This Mother’s Day, locals reflected on therole their mothers have played in their lives; from attending sports games to dispensing unforgettable advice, these matriarchs shaped who their children are today.
TBR News Media asked community members, “What is your favorite memory with your mother?
Laurel and Dylan Gallo
Laurel and Dylan Gallo, Centereach
Laurel remembers going to Cedar Beach with her mother, people-watching and shopping together. Her son
Dylan recalled recently going to see Nathaniel Rateliff & the Night Sweats at Madison Square Garden withher, sipping margaritas together in their booth. “We got to hear all our favorite songs that we grew up listening to together, and I don’t think I’m ever gonna forget it.”
Alex Andre
Alex Andre, Hempstead
Alex’s fondest memory of his mother was going out for food together before he went to Germany for the Army.
Thomas and Flynn
Thomas and Flynn,St. James
Flynn’s favorite memory was going to Great Wolf Lodge, an indoor water park, together with his mom. His brother Thomas also shared his favorite memory: “probably the day when I was born!”
Nekki Lang
Nekki Lang, Southbury, Conn.
This former Long Islander’s favorite memory with her mother was trekking up to Vermont to visit after her mother had moved off of Long Island.
Jace Mas
Jace Mas, Port Jefferson Station
While checking people out at The Frigate, Jace shared his favorite memory: coming off the mat at his wrestling and Jiu-Jitsu matches and seeing his mom cheering him on.
Mashal Siddiqui
Mashal Siddiqui, Centereach
Mashal recalled going to the beach as a family when her brothers were young. She said the time she spent with her family then was her favorite memory with her mother.
Ryan
Ryan,Mount Sinai
Ryan’s absolute favorite memory with his mom was going to Universal Studios with her. His sister’s favorite memory is a secret.
Jack and Shannon Chant
Jake andShannon Chant,Middle Island
Shannon’s favorite memory with her mother is going on vacation with her and getting one-on-one time together. Her son Jake’s favorite memory, similarly, is visiting the beaches of Nantucket with her.
Two Ptilothrix chiracahua resting in their host plant, Kallstroemia grandiflora, the Arizona poppy. Chihuahua desert, southern Arizona. The water will be used to soften the rocky ground to allow the bee to dig her burrow. Photo from Clay Bolt
May 20 is World Bee Day, an opportunity to celebrate not only the beloved honey bee, but North America’s 4,000 species of native bees, many of which are busy right now.
“Throughout spring and summer, these insects dutifully pollinate crops and wildflowers, playing a vital role in fostering healthy ecosystems,” says Clay Bolt, manager of Pollinator Conservation and Great Plains communications, World Wildlife Fund.
According to Bolt, native bee species are beautifully varied in their appearance, behaviors, feeding habits and habitats.
They can be striped, metallic, fuzzy, thin and rotund, in a spectrum of colors. The world’s smallest species—the Euphorb mini-fairy bee—is only found in southern deserts. At 2 millimeters, it is about as long as a U.S. nickel is thick.
Different bee species fly at different times—early morning, daytime or night. Many emerge seasonally in spring or summer, while others remain hidden underground for years awaiting summer monsoons. Bees inhabit diverse environments, from cold mountain peaks to beaches. Generalist species visit many flower types, while specialists pollinate only specific flowers. And unlike bumble bees and other hive-dwelling bee species, such as honey bees and stingless bees, over 70% of the world’s bee species are in fact solitary, hardworking moms who quietly nest in overlooked places like decomposing logs and alongside garden paths.
If you’ve ever asked yourself, “what is a bee?” you might be surprised to learn that they are vegetarian wasps. However, unlike their wasp relatives, which often feed their young protein in the form of paralyzed insects and the hamburger they might steal from your picnic table, most bees provide their offspring with protein made from pollen mixed with nectar. The mother bee compacts these materials into a pellet and places it within her nest cavity, lays a single egg atop the mixture, then seals the chamber where the young bee will develop entirely without maternal assistance.
How can you help bees?
Sadly, bees face threats to their survival, but there are steps you can take to help protect them.
Bees need healthy, pesticide-free foods throughout their lives. This is one of the greatest gifts you can offer these pollinators, especially because parks and gardens often grow flowers that only bloom during peak summer. By planting a variety of plants that flower from early spring through autumn, the number of native bees and other pollinators visiting your garden will increase exponentially.
“Through small acts of kindness, you can transform the lives of these remarkable creatures, while filling your heart with profound hope and wonder as you witness their delicate yet ongoing care of our shared world,” says Bolt.
World Bee Day also kicks off World Wildlife Fund’s new “Stories of Hope and Wonder,” an ongoing series that connects people to the wonder of nature and offers hope for a future benefiting both people and wildlife. Each month, “Stories of Hope and Wonder” will feature a different species overcoming some of nature’s toughest obstacles to ensure its survival. To access these stories, visit www.worldwildlife.org/hopeandwonder.
Bees are industrious creatures that are essential to vital food systems and healthy ecosystems. While bees are at risk, individuals can make all the difference in their own backyards this World Bee Day and beyond.
'The Mount House', 1854 by William Sidney Mount (1807-1868),
The Long Island Museum of American Art, History, & Carriages. Bequest of Ward Melville, 1977.
By TBR Staff
Art, history, and giving align for a fun time at Long Island Museum’s Mount House (c. 1725) Summer Soirée fundraiser on Saturday, June 7, from 5 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. The evening will feature live music by Johnny Cuomo, craft cocktails and delicious food provided by Bliss Restaurant, a 50/50 raffle, and live painting by LIM Development associate Danielle Reischman.
“Our ability to do good programs, important lectures, great exhibitions, all the things people know us for and want to come to visit us for, rely on nights like this one. When you buy a ticket to an event like this, you support the museum and everything we do,” LIM’s Co-Executive Director Joshua Ruff said.
Ticket holders will have the rare opportunity to take part in a guided tour of the first floor of the Mount House in Stony Brook on June 7. Photo courtesy of LIM
Sponsored by Long Island Tent, M&V Limousines Ltd., Pindar Vineyards, and Carol and John Lane, guests will meet at the Long Island Museum, 1200 Route 25A, Stony Brook and then travel by shuttle bus to the the grounds of the historic Mount House, home to American genre painter William Sidney Mount (1807-1868) as well as generations of of his artistically-inclined family.
LIM staff will lead guided tours of the home’s first floor throughout the evening.
“Most of the current footprint of the house was completed by the time that William Sidney Mount’s grandfather Jonas Hawkins (1752-1817) renovated and extended it by the early 19th century,” Ruff said.
Although the house does not contain any original early artifacts or furniture, it does still boast the small markings that Mount painted on the side of the kitchen fireplace’s mantel.
Additionally for one night only, artwork and other materials from LIM’s archives, the largest repository of Mount artifacts in the world, will be on display.
“This is a great opportunity for people to see the inside of the [Mount] house, a community and historical treasure in our own backyard. Having all the resources related to Mount in archives and art collection, it is a good chance to tell the story in full,” Ruff said.
That narrative incorporates not only W.S. Mount, but his relatives: brother Shepard Alonzo Mount and niece Evelina Mount, both of whom were artists in their own rights. Some of their work will be included in the showcase.
The Mount family, particularly William, maintained strong personal and artistic ties to the Three Villages. Many of his famous works— Left and Right, The Power of Music, Long Island Farmhouses — feature local people and places, forever immortalized through his painting.
Mount’s art gives a sense of community that transcends time. The LIM strives to offer a community — one that fosters education, enrichment, an appreciation of art, and an insight into our past.
In an effort to support these endeavors, the LIM has a number of fundraisers throughout its fiscal year. Among them are a winter gala in November and an upcoming spring golf classic, held on Monday, May 19, at St. George’s Golf and Country Club in East Setauket. The format of its third major fundraiser, generally held in June, varies.
Such overtures are now particularly necessary and significant.
“It’s a challenging fundraising environment for all cultural arts institutions and nonprofits across the country. The type of work and programming and exhibitions that we bring to the community are things that people cannot get anywhere else,” LIM’s Co-Executive Director Sarah Abruzzi said.
LIM’s $134,000 Institute of Museum and Library Services (IMLS) grant was recently terminated by the federal government, potentially critically hampering its ability to create a new exhibit. The grant was supposed to support Riding Towards Justice, an interactive, immersive, accessible exhibition designed around the circa 1885 street car in the carriage museum, as well as an interpretative plan to teach people about transportation.
“Receiving the termination letter was obviously a blow,” Ruff said. “We believe in making the carriage museum a more accessible place for visitors. We are redoubling our commitment to being the best place we can be for the public…we rely on support, we need our community to come together and help us, and this is one of the ways that they can.”
This symbiotic relationship with its patrons allows the museum to develop engaging, unique programs and exhibitions that enrich and inspire visitors. The Summer Soirée is one way for people to contribute to the continuation of LIM’s services.
“It is an opportunity for everyone to get together to focus on the things that are good in the world, to spend some time learning more about local history, and a really important American artist. We are doing something great for and with the community,” Abruzzi said.
Tickets, which must be purchased in advance, are $125 each. Sponsorships are also still available. For more information or to RSVP, visit www.longislandmuseum.org.
The newly reopened Mill Creek Road. Photo courtesy the Ward Melville Heritage Organization
Mill Creek Road. Photo by Caroline O'Callaghan
Mill Creek Road. Photo by Caroline O'Callaghan
Mill Creek Road. Photo by Caroline O'Callaghan
Mill Creek Road. Photo by Caroline O'Callaghan
By Caroline O’Callaghan
Village of Head of the Harbor residents and local officials showed up Wednesday, May 7, to mark the triumphant ribbon cutting for the reopening of the scenic side street Mill Creek Road, which had been severely damaged from the catastrophic floods that occurred Aug. 18 2024, destroying the entrance to Harbor Road and the adjoining Mill Pond. Officials expressed their hope in what lies ahead for the massive reconstruction project of Harbor Road, since it is a critical access point for residents as well as emergency vehicles traveling to the nearby university hospital.
In acknowledgment, Gloria Rocchio, president of the Ward Melville Heritage Organization, spoke of the impressive completion of the road, which couldn’t have been orchestrated without the ingenuity of Excav Services Inc. Vice President Dylan Governale and team.
“I just learned this morning that these pieces of steel, each one is 30 feet long, it’s 66 pieces of steel here, and it ended up being 23 sections. So, this man worked through sleet, snow, rain, fall leaves coming down and spring coming, and he did it in six months. He’s an amazing young fellow. We congratulate you,” Rocchio spoke of Governale. “To see this completed is extraordinary. It took a lot of effort from a lot of staff people and myself, but we accomplished it in six months, and I look forward to seeing the other road [Harbor Road] completed,” she continued.
Village of Head of the Harbor Mayor Michael Utevsky was also in attendance. He recalled the early days of the road’s reconstruction as chaotic. “There was no road here, there was no bluff — the whole bluff was collapsing. Trees were falling into the creek. The creek had been diverted to this side, right against the bluff, so there was continuing erosion of the bluff,” said Utevsky. “The first thing that [Governale] did was rechannel the creek back where it belonged. Then they had to rebuild the bluff. They had to drive in the steel files. They had to put in vertical deadmen to hold it, so this is just artificially built to reconstruct what used to be here.”
Before billowing floodwaters reclaimed the street-lined bluff, the asphalt on Mill Creek had stood since 1888 and was 1 foot thick — a very prestigious feat of engineering for that time period, according to Utevsky. “Most roads in our village are old carriage paths which have very little foundation and not much asphalt, so I’m surprised by how much asphalt they found here,” Utevsky said.
Despite the celebratory turnout, officials who have been overseeing the restoration of Harbor Road and its surrounding area since August remain discouraged over the lack of progress that’s been made to the main road. Legislator Steve Englebright (D, East Setauket) felt that it was important to center the natural disaster in the discussion, rather than project blame on human failure. “The event was an act of nature…What we need to do is acknowledge that this storm — which killed three people in Connecticut and damaged the whole north central part of Long Island — wasn’t any human being’s fault. If we can acknowledge and agree to that then we can go to the next step which is to agree to work together to solve this problem,” said Englebright.
Englebright emphasized the main priority of restoring Harbor Road would be to service residents in emergency situations, he continued, “Harbor Road being out [of service] right now worries me because for the residents who might have a need for emergency care, or need to get to the university hospital right now, they have to go the long way around and that could cost lives.”
The project was not without challenges. Most of the road was done in January, then Governale had to wait for some items in order to finalize it.
Governale hopes the build can offer residents a sense of relief that the task of an effective, total restoration for Harbor Road is coming.
He said, “It will restore some normalcy to the residents that live down this road, finally.”
Sachem vs. Huntington May 12. Photo by Michael Scro, Media Origin Inc.
Sachem vs. Huntington May 12. Photo by Michael Scro, Media Origin Inc.
Sachem vs. Huntington May 12. Photo by Michael Scro, Media Origin Inc.
Sachem vs. Huntington May 12. Photo by Michael Scro, Media Origin Inc.
Sachem vs. Huntington May 12. Photo by Michael Scro, Media Origin Inc.
Sachem vs. Huntington May 12. Photo by Michael Scro, Media Origin Inc.
Sachem vs. Huntington May 12. Photo by Michael Scro, Media Origin Inc.
Sachem vs. Huntington May 12. Photo by Michael Scro, Media Origin Inc.
Sachem vs. Huntington May 12. Photo by Michael Scro, Media Origin Inc.
Sachem vs. Huntington May 12. Photo by Michael Scro, Media Origin Inc.
Sachem vs. Huntington May 12. Photo by Michael Scro, Media Origin Inc.
Sachem vs. Huntington May 12. Photo by Michael Scro, Media Origin Inc.
Sachem vs. Huntington May 12. Photo by Michael Scro, Media Origin Inc.
Sachem vs. Huntington May 12. Photo by Michael Scro, Media Origin Inc.
Sachem vs. Huntington May 12. Photo by Michael Scro, Media Origin Inc.
Sachem vs. Huntington May 12. Photo by Michael Scro, Media Origin Inc.
Sachem vs. Huntington May 12. Photo by Michael Scro, Media Origin Inc.
Sachem vs. Huntington May 12. Photo by Michael Scro, Media Origin Inc.
Sachem vs. Huntington May 12. Photo by Michael Scro, Media Origin Inc.
Sachem vs. Huntington May 12. Photo by Michael Scro, Media Origin Inc.
Sachem vs. Huntington May 12. Photo by Michael Scro, Media Origin Inc.
Sachem vs. Huntington May 12. Photo by Michael Scro, Media Origin Inc.
Sachem vs. Huntington May 12. Photo by Michael Scro, Media Origin Inc.
Sachem vs. Huntington May 12. Photo by Michael Scro, Media Origin Inc.
Sachem vs. Huntington May 12. Photo by Michael Scro, Media Origin Inc.
Sachem vs. Huntington May 12. Photo by Michael Scro, Media Origin Inc.
By Michael Scro
On May 12, Huntington girls lacrosse played Sachem North in a Division 1 matchup. Currently ranked second in Conference 1, Huntington had 11 wins entering their game against Sachem North, ranked fourth.
By the fourth quarter, the two teams were tied 4-4.
After a tough game, the Blue Devils lost 5-4. They will play Connetquot, also ranked fourth with a 9-3 record, on May 16 at 5:15 pm.
William F. Bengston, PhD, 75, of Port Jefferson passed away peacefully at his home on April 16 surrounded by his family. He is survived by his wife Margaret, his two children Brian and Elizabeth along with their spouses, four grandchildren, as well as his brother and sister.
Bill was a man of immense humor, curiosity and intelligence who loved his family dearly.He was a professor of statistics and research methods at St. Joseph’s University for 40 years, a researcher and an author.He had so many passions — he loved music and to play tennis and table tennis, he swam competitively, he loved to sail and he dedicated a lot of time to his community as a library and school board member.
Bill was trustee of Harborfields Public Library from 1982 to 1986 and involved in construction of their new library. From 1988 to 1998 he was trustee of Port Jefferson Free Library and involved in a major expansion and renovation of the library building.
He was trustee on the Port Jefferson Board of Education from 2000 to 2006 and served several terms as board president. During this time he was involved in the design, expansion and renovation of both the Elementary School and Middle School/High School libraries.
His healing research produced the first successful full cures of transplanted mammary cancer in experimental mice with the hands-on technique that he helped develop. His research continued over forty-plus years, and he has numerous peer reviewed academic publications.
In lieu of sending flowers, please consider making a donation to the Society for Scientific Exploration for which he was the president of from 2010 to 2022.https://scientificexploration.org/Donate
Yoshiko Takeshita, age 88, passed away peacefully on Feb. 24 at Sunrise of East Setauket from Alzheimer’s Disease.Her many family members and friends remember her as an outstanding, deeply kind person who always remained humble and sought to benefit others.
Yoshiko grew up in Kitakyushu, Japan and received a Bachelor of Arts from the Japan Women’s University in Tokyo.In 1969, she, her husband Masaru and her children immigrated to the United States.
While raising her 3 children, Yoshiko worked various full-time jobs, achieved a Master of Science from Stony Brook University, and became a licensed nurse practitioner at the Stony Brook University Hospital.
Specializing in oncology, Yoshiko cared over decades for patients afflicted with cancer and other diseases.SBU Hospital and her patients frequently praised her invaluable contributions.
She retired in 2002 and still remained remarkably busy, both physically and mentally. She engaged in innumerable volunteer activities with a multitude of organizations, and enjoyed hobbies and spending time with her grandkids.
Yoshiko also globe-trotted, especially for her beloved hiking, mountaineering and outdoor adventures!She even climbed the peak of Mount Kilimanjaro at age 66!
Sadly, her husband Masaru passed away on Sept. 4, 2021 from COVID-19.She is survived by her children, Konomi, Hayata and Yuhei, and her grandchildren, Kenta, Mariko, Ryohei and David.
Her exemplary service to other people, strong independence, love of nature, and determined work ethic, continue to brighten and guide the lives of those she left behind.
Arrangements were entrusted to the Bryant Funeral Home of Setauket. Please visit www.bryantfh.com to sign the online guestbook.
Many have witnessed the ongoing conversations and press surrounding the congressional budget and the potential changes to the programs so many people depend on. I would like to send a quick thank you to Congressman Nick LaLota [R-NY1] for signing the letter to House leadership on April 14 affirming his commitment to Medicaid.
Long Island members of Congress sent a letter to congressional leaders stating, “we would like to reiterate our strong support for this program that ensures our constituents have reliable health care. Balancing the federal budget must not come at the expense of those who depend on these benefits for their health and economic security.”
“Our constituents are asking for changes to the health care system that will strengthen the health care workforce, offer low-income, working-class families expanded opportunities to save for medical expenses, support rural and underserved communities and help new mothers.”
As a local volunteer advocate for the Alzheimer’s Impact Movement, I look forward to seeing these necessary programs remain intact so many of our friends and family can receive these benefits they so desperately need.
Christina Russo
Cora
Praise for Hal Sheprow
Port Jeff lost a remarkable man and I lost a friend of over 50 years, Mayor Hal Sheprow.
We served together on the planning board some 35 years ago, sometimes disagreeing. After each meeting, we and Walt Berndt would bend elbows at the Elks and bond.
Hal’s contributions cannot be overstated. To purchase the country club and make it affordable for village residents made the bond we paid a bargain. Hal never took enough credit for it. !t was visionary!
Unfortunately, I found out about his funeral too late. My very best to his wonderful wife, Peg, and his kids.
Fred Levine
Jefferson’s Ferry
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The Smithtown Library's Main Branch reopened the first floor on May 5. Photo by Sabrina Artusa
For eight months, the Smithtown library’s Main Branch on North Country Road was closed. Readers were able to visit other branches, but the library is more than just a place to exchange books.
The library is certainly a hub of ideas and information, full of fiction, nonfiction and history. It is also an essential resource for those who need to use a computer but don’t have one, or would like access to free wifi. One of the few places where economic class doesn’t play a role, the library provides a haven with no spending expectations. You can learn how to play mahjong or fold a piece of paper into an intricate origami figure. Gardening clubs and sewing clubs meet regularly. Offering a podcast and community room, the library provided the setting for numerous friendly conversations.
Walking through the doors again on May 5, patrons are greeted by friendly staff. In the entrance corridor, a television plays recordings from the destructive rains of August 19 and a sped-up recording of the subsequent work. In one recording, water pushes furniture and shelves around like toys. Books float away and out of the recording. In another, the murky brown water slowly fills the hall until suddenly, the pressure pushes out the wall. In a picture, books lay in piles across the floor–any reader would cringe at the sight. The library is back though, and will return fully in coming months, with the bottom and second floors open and services and programs once again available. However, the status of libraries is precarious as the administration looks to cut funding.
When the Smithtown building closed, many card-holders travelled to other branches. When the federal government began eliminating grants to libraries, we imagined what we would do without an accessible library.
The Institute of Museum and Library Services is not guaranteed. While libraries will still exist without the small federal agency, which only employed around 70 people and from the perspective of the federal government is unnecessary, they may not receive grants for programming or internships. Recently, a judge blocked a move to place its employees on temporary leave, giving the institute a reprieve. However, the agency is still at risk of getting washed out; it is possible resources and programs will get carried away by the swift stream of government efficiency.
In the meantime though, the wonderful librarians and administrators at the Smithtown library are ensuring that residents have access to the wealth of knowledge inside.