Seniors

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Ancient civilizations had hieroglyphics, we have QR codes: the patterned graphic boxes prompting you to access restaurant menus, pay for parking, find out information about a package and more.

Generally, quick response (QR) codes are safe, but they can be used to redirect you to malicious websites, so caution is important. Here’s how it works.

• You get prompted to use your device’s camera.

• You scan the code and a link pops up.

• You click the link, exposing you to threat actors.

• You’re directed to apps, websites, locations using your maps and much more.

Bad actors understand people are in a rush, so this is an appealing form of attack. It’s a cost-efficient scam because these codes are easy to generate and distribute. And they are creative in finding new ways to make them appear legitimate. In public places, criminals can cover an official code with a sticker or printout showing a fraudulent code. Some of the more prevalent and convincing scams include:

• Parking Ticket Scams. Criminals place fake parking tickets with QR codes on windshields, causing unsuspecting victims to scan the code and click the link to learn of their offense and digitally pay the alleged fine.

• Brushing Scams. A criminal will ship goods you never ordered, then require you to scan the QR code and click the link to see who sent you the gift.

• Payment Scams. Criminals cover a legitimate QR code with a sticker that has a fraudulent code that directs to a malicious site. This can happen at gas pumps, bank windows, parking lots, etc.

• Crypto Scams. Crypto transactions are often made through QR codes associated with crypto accounts, making this an appealing target for fraudsters, especially since once crypto payments are made, it’s unlikely those funds will be recovered.

To stay safe when using QR codes:

• Check the URL: Once you scan and the link pops up, stop! Examine it for unusual domain names or shortened URLs before clicking.

• Verify the source: Only scan QR codes from trusted sources, like official websites or apps. Codes from unfamiliar sources are more likely to be malicious.

• Check for tampering: Look for signs of tampering, like altered graphics, design flaws or stickers placed atop original codes.

• Be suspicious: Treat sites asking for a password or login information as a red flag.

• Be wary of promotions: Be cautious of offers that seem too good to be true.

• Use a secure connection: Look for a secure connection (HTTPS) or padlock.

• Confirm validity of request: Before taking action, like making a payment or entering personal information, confirm a request to scan with the company. If you receive a QR code from someone you know, reach out to them through a known number or email to verify they sent it.

• Protect your device: Use antivirus and antimalware software.

• Report. If you identify a suspicious QR code or fall victim to a QR code scam, notify your bank and report it to law enforcement and the Federal Trade Commission.

If you scan a fake QR code, your bank account, email and identity could all be at risk. For actions to take, consult PNC Bank’s Reporting Fraud page on pnc.com.

Cyber criminals are always finding new ways to defraud their victims, and QR codes are no exception. With a little caution however, you can better protect yourself. (StatePoint)

Legislator Rebecca Sanin (right) with honoree Andrea Golinsky (center) and County Executive Ed Romaine (left). Photo courtesy of Leg. Sanin's office

At the Suffolk County Senior of the Year Award Ceremony, held at the H. Lee Dennison Building on May 15, Legislator Rebecca Sanin proudly recognized Andrea Golinsky as District 16’s 2025 nominee.

The event, hosted annually in May by the Suffolk County Office for the Aging, celebrates Older Americans Month by honoring seniors whose dedication and service have strengthened their communities.

“Andrea Golinsky is the embodiment of service and leadership,” said Legislator Sanin. “For more than 50 years, she has answered the call to serve others with courage, compassion, and unwavering commitment.”

Andrea has been a member of the Huntington Community First Aid Squad (HCFAS) since 1973, holding numerous leadership roles including Captain and Chief. A certified Crew Leader, Driver, and Advanced Life Support Provider, she is a cornerstone of Suffolk’s emergency medical services.

She has represented HCFAS as a Delegate to the Suffolk County Ambulance Chiefs Association since 1983 and serves on the County’s Recruitment & Retention Committee. At the state level, she holds leadership positions in the New York State Volunteer Ambulance & Rescue Association.

Beyond EMS, Andrea represents HCFAS on the Huntington Station Business Improvement District and has earned multiple honors, including the NYSVARA Leadership and Presidents Awards, and the New York State Assembly Woman of Distinction Award.

“Her legacy is one of lifesaving work, mentorship, and community impact,” Sanin said. “It’s a privilege to honor her today.”

Join Northport Public Library, 154 Laurel Ave., Northport for a Senior Information Fair on Wednesday, May 21 from 10 a.m. to noon. Speak with representatives from local organizations who will share information about programs they offer. No registration required.

Attendees include:

  • AARP Tax-Aide
  • Aetna Better Health of NY
  • All Metro Health Care
  • American Parkinson Disease Association
  • Andrew Heiskell Braille & Talking Book Library
  • CN Guidance
  • Family Service League & SeniorNet
  • New York State Funeral Directors Association PrePlan Services
  • Northwell Family Health Center at Huntington
  • Parker Jewish Institute for Health Care and Rehabilitation
  • PSEG
  • RSVP Suffolk
  • Suffolk County Dept. of Health Services
  • Suffolk County Office of the Aging
  • Suffolk County Sheriff’s Office (Medical ID Cards & Yellow Dot program)
  • Touro Law Senior Citizens Law Program
  • Town of Huntington, Senior Division
  • VISIONS: Services for the Blind
  • Visiting Nurse Service & Hospice of Suffolk, INC.

For more information, call 631-261-6930.

Megan E. Sheehan

Brightview Senior Living, a Baltimore-based provider in senior living with almost 50 communities along the East Coast, has announced Megan E. Sheehan as Brightview Port Jefferson’s new Executive Director. The facility is located at 1175 Route 112 in Port Jefferson Station.

Sheehan is a healthcare professional with more than a decade of experience in senior healthcare and housing, with a focus on hospitality, resident satisfaction and family engagement. She most recently served as the Executive Director of Marian Woods, Inc. Adult Care Facility, where she oversaw administration and organizational planning of a fifty-bed New York State licensed Adult Care Facility for religious sisters.

“We are thrilled to welcome Megan to the Brightview Port Jefferson team,” said Toni Gozzo, Regional Director of Operations at Brightview Senior Living. “Her deep experience in senior healthcare, commitment to hospitality and passion for creating meaningful experiences make her a perfect fit. Brightview prides itself on vibrant living and exceptional care, and we’re confident Megan’s skills and background will further elevate that mission for our residents, families, and our associates in the greater New York region.”

Sheehan earned a Bachelor of Arts in education from Manhattan College and an Associate of Applied Science in occupational therapy assisting from SUNY Rockland.

“I am thrilled to have joined the Brightview Port Jefferson family. After working for more than 10 years in healthcare, this is more than a job to me – it’s my calling,” said Sheehan. “I thrive working in an environment where no two days are the same and I can make a meaningful difference while growing personally and professionally. It’s truly an honor to build genuine connections with residents and their loved ones, and learn from their stories and wisdom. My goal is to help make this chapter of their lives as joyful and fulfilling as possible.”

For more information about Brightview and its communities, visit BrightviewSeniorLiving.com.  

 

Spencer Gee

People who suffer from chronic diseases including Parkinson’s, Alzheimer’s, neuropathy, dementia, and arthritis have the chance to join the 12-week PANDA Tai Chi exercise classes at the Universalist Unitarian Fellowship, 380 Nicolls Road, East Setauket starting on Sunday, May 18 from 3 p.m. to 4 p.m.

Martial artist, Spencer Gee, has spent 15 years developing a tai chi program for people with chronic diseases such as:  Parkinson’s, Alzheimer’s, Neuropathy, Dementia, Arthritis and others.  This program allows the students to move their bodies in a way that can help delay the progression of their disease.  They are able to maintain strength and mobility and release tension and stress.

Spencer is an engaging teacher and tells everyone, “Come join us for an exciting and fun workout for your mind and body.”

Classes will be 1 hour long on Sundays at 3 p.m. on May 18, 25; June 1, 8, 15, 22, 29; July 13, 20, 27; and  August 3 and 10.

Fee is $180 per student, caregivers are encouraged to join in for an additional reduced fee.  For more information or to register, email Laila at [email protected].

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Cona Elder Law will host its 9th Annual Caregiver Conference, “Rewiring & Retiring Well on Long Island: The Secret Ingredients No One Talks About,” on Wednesday, May 7 at the Hilton Long Island/Huntington, 598 Broadhollow Road, Melville from 5 p.m. to 9 p.m.

This conference offers a unique opportunity for older adults and caregivers to connect with industry professionals, explore valuable resources, and gain insights into various aspects of elder care. With an expected attendance of over 200 community members, the event promises to be both informative and supportive for those in the sandwich generation, caregivers, and anyone between the ages of 45 to 75.

The free event will feature a presentation from Melissa Negrin-Wiener, Esq., Senior Partner, Cona Elder Law, titled “Protecting your Assets to Retire Well & Leave a Legacy” as well as from Evelyn Gellar, Managing Director, Forest Hills Financial Group, titled “Managing Retirement Income & Risk During Tumbling Tariff Markets.”

The evening will feature a special panel discussion on “Rewiring & Retiring” featuring: Paul Fleishman, Newsday, Vice President of Public Affairs (Retired); Esther Fortunoff, Owner, Fortunoff’s, Rewired to EFG Designs; Kathy Munsch, American Heart Association, Regional Vice President (Retired); and Randy Goldbaum, Partner, Egress Pros, Rewired to Cannabis and Hemp Entrepreneur. The panel will be moderated by Jennifer B. Cona, Esq., Founder and Managing Partner of Cona Elder Law.

“Most of us can’t wait for the day when we can hang it all up and do what we want. But when that glorious time comes, many suffer from loss of identity, lack of purpose, inability to relate to others, depression, and more,” said Jennifer Cona, Founder and Managing Partner of Cona Elder Law. “In today’s economic climate, many older adults need to ‘rewire’ as they need an additional source of income to supplement retirement benefits. So, who are the people who are actually thriving in retirement and how are they doing it? How do you make the Golden Years actually golden?”

The evening will also feature an Exhibitor Expo with over 30 elder care industry sponsors and exhibitors. Attendees will have access to a wealth of resources on topics including home care, assisted living, reverse mortgages, long-term care insurance, and caregiver support services.

For more information and to register for the conference, please visit the official event page: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/2025-cona-elder-law-annual-caregiver-conference-registration-1255669955639?aff=Prli

About Cona Elder Law

Cona Elder Law concentrates in the areas of elder law, estate planning, estate administration and litigation, and health care law. Cona Elder Law takes a holistic approach to elder law, providing support and resources for older adults and caregivers, and maintains long-term, partnering relationships with clients to provide the best solutions for multiple generations.

Event Details:

  • What: 2025 Cona Elder Law Annual Caregiver Conference
  • When: Wednesday, May 7, 2025 @ 5:00 – 9:00 PM
  • Where: Hilton Long Island/Huntington, 598 Broadhollow Rd, Melville, NY 11747
  • Cost: Free

Photo courtesy of Gurwin Adult Day Health Program 

 Approximately 100 participants of the Gurwin Adult Day Health Program were transported back in time to their high school days for the Program’s first annual prom on April 10. The idea for the event was prompted by the Program participants, many of whom never had the opportunity to attend prom.

Designed for elderly and frail younger adults with cognitive or physical health conditions who require daytime supervision, Gurwin’s program provides a structured environment to engage in enriching activities, receive personalized care and offer socialization opportunities that help to enhance quality of life.

Program members started their pre-prom prep with professionally styled hair and makeup by the Long Island Beauty School of Hauppauge students who donated their time and talents. Next, participants selected their favorite gown or suit, courtesy of Gurwin staff and members of the local community, which were adorned with colorful corsages and boutonnieres, donated by the Flower Basket of Northport. Setting the musical backdrop were the Commack High School Jazz Messengers who played a perfect blend of modern dance music, mixed with throwback ballroom waltzes, and the Commack Grandfriends Club who partnered up with the Program participants, dancing the afternoon away. In true prom fashion, a prom king and queen were crowned by popular vote.

“We were pleased to be able to host such a magical day for our participants,” said Jeraldine Fedoriw, Chief Adult Day Health Officer of Gurwin’s award-winning Program.  “This event was possible due to the generous support and donations from the Gurwin staff and the local community who helped transform our Program room into a festive prom venue where our participants re-lived fond memories, and created new ones.”

About Gurwin Adult Day Health Program:

The Gurwin Adult Day Health Program is part of the Gurwin Healthcare System, offering a compassionate and supportive environment for individuals in need of daytime health supervision. Designed for seniors and adults with chronic illnesses or disabilities, the program focuses on enhancing quality of life through medical supervision, personalized care plans and engaging activities. Participants receive tailored services, including physical therapy, socialization opportunities, and cognitive stimulation from a team of skilled professionals dedicated to meeting both the medical and emotional needs of participants. The award-winning program is located within the Gurwin Jewish Nursing & Rehabilitation Center in Commack, NY, and serves the surrounding communities. For more information, please visit www.gurwin.org/adult-day-health or call 631-715-2520.

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By Frank Artusa

This month New Yorkers were blanketed with scam text messages requesting payment of unpaid tolls. Another growing text based scam involves receiving messages from “wrong numbers” where the scammer attempts to then engage in casual conversation in order to befriend the victim and steal information. Perpetrators are utilizing increasingly sophisticated techniques and deceptive practices like these to trick people into providing access to their most valuable data. 

In recent years phishing, smishing, and vishing have become three of the most common attack vectors, among a dizzying array of others for compromising personal identifiers, valuable data, mobile phones, and computers. In 2024, the Federal Trade Commission reported $12.5 billion in fraud related losses suffered by the American public with identity theft and imposter scams comprising two of the top three categories.

Phishing is a scam where an attacker sends an electronic communication, usually an email, attempting to obtain access to financial accounts or other protected data, typically by getting a victim to click a link or enter personal information into a fake website. Other variations on this technique include vishing, typically done utilizing a voice call and smishing, a deception attempt via a text message. These are just a few of the common types of attacks, among many others, and it’s becoming quite a challenge to discern truth from deception.

In the realm of enterprise level cybersecurity, a best practice for keeping attackers out of networks is to adopt a “default deny” approach, that is, to block all access to business systems unless explicitly permitted via an allow list. Following this perspective to protect personal devices and accounts can also be beneficial to stopping bad guys by denying all attempts of communication from unknown numbers and email addresses.

When an email is received from an entity purporting to be a financial institution requesting personal information, never respond. Deny this solicitation by default and call the institution directly to verify the request. With text messages from an unknown number, stop the smishing attempt by not responding and immediately deleting the message, or call the sender directly to verify the legitimacy of their request. Individuals should never click on any links.

Vishing scams, which historically have been based on simple phone calls from people attempting to persuade victims to reveal valuable information, have now unfortunately evolved into attackers scouring social media accounts for the names of family members and even obtaining samples of their voices through pretext phone calls, then tailoring a targeted scam with an artificial “deepfake” call from the alleged family member. Again, in this case protection is achieved by denying the scammer from the outset and calling that family member or friend directly to verify.

Retirees are particularly vulnerable because they are less likely to be aware of the evolving cyber criminal landscape through work based training programs and are more accustomed to trusting historically dependable methods of communication like basic voice phone calls. The sad truth is that a high level of skepticism of all communications is necessary to combat these threats and protect important financial and personal data in both personal and professional environments. If any type of communication or correspondence is unusual, opt for a default deny approach.

Individuals who are victimized should contact the impacted financial institution to report and prevent further monetary damage. Concerns relative to stolen identity can be addressed by following the steps listed at www.identitytheft.gov. Unfortunately, cyber criminal investigations can be quite challenging due to the international nexus of most incidents; however, reports should be made to your local police department as well as to the Internet Crime Complaint Center at www.ic3.gov.

Frank Artusa is a current cybersecurity professional and retired FBI Special Agent.

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By Britt Burner, Esq. & Brittni Sullivan, Esq.

The biggest concern that most have when they are in need of long-term nursing home care is that their primary residence will not be protected. This may or may not be true.  There are special rules surrounding the home that are different than other types of assets. 

To understand this fear, it is important to understand how one becomes eligible for Medicaid to assist with nursing home costs.  The applicant is permitted to have countable assets in the amount of $32,396, retirement assets in any amount so long as the retirement account is set up for a monthly distribution, and a pre-paid irrevocable burial.  

Applying for this program also involves a five-year lookback. This requires the applicant and spouse to provide full financial disclosure for the five-year period immediately prior to institutionalization. The purpose of the lookback is to see if the applicant or spouse transferred any assets out of their names.  If transfers were made, there will be a legal presumption that this was done for the purpose of applying for Medicaid, and a penalty will be assessed. The penalty will result in a time of ineligibility for services. 

However, there are certain transfers that are exempt and will not draw a penalty, this includes transfers of any assets to a spouse or to a blind or disabled child.  Specifically for the primary residence, transfers are exempt when made to a spouse, blind or disabled child of the applicant, a sibling with an equity interest in the home, or to a caretaker child. 

A caretaker child is defined as a child who has resided in the primary residence with the Medicaid applicant for the two years immediately prior to institutionalization and who, during that time has provided some level of care support to the individual who requires nursing home care.  Medicaid will closely scrutinize the transfer and ask for supporting documentation to prove residency for the caretaker child.  

For several reasons, this type of planning is best used in crisis planning and is not an advanced planning technique. First, there may be adverse tax consequences when you transfer the real property to the caretaker child.  Second, transfer to the caretaker child could thwart your estate plan to leave assets to multiple beneficiaries. Last, the transfer to the caretaker child can only happen immediately prior to your institutionalization.  Therefore, if the child is moved out at the time you require nursing home care, the exemption is lost.  

The fear of losing the home is common. Planning in advance can help ensure the primary residence is protected.

Britt Burner, Esq., Partner at Burner Prudenti Law, P.C., concentrates her practice in Estate Planning and Elder Law. Brittni Sullivan, Esq., Senior Associate at the firm, also focuses on Estate Planning and Elder Law. Burner Prudenti Law serves clients from Manhattan to the east end of Long Island with offices located in East Setauket, Westhampton Beach, New York City and East Hampton.

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Howard Hanna Coach Realtors of Port Jefferson invites seniors looking to downsize to a FREE educational luncheon at the VFW Post 3054, 8 Jones Street, Setauket on Saturday, March 22 from noon to 2 p.m.

A panel of experts will be on hand to explore the planning and process of Downsizing for Seniors with a focus on housing options for seniors, addressing the challenges of buying a selling a property, financing issues and options, repairs and maintenance, Trusts and Estates and more.  Whether you are looking to make a move this year of sometime down the road, this is an event you won’t want to miss!

Lunch and prizes for all attendees as well as all your questions answered. Free but registration is required by calling 631-994-0082 or go to https://bit.ly/DownsizerWorkshop.