospital and later the Chairman of the Department of Pediatrics at St. Charles  Hospital both in Port Jefferson. He was the recipient of the prestigious Theodore Roosevelt Award from St. Charles Hospital in recognition of his service.  

Musiker was an “old fashioned” doctor who made house calls early in his career  and preferred a remedy of a “tincture of time” to overprescribing medications. He was  a proponent of preventative medicine and was known as a cheerful, calming and  reassuring presence to his patients.  

He was a natural advocate and champion of children, and their own families,  who thrived on maintaining extended family relationships. Musiker was fortunate to find love again with his longtime partner, Marsha Hills, who survives him along with  her son, Jon.  

In addition, Musiker is survived by his children of whom he was always very proud,  Beth Musiker, Jamie Nemirov, Randy Musiker and Debbie Chizewer as well as grandchildren, David, Daniel and Samantha  Nemirov; Andrew and Jeremy Chizewer. He is also survived by his dear  cousin, Norma Feltman and many beloved nieces and nephews with whom he  has maintained close relationships.

Services for Seymour Musiker was held on Thursday, May 22 at Temple Isaiah in Stony Brook. Information  regarding burial and shiva to be shared at the funeral.  

In lieu of flowers the family asks that you consider a donation to www.savethechildren.org a favorite of the many charities he supported. 

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Geraldine Wilson

Geraldine Wilson, of Port Jefferson, passed away on April 28, at the age of 95. Born on December 25, 1929, in Hackensack, NJ, Geraldine was a beloved wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, aunt and friend whose warmth and devotion touched the lives of all who knew her.

 She was the cherished wife of the late Robert P. Wilson, with whom she shared 65 loving years of marriage. Together, they built a life centered on faith, family and adventure—traveling the world hand-in-hand, including five memorable trips to Italy and visits to Malta, Switzerland, Germany, and throughout Europe.

Wilson was the devoted mother of Jennifer Wilson, Christopher and his wife Deborah, Janine Pearce and her husband Donald, and Matthew. She was the proud and loving grandmother of Ashley, Eric, Lauren, Bryan, Donald, Michael, Stephanie, Cassandra and Harrison. Her legacy lives on through her treasured great-grandchildren: Colette, Emmie, Madelyn, Stefanos, Nolan, Paris, Amelia, Lucy, Taylor and Roman.

Though Wilson had just one sibling, her dear sister Lois, she grew up surrounded by the warmth and closeness of a large extended Italian family. With countless aunts, uncles and cousins from both her mother’s and father’s sides, her early years were richly filled with family gatherings, traditions and the deep-rooted connections that helped shape the woman she became. These relationships were especially meaningful to her and remained an important part of her heart throughout her life.

A woman of many passions, Wilson was known for her extraordinary talent in the kitchen. She baked fresh bread twice a week for over 50 years and made approximately 2,000 pierogies each year for the Polish Festival—a heartfelt tribute to her generous spirit. She found great joy in gardening, especially tending to her beloved flowers on her balcony, and was a longtime member of the Suwassett Garden Club in Port Jefferson.

Wilson was a faithful Catholic and active member of Infant Jesus R.C. Church, where she attended Mass regularly and was a devoted participant in the church’s Seniors Club. An avid reader and lover of the beach, she was often found with a book in hand or surrounded by family during holidays and spent weekends enjoying watching her great grandchildren play. Her family was her greatest joy, and she devoted her life to creating a home full of love, tradition, and laughter.

Wilson’s love, strength, and grace will be dearly missed, but her memory will live on in the hearts of all who were blessed to know her.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to either the Port Jefferson Free Library, 100 Thompson Street, Port Jefferson, NY 11777 or Infant Jesus R.C. Church, 110 Myrtle Avenue, Port Jefferson, NY 11777.

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Martin Freundlich

Martin Freundlich died on March 21 in Stony Brook at age 94.

Freundlich was born in New York and raised in Brooklyn. He earned a Bachelor’s Degree at Brooklyn College and a PhD in Microbiology at the University of Minnesota. In 1966, Freundlich came to Stony Brook University, where he helped establish the Biochemistry Department. He remained on the faculty of the Department for 35 years.

Freundlich was an avid gardener. He loved to travel with Ann, his wife of 41 years.  Following a stroke at the age of 80 that left him partially paralyzed, he and Ann visited numerous parks on Long Island, details about which he compiled into a booklet of wheelchair-accessible spaces in New York. Until the stroke, Freundlich had been very active in sports, especially tennis and basketball. 

Freundlich had a wry sense of humor and a disdain for injustice both social and political.  He was a mentor to many younger faculty members, graduate students grandchildren and younger cousins.

He is survived by his wife, Ann Sutton; his children, Lisa Freundlich Berger , Michael Freundlich and Jennifer Guediri. He was the beloved grandfather of Tom, Alexandra, Isaac, Rachel, Sami and Maya. He was predeceased by his sister, Ronnie; his son Jonathan; and his ex-wife, Gloria Brickman.

He will be greatly missed.

There will be a memorial gathering for family and friends on June 8th from 2:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. in the house at 50 Main St, East Setauket NY.

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Robert O’Rourk. Photo courtesy O’Rourk family

Prepared by the O’Rourk Family

Robert O’Rourk, 87, of Setauket, passed away on May 15.  O’Rourk, as he was known to all, was a devoted husband, father, grandfather and great-grandfather. He was a skilled sports photographer and a dedicated public servant.  A graduate of Chaminade High School and Adelphi University, his  life was defined by curiosity, commitment, a dedication to his community, abiding love of family and a profound faith in God.  

Born with an innate drive to build and create, O’Rourk pursued a career in engineering, using his talents to shape and improve the world around him. As years went by, motivated by his children’s activities, he developed a passion for sports photography.  He captured the spirit of competition, using his lens to bring athletes to life with precision and artistry at both the high school and collegiate levels.

Beyond his professional and creative pursuits, he was a selfless servant to his community. As a member of the Setauket Fire Department, with the unofficial distinction as the oldest probationary member ever, he served as a member of both Emergency Medical Services and Fire Police.  He embraced his role within the department with passion and enthusiasm, and his dedication and compassion left a lasting impact on the many lives he touched.  

O’Rourk’s unwavering faith in God was the foundation of his life.  He lived with integrity, kindness and a deep sense of purpose, guided by his belief  in serving others.  With his wife of 63 years, Jean, at his side, O’Rourk was a member of St. James Parish in Setauket, spending much time as a ministry member of Meals on Wheels.  Together they contributed to their spiritual community, always leading with wisdom and compassion. Guided by their faith, O’Rourk and Jean shared a bond of love, support and partnership for more than half a century.

For O’Rourk, family was always paramount:  For more than four decades, when he wasn’t spending summers puttering in his garden with Jean, O’Rourk’s happy place was camping at Hither Hills Park in Montauk, surrounded by family and friends.  His idea of a perfect beach morning was a cup of coffee, an almond croissant, the Newsday crossword and a comfortable chair for napping.

In addition to Jean, O’Rourk is survived by his children Lory, Bobby,  Patrick, and John, his 14 grandchildren and four great-grandchildren, and his beloved cats Nugget and Camp.  O’Rourk was predeceased by his cherished son Brian in June of 2024.

A life well lived, O’Rourk leaves behind a legacy of hard work, service, faith, and unfailing devotion to family and friends.  

Family will receive friends on Tuesday, May 27 from 3:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. and 7:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. at Bryant Funeral Home.  A funeral service will be held on Wednesday, May 28 at 10:45 a.m. at St. James RC Church in Setauket, with a celebration of his life to follow.

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William F. Bengston

William F. Bengston, PhD, 75, of Port Jefferson passed away peacefully at his home on April 16 surrounded by his family. He is survived by his wife Margaret, his two children Brian and Elizabeth along with their spouses, four grandchildren, as well as his brother and sister. 

Bill was a man of immense humor, curiosity and intelligence who loved his family dearly.  He was a professor of statistics and research methods at St. Joseph’s University for 40 years, a researcher and an author.  He had so many passions — he loved music and to play tennis and table tennis, he swam competitively, he loved to sail and he dedicated a lot of time to his community as a library and school board member.

Bill was trustee of Harborfields Public Library from 1982 to 1986 and involved in construction of their new library. From 1988 to 1998 he was trustee of Port Jefferson Free Library and involved in a major expansion and renovation of the library building.

He was trustee on the Port Jefferson Board of Education from 2000 to 2006 and served several terms as board president. During this time he was involved in the design, expansion and renovation of both the Elementary School and Middle School/High School libraries.

His healing research produced the first successful full cures of transplanted mammary cancer in experimental mice with the hands-on technique that he helped develop. His research continued over forty-plus years, and he has numerous peer reviewed academic publications.

In lieu of sending flowers, please consider making a donation to the Society for Scientific Exploration for which he was the president of from 2010 to 2022.  https://scientificexploration.org/Donate

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Yoshiko Takeshita

Yoshiko Takeshita, age 88, passed away peacefully on Feb. 24 at Sunrise of East Setauket from Alzheimer’s Disease.  Her many family members and friends remember her as an outstanding, deeply kind person who always remained humble and sought to benefit others.

Yoshiko grew up in Kitakyushu, Japan and received a Bachelor of Arts from the Japan Women’s University in Tokyo.  In 1969, she, her husband Masaru and her children immigrated to the United States.  

While raising her 3 children, Yoshiko worked various full-time jobs, achieved a Master of Science from Stony Brook University, and became a licensed nurse practitioner at the Stony Brook University Hospital.

Specializing in oncology, Yoshiko cared over decades for patients afflicted with cancer and other diseases.  SBU Hospital and her patients frequently praised her invaluable contributions.  

She retired in 2002 and still remained remarkably busy, both physically and mentally. She engaged in innumerable volunteer activities with a multitude of organizations, and enjoyed hobbies and spending time with her grandkids. 

Yoshiko also globe-trotted, especially for her beloved hiking, mountaineering and outdoor adventures!  She even climbed the peak of Mount Kilimanjaro at age 66!

Sadly, her husband Masaru passed away on Sept. 4, 2021 from COVID-19.  She is survived by her children, Konomi, Hayata and Yuhei, and her grandchildren, Kenta, Mariko, Ryohei and David.  

Her exemplary service to other people, strong independence, love of nature, and determined work ethic, continue to brighten and guide the lives of those she left behind.

Arrangements were entrusted to the Bryant Funeral Home of Setauket. Please visit www.bryantfh.com to sign the online guestbook.

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Sunny Bateman

Sunny Bateman passed away peacefully on May 5, at age 80 after a courageous battle with cancer and later complications. 

Born on Dec. 14, 1944 in Little Rock, Arkansas to Mildred and Howard Strecker, Sunny’s abundant love continues through her husband Lee Bateman; children Debbie, Michelle, Brad, Brooke, Kim and Scott; grandchildren Brady, Wyatt, Sunny, Quinn, Caroline, Hank, Matilda, Scarlett, Noa, Aden, Tyler, Kiersten, Charlie, Anna, Luke and Alex; and great grandchildren Jackson and Monroe. She is also survived by her brothers Robert and Billy Strecker, sister-in-law Jayne Strecker, nieces Megan and Janine, and nephews Robert and Derek.  

The family extends their deepest gratitude to her friends, family and the incredible team at Stony Brook University Cardiac ICU for their compassionate care during Sunny’s  final days.

In honor of Sunny’s love of art and her generous spirit,  memorial donations to the Reboli Art Center (rebolicenter.org/donate) in her name would be greatly appreciated in lieu of flowers.

Sunny was welcomed into eternal peace by her beloved father and mother Howard and Mildred Strecker, her aunt and uncle Roy and Pearl Hoffer, her cousin Ronald Hoffer, her son Chad Bateman and her dear friends Catherine Loper and Lydia Simms, who all meant so much to her.

Service will be held this Friday May 9 from 3 to 7 p.m. at Bryant Funeral Home, 411 Old Town Rd, East Setauket. Please visit Bryant Funeral Home (https://www.bryantfh.com/) for details.