Members of the Setauket Harbor Task Force. Photo from George Hoffman
Save the Sound’s most recent report card states that inner and outer Port Jefferson Harbor, as well as middle Port Jefferson Harbor (Setauket Harbor), are among Long Island Sound’s top five waterways, boasting strong water chemistry. Water chemistry ratings indicate that a body of water has healthy chemical conditions that support aquatic life and overall ecosystem health.
This is something to celebrate, as stormwater systems have steadily reduced our harbors’ nitrogen levels over the past 30 years.
However, despite our improved knowledge of waste disposal and our diligent efforts to test our water’s chemical and bacterial levels, more work remains to be done.
August’s devastating storm served as a stark reminder that Mother Nature is a powerful force. Despite our area’s best efforts, advanced technologies, and state-of-the-art flood safeguards, millions of dollars in damage proved that even our best preventive efforts can be in vain.
That is why we must not remain stagnant in our efforts to protect our island. Worsening weather conditions can easily overshadow even our most cautious endeavors. Following the recent storm, bacteria levels in Stony Brook Harbor and neighboring waterways spiked, creating an unsuitable environment for aquatic life—not to mention the dozens of fish that washed up on our streets.
So, TBR implores you: Please continue your efforts to keep our environment clean and safe. Properly dispose of household chemicals and waste, minimize fertilizer and pesticide use, and maintain your car to prevent leaks.
Don’t forget to pick up litter you see in the streets and be mindful of your own waste. Community cleanups are frequently held in our coverage areas, providing not only a great way to keep our environment pristine but also an opportunity to connect with fellow community members. Water conservation is crucial, as well. It helps maintain healthy water levels in rivers, lakes, and estuaries, preventing excessive pollution concentration, protecting our aquatic ecosystems, and ensuring sufficient water for recreation and wildlife survival.
Bask in the success of our environmental consciousness, but don’t rest on your laurels. Together, we can make Long Island cleaner and safer for our ecosystems than ever before!
It’s back, bigger than ever, with an added Peter-and-the-Wolf style musical debut.
This year’s version of Science on Stage at Stony Brook University, which brings together the research and life experiences of three scientists with the artistic interpretation and creative talents of three playwrights, focuses on the theme of climate change.
Before the reading of the plays at the free October 28th event at the Staller Center’s Recital Hall, a group of eight high school students and two graduate students will perform an original piece of music composed by Professor Margaret Schedel called “Carnival of the Endangered Animals” (see accompanying story below).
Christine Gilbert with graduate student Emily Gelardi. Photo by Conor Harrigan
The event, which has a seating capacity of 379, which is almost triple the potential audience size from last year, and requires advance registration, is sponsored by the Collaborative for the Earth (C4E).
The organizers of Science on Stage “want people to be thinking about [climate change] from new ways or with new perspectives,” said Heather Lynch, inaugural director of the C4E and Endowed Chair for Ecology and Evolution at Stony Brook’s Institute for Advanced Computational Science and Professor in the Department of Ecology and Evolution.
In these performances, professional actors, directed by Logan Vaughn, share a dramatic reading of the scripts, titled “Ghost Forest,” “Counterfactual,” and “Resplendence.” After the performance, the scientists and playwrights will participate in a question and answer session led by Lecturer J.D. Allen, who is managing editor of NPR affiliate WSHU.
Provost Carl Lejuez, whose office provides funding for the C4E, celebrated the ongoing collaboration between the humanities and the sciences.
“Science on Stage is one of our true interdisciplinary gems,” Lejuez explained. “In a time of such misinformation, the arts provide such a powerful vehicle to communicate science in accessible and inspiring ways.”
Indeed, in addition to hearing an original piece of music and listening to a reading of the plays, audience members will have the opportunity to share their perspectives on climate science before and after the performance.
Christine Gilbert, who holds a joint appointment at the School of Communication and Journalism and the School of Marine and Atmospheric Sciences and is one of the participating scientists, is conducting a study of the effect of the experience with audience members.
Attendees can participate in a short mobile-based survey before the plays and immediately afterwards. A social scientist, Gilbert will follow up with those members who are willing to engage in individual interviews in the weeks after the performance.
Event organizers wanted to know “what is it that’s so magical in the intersection between science, humanity and art” that drew a crowd so large last year that the fire marshal had to turn people away, said Gilbert.
By polling the audience, Gilbert, who was one of the people who couldn’t watch the show last year, hopes to explore the effect of teaching complex science in this forum.
She also hopes to assess how audience members feel after hearing more about climate change and plans to share what she learns with Stony Brook and with the broader scientific community through a published paper.
Heavy and humorous
The scientists and the playwrights appreciated the opportunity to learn from each other and to engage in a creative effort designed to use science, or the life of scientists, to appeal to audiences.
Lynch, who participated in the Science on Stage effort last year, suggested that this year’s plays are powerful and evocative.
“These are deep, adult serious issues,” she said, cautioning that the language includes some cursing and that the themes include loss, parenthood and grief. “This is not Disney.”
To be sure, the plays blend a wide range of emotions.
“With short plays that deal with heavier topics, playwrights will gravitate towards humor,” said Ken Weitzman, Founder and Associate Professor of Theater at Stony Brook, who started Science on Stage virtually in 2020. “It’s how we engage” and commune with an audience.
Counterfactual
Playwright Mat Smart
Author of the play “The Agitators,” about a true narrative describing the 45-year friendship between suffragist Susan B. Anthony and abolitionist Frederick Douglass, Smart said he has taken long Uber rides with people whose views differ from his, leading to spirited conversations.
When Smart described his experiences to Reed, they discovered they had similar interactions.
While much of the script involves a combination of conversations and ideas, Smart explained that part of the dialogue in the play came from a discussion he and Reed had about food choices and climate change.
The interaction about cheeseburgers is “based on something [Reed] said to me,” Smart said. Reed explained the high carbon footprint of a cheeseburger, although he urged Smart to cut back rather than eliminate them from his diet.
“The play is about two people who see things very differently who choose to have a dialogue and to have a tough conversation,” said Smart. “They’re both affected by it.”
Ghost forest
Playwright Gab Reisman
Elizabeth Watson, Associate Professor in the Department of Ecology & Evolution, teamed up with Gab Reisman, who wrote “Ghost Forest.”
In this play, a climate researcher’s subjects spring to life as she writes an important grant proposal.
While it doesn’t reflect how field research or grant writing typically goes, it does capture “some things that have happened to me,” Watson said.
Her field work has involved considerable challenges, including getting stuck in the mud, being covered in ticks, crawling across mudflats, and being abandoned on a raft in a lagoon.
Watson appreciates how the artistic effort allows her to connect with people who probably aren’t the same ones who would read a publication she wrote or come to a presentation.
She also added that the world has what it needs to deal with climate change and that people need to understand the kinds of partnerships and actions that make a difference.
Resplendence
Playwright Kareem Fahmy
After speaking with Gilbert, playwright Kareem Fahmy wrote “Resplendence,” which follows three generations of a family who try to save their island off the coast of Maine.
The New England State is an important setting for playwright and scientist.
“Maine has such a special place in my heart,” said Gilbert, who has family in the state and attended college at the University of Maine. The pull of the “wild, eastern coast of Maine is so ubiquitous.”
Gilbert appreciated how Fahmy did a “great job of personalizing the context” of the state.
The challenge of preserving destinations, particularly those close to sea level, will likely persist.
“When you do any research about climate change, you have to be aware that this is not just a problem for people living today, but for people 200 years from now,” Gilbert said.
Weitzman said the play was an epic despite its short running time and thought it was “quite touching.”
Beyond the performance
Weitzman suggested that the plays can provide an educational component beyond the confines of the Staller Recital Hall.
While people can’t produce the plays as part of paid entertainment, teachers can read and use them in the classroom. Actors Bill Heck, April Matthis, Tina Benko, Mandi Masden and Taylor Crousore will provide dramatic reading of the plays.
In a short time, the actors are “practically off the book,” as they embrace the opportunity to bring the words to life, Weitzman said.
He suggested the plays offer a glimpse into researchers’ lives. “Here is this person on the front lines. I’m surprised at the angles that are taken” in these plays.
Stony Brook University’s Staller Center for the Arts, 100 Nicolls Road, Stony Brook will present this year’s Science on Stage: Climate Edition on Monday, Oct. 28 at 4 p.m. Doors open at 3:30 p.m. The event is free and open to the public but reservations are strongly recommended.
To register, go to: https://bit.ly/4dcDtsi or click here.
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SBU’s Margaret Schedel brings endangered species to life through musi
Margaret Schedel discusses the ‘Carnival of the Endangered Animals’ with the band and conductor Justin Stolarik during rehearsal. Photo by Heather Lynch
Science on Stage at Stony Brook University added a new dimension to the performance this year, as Margaret Schedel, Associate Professor of Music, composed “Carnival of the Endangered Animals.” The original music, which will debut on Oct. 28 at 4 p.m. at the Staller Center’s Recital Hall, is a recreation of the sounds of a wide range of animals who are in danger of becoming extinct.
“It’s melodic, interrupted by moments of trying to translate” the calls from these animals, Schedel said.
Ken Weitzman, Founder and Associate Professor at Stony Brook, appreciates how quickly music can resonate for audiences.
“Music appeals to the emotions,” said Weitzman. “I’m jealous of how quickly music can do in 10 seconds what it takes me hours to do.”
The animals featured in the piece, along with the instrument that captures their sounds, are: the Atlantic Right Whale (Marimba); the A’kikiki bird, which is a Hawaiian honeycreeper (flute); Sumatran Tiger (trumpet); sage grouse (clarinet); Bajii, which is a Yangtze river dolphin; and the Jiangtun, which is a Yangtze finless porpoise (four-hand piano); gorilla (french horn); African bush elephant (trombone); Koala (bassoon); and the penguin (oboe).
Schedel plans to share information about each piece, which eight area high school students and two graduate students will perform, with the audience through a QR code, so they can connect the sounds with the message or visuals she was conveying.
Schedel tried to use a logical progression of the instruments, mixing up the woodwinds, percussion and brass.
Threatened by land development, the sage grouse includes high and low notes from the clarinet that gets covered up by the sounds of a flute and trumpet, imitating the sounds excavators make when they back up and develop McMansions.
Endangered by the spread of avian malaria carried by mosquitoes, the Hawaiian A’kikiki bird had been able to evade these insects by traveling higher up the mountain, where the colder temperatures kills the mosquitoes. That is not happening as much because global warming is enabling the blood sucking creatures to survive at higher elevation.
The sage grouse music starts with a melodic theme on the flute and as it goes higher, the theme becomes compressed. The buzzing brass, meanwhile, gets louder and louder as the mosquito pursues its meal, infecting the bird with a lethal parasite.
Reflecting the struggle for survival these creatures face, the Yangtze river dolphin, which had about 20 members when Schedel first started composing the music, may have become extinct by the time of the performance. That is, in part, why she combined the dolphin and the finless porpoise on the four hand piano.
As for the sounds of the elephant, Schedel recalled a safari she had experienced when she had been in South Africa. Elephants charged at Schedel and her group, who had come too close to the younger ones in the herd.
The elephants growled at Schedel and her companions.
“You can feel it in your chest, the sound waves moving,” she said. “Little by little, the younger ones put up their trunks and eventually a big momma elephant with a broken tusk put up her trunk, which is a symbol of, “we are calm,’” she said. With the trombone representing the elephant, the bass drum connotes its growling sounds.
When she was growing up, Schedel listened to the Leonard Bernstein version of “Peter and the Wolf” so many times that the recording is “nearly dead,” she laughed. She hopes people enjoy her piece with the same energy and excitement, connecting the sounds and the stories with the endangered animals.
Schedel described the experience of creating the music as a “labor of love.”
Addressing sleep apnea can avert serious health consequences
By David Dunaief, M.D.
Dr. David Dunaief
Quality sleep feels like it can be elusive these days. Yet, our physical and mental wellbeing depends on getting restful sleep. For those with obstructive sleep apnea (OSA), it can be particularly challenging.
Sleep apnea is defined as an abnormal breathing pause that occurs at least five times an hour while sleeping. While there are many potential causes, the most common is airway obstruction. Some estimates suggest that about 39 million people suffer from sleep apnea in the United States (1).
OSA diagnoses are classified in tiers from mild to severe. The American Academy of Sleep Medicine (AASM) estimates that roughly 80 percent of moderate and severe OSA sufferers are undiagnosed.
Most risk factors for OSA are modifiable. They include excess weight or obesity, alcohol use, smoking, hypertension, type 2 diabetes, and hyperlipidemia (high cholesterol) (2).
How do you know what to look for?
OSA symptoms include daytime fatigue, loud snoring, breathing cessation observed by another, impaired concentration, and morning headaches. While these are significant quality of life issues, OSA is also associated with an array of more serious health consequences, such as cardiovascular disease, high blood pressure and depression.
Fortunately, there is an array of treatment options, including continuous positive airway pressure (CPAP) devices, oral appliances, positional sleep therapy, and lifestyle modifications.
Sleep apnea and cardiovascular disease risk
In a study of 1,116 women over a six-year duration, cardiovascular mortality risk increased in a linear fashion with the severity of OSA (3). For those with mild-to-moderate untreated sleep apnea, there was a 60 percent increased risk of death; for those in the severe group, this risk jumped to 250 percent. However, the good news is that treating patients with CPAP decreased their risk by 81 percent for mild-to-moderate patients and 45 percent for severe OSA patients.
Another study of 1,500 men with a 10-year follow-up showed similar risks of cardiovascular disease with sleep apnea and benefits from CPAP treatment (4). The authors concluded that severe sleep apnea increases the risk of nonfatal and fatal cardiovascular events, and CPAP was effective in curbing these occurrences.
In a third study, this time involving the elderly, OSA increased the risk of cardiovascular death in mild-to-moderate patients and in those with severe OSA by 38 and 125 percent, respectively (5). But, as in the previous studies, CPAP decreased the risk in both groups significantly. In the elderly, an increased risk of falls, cognitive decline and difficult-to-control high blood pressure may be signs of OSA.
OSA and cancer risk
There have been conflicting study results about the associations between OSA and cancer risk. To reconcile these, a 2023 study of over 62,000 patients in Sweden were followed. Researchers found that OSA was associated with cancer prevalence, independent of other confounding factors (6).
In a previous study of sleep apnea patients under age 65, researchers also showed an increased risk of cancer (7). The greater the percentage of time patients spend in hypoxia (low oxygen) at night, the greater the risk. The authors believe that intermittent low levels of oxygen, caused by the many frequent short bouts of breathing cessation, may be responsible for the development of tumors and their subsequent growth.
OSA and male sexual function
Erectile dysfunction (ED) may also be associated with OSA and, like other outcomes, CPAP may decrease this incidence. This was demonstrated in a small study involving 92 men with ED (8). The surprising aspects of this study were that, at baseline, the participants were overweight, not obese, on average and were only 45 years old. In those with mild OSA, CPAP had a beneficial effect in more than 50 percent of the men. For those with moderate and severe OSA, the effect was still significant, though not as robust, at 29 and 27 percent, respectively.
Other studies have varying results, depending on the age and existing health challenges of study participants. Researchers have suggested that other underlying health problems may be the cause in some patient populations.
Can diet help with OSA?
For some of my patients, their goal is to discontinue their CPAP. Diet may be an alternative to CPAP, or it may be used in combination with CPAP to improve results.
In a small study of those with moderate-to-severe OSA, a low-energy diet showed positive results. A low-energy diet implies a low-calorie approach, such as a diet that is plant-based and nutrient-rich. In the study, almost 50 percent of those who followed this type of diet were able to discontinue CPAP (9). The results endured for at least one year.
If you think you are suffering from sleep apnea, you should be evaluated at a sleep lab and follow up with your physician.
References:
(1) ncoa.org. (2) Diseases. 2021 Dec; 9(4): 88. (3) Ann Intern Med. 2012 Jan 17;156(2):115-122. (4) Lancet. 2005 Mar 19-25;365(9464):1046-1053. (5) Am J Respir Crit Care Med. 2012;186(9):909-916. (6) BMJ Open. 2023; 13(3): e064501. (7) Am J Respir Crit Care Med. 2012 Nov. 15. (8) Sleep. 2012;35:A0574. (9) BMJ. 2011;342:d3017.
Dr. David Dunaief is a speaker, author and local lifestyle medicine physician focusing on the integration of medicine, nutrition, fitness and stress management. For further information, visit www.medicalcompassmd.com or consult your personal physician.
Welcome to the 34th edition of Paw Prints, a monthly column for animal lovers dedicated to helping shelter pets find their furever home.
Sweet Pea
Meet Sweet Pea
This adorable four-month-old calico kitten at Kent Animal Shelter in Calverton is looking for her forever home. Rescued and ready to share her love, she’s playful and full of personality. If you’re ready to add a furry friend to your family, consider adopting Sweet Pea! Drop by the shelter to meet her today! 631-727-5731
Romeo
Meet Romeo
This star-crossed lover is Romeo, a ten year old Poodle mix up for adoption at Little Shelter in Huntington. Ready to pledge his loyalty and devotion, he’s outspoken about his feelings, declaring he’s ready to find his soulmate. Full of life, he enjoys walks, harmless kennel gossip, and, of course, treats! With a decade of experience under his collar, he knows the value of friendships and promises to always be a true blue companion. Warm and cuddly, he’s the perfect one to have next to your side on classic movie night or while trying to make sense of Shakespeare. Romeo, Romeo, wherefore art thou Romeo? You’ll find this handsome fellow at Little Shelter Animal Rescue and Adoption Center! 631-368-8770
Cinnamon and Cider
Meet Cinnamon and Cider!
These two 10-month-old purebred Olde English Bulldogs are as sweet as pumpkin pie! They were living outside and were absolutely filthy when they arrived at Save-A-Pet in Port Jefferson Station and immediately were bathed. They were just spayed and completely vetted and are now available for adoption. Super gentle, big girls, Cider (on the left) is black and white while Cinnamon brindle and white. Come meet these precious sisters today! 631-473-6333
Dobby
Meet Dobby
Say hello to Dobby, a lovable Great Dane mix at Brookhaven Animal Shelter who’s around 5 years old and ready to find his forever home. With his impressive size and those delightfully floppy ears, Dobby is the ultimate goofball who’s sure to bring a smile to your face! Dobby came to the shelter as a stray, and now he’s eager to settle into a home where he can be the center of attention. This sweet boy is looking for a place where he can be the only pet—no other animals or kids—so he can soak up all the love and affection you have to offer. He loves playing with tennis balls and stuffed toys and adores belly rubs and he’s always eager for some affection from his people. He’s up to date on all his vaccines, heartworm testing, and has been neutered, so he’s all set to start his new life with you. 631-451-6955
Anxiety and Ennui
Meet Ennui and Anxiety
These adorable kittens having been waiting to be adopted at the Smithtown Animal Shelter since June. Big fans of the movie Inside/Out, the shelter staff has named them Ennui and Anxiety. At 7 months old, this playful brother and sister pair just need time to trust people. They are bonded and the shelter staff would like to see them adopted together if possible. If you are interested in meeting these two cuties, please call ahead to schedule an hour to properly interact with them in the Meet and Greet Room. 631-360-7575
BARKTOBERFEST CELEBRATION
From Oct. 27 to 31, the Town of Brookhaven Animal Shelter, 300 Horseblock Road, Brookhaven offers free adoptions for all dogs and cats from Oct. 27 to 31 which includes neuter or spay, vaccinations, microchip, and license.
Rescue is a lifestyle. Adopt, don’t shop.
Check out the next Paw Prints in the issue of November 14.
Paw Prints is generously sponsored by Mark T. Freeley, Esq.
SBU's Elizabeth Watson, second from right, and her team coring.
By Daniel Dunaief
Daniel Dunaief
I used to liken the process to sitting on a highway divider where the speed limit was 70 miles per hour, holding a notebook and trying to read and record as many license plates as I could, sometimes in the pouring rain, under a bright sun, or in thick fog.
Working for a wire service, with its 24-hour news feed and its endless space for stories, was exhilarating and exhausting. My editors sometimes called me at 4 a.m. to tell me about an important story that was breaking and to encourage me to come into the office to get to work.
Oh, and every three months, when the companies I covered reported earnings, I’d arrive at work for at least a week around 7 in the morning, wait for the numbers to come out, and then spend the day reading the reports, talking with analysts and investors, getting on media conference calls with top executives and watching the stock price of the company rise and fall.
My job was to search through all that information to anticipate how people would react to piles of electronic news.
It was a great opportunity to write on deadline and to experience the absurd. One day, I helped write a few headlines and then had to use the bathroom. As I pushed the door open, my editor, following uncomfortably closely behind me, hovered.
“Can I help you?” I asked, as I stopped and turned around.
“Yeah, how long are you going to be in here?” he asked in his usual staccato, urgent tone.
“As long as it takes,” I shrugged.
“Yeah, well, there’s a headline out there and you need to send out the first version of the story within 15 minutes,” he reminded me, as if I didn’t know our rules.
“I know,” I said, “and I’m sure my system will comply with the requirements.”
Those were tough days at the office.
I’m sure everyone has difficult days at work, whether it’s a police officer dealing with someone who is in an altered, drug-induced state who may be a danger to himself or others, a teacher helping a high-stress student prepare for a standardized test, a truck driver taking a long detour around a crash site, or any of the many other possible strains or obstacles between the start of the day and the workload.
Recently, I spoke with several climate scientists who are a part of the Science on Stage free celebration at Stony Brook University’s Staller Center, which is coming up on October 28th at 4 p.m. (see related story in the Arts & Lifestyles section).
These scientists endure everything from creature discomforts, to resistance to the work they’re doing, to their own deadlines and the need to conduct their studies, publish their results and apply for funding.
Indeed, Elizabeth Watson, Associate Professor in the Department of Ecology & Evolution at Stony Brook University, shared several challenging moments.
“I’ve gotten stuck in the mud, covered with ticks, I’ve gotten Lyme, crawled across mudflats, pushed boats across mudflats, had to row our power boat back to the launch ramp more than once, [and] got forgotten about on a raft in a lagoon,” Watson wrote in an email.
Each of those challenges could have become the focal point of action for a biopic about a scientist.
Heather Lynch, Professor in the Department of Ecology & Evolution, explained that her research on penguins in Antarctica requires considerable advanced planning.
“The main challenge of working in Antarctica is really the uncertainty imposed by the weather and logistics,” she explained in an email. “It’s not enough to have Plan B, it’s more like Plan B through Plan F and then some. Covid and now avian flu have made an already difficult situation even harder.”
Still, at their most challenging moments, waiting for the weather to change, hoping someone will remember to pick them up, or living without creature comforts, these researchers find joy and derive satisfaction in doing valuable and constructive work.
“I’m like a bricklayer, adding more bricks to an enormous wall of knowledge that was started long before I started working on penguins and will continue to be built long after,” Lynch wrote.
Or, to put it another way, Watson wrote that “I love my job! No regrets.”
My college class is hosting a forum on friendship and how to define it. During this time, when loneliness seems to be a problem for many, what role should friendship play, especially in our later years?
I read someplace, not too long ago, that most people claim to have five or six good friends, and that is ideal, according to the professionals who study this subject. It made me think about how many good friends I have, and whether I have the requisite number for a happy life.
What makes people become friends?
Perhaps friends play a different role in one’s life at different stages. I tried to remember the friends I had in my earliest years. There was Evelyn in Second Grade. What attracted me to her was her ability to draw. I was enamored with The Lone Ranger at that point, read as many books by Fran Striker (who I later learned was Frances, a woman author) as I could find, and I asked Evelyn to draw scenes from the books for me. I would give her some particulars, and she would follow up and make drawings on looseleaf sheets of paper that illustrated the vignettes I would describe to her. And she did so quickly, as I talked, which was amazing.
Why did she do that for me? She was terrible in arithmetic, and I would do her homework for her, probably as quickly as she could draw. So we had a mutual attraction as a result of our individual skills. Also she lived down the block from my family’s apartment, and we would walk home together from school. So convenience and mutual needs played a part in encouraging friendship.
It all ended, of course, when the teacher realized I was doing her homework. It was innocent enough. I never meant to abort her learning and hope she caught on to numbers and what one could do with them.
I went to an all-girls junior high school that only one other classmate entered, and she was put into a different section, so I had no friends immediately. But I was attracted to a small group who came from the other side of town and seemed to have a lot of fun with each other.
They were sophisticated. In particular, they would slip out of school 15 minutes before the end of the last class, run down the stairs of the subway outside the school building and ride to the Broadway Theater District, where they would arrive just as the plays would break for intermission.
When the audience members would then walk back in, they would, too, and carefully find empty seats. In that way, they saw the second act of some of the most famous musicals of the 1950s. I wanted desperately to be part of that group, and somehow they accepted me. They were my junior high friends, and I still think of them fondly.
So common interests make for friendships.
In high school and college, my friends were a couple of classmates that I most admired. They brought different ideas to class and had the courage to speak about the subjects in an original way. There were others, too, who were enjoyable companions throughout those early years, and with whom I kept up until we each went our separate ways after we married and moved from New York. But I kept in touch with those original two I most respected. So respect is another factor in deep friendships.
As we had children, our friends most often were the parents of their friends, which was convenient. And we had friends from work. But then, our children grew up, left the nest, and we were again on our own, with the time to rediscover old friends who were witnesses to our earlier years and to make new ones.
Witnesses and shared experiences now make for strong glue in friendship. And mutual admiration, loyalty and empathy for all that has happened and is happening to us as we age, are powerful bonds among friends.
If you are a parent of a young child, you have probably heard that you should have a will. But do you know why? There are two main reasons a parent of a minor child needs a Last Will and Testament and, in some cases, a revocable living trust. The first is to create a testamentary trust to hold assets distributable to the child who cannot legally inherit assets as a minor. The second is to name a guardian in the event both parents pass away before the child reaches the age of eighteen.
So, what happens if you die without a will or trust? This is referred to as dying “intestate.” If you die intestate, to the extent that you have assets in your sole name, they will be distributed according to the state’s intestate succession statute.
In New York, the spouse inherits the first $50,000 of your assets and the balance is distributed 50% to the spouse and 50% to the child(ren). This is usually not practical for a married couple, since most people want the surviving spouse to inherit everything, with children inheriting only upon the death of both parents.
If you are not married and 100% of the assets go to your child(ren) or if you are married and it is only 50%, the default scenario is incredibly inefficient. If assets are to be paid out to a minor rather than to a testamentary trust created by your will or trust, a guardian of the property will be appointed by the court to handle the finances. Even if a family member or friend is eventually appointed, the court still appoints a guardian-ad-litem to represent the interests of the child. This is expensive, intrusive and ongoing. An annual budget is required and any deviations must be approved by the court.
Furthermore, the assets remain in an account that is held jointly with the court and can only be accessed by court order. Additionally, the child will be able to take possession of all remaining assets at either 18 or 21 years of age – a time when the child may be too emotionally immature or inexperienced with finances to handle this sum of money.
It makes sense to engage in estate planning that creates a trust for the benefit of your child(ren) upon your death. Any life insurance, bank accounts or retirement assets can list the trust as beneficiary. Organizing the disposition of your assets is crucial to making sure that those that are dependent upon you will be cared for at the time of your death.
Beyond the finances, there is the consideration of physical custody or guardianship of the minor child. If both parents pass away without a will that nominates a guardian, someone must petition the court to be appointed. This someone could be anyone, not necessarily the individual(s) you would choose to raise your child in your absence. This could lead to different family members or friends asserting control, with a judge ultimately deciding who will take on this responsibility.
The simple solution to make this awful situation smoother for those you leave behind is to prepare a will. That way you can choose who will raise your child, who will handle your child’s inheritance and under what circumstances your child will inherit.
Britt Burner, Esq. is a Partner at Burner Prudenti Law, P.C. focusing her practice areas on Estate Planning and Elder Law. Burner Prudenti Law, P.C. serves clients from New York City to the east end of Long Island with offices located in East Setauket, Westhampton Beach, Manhattan and East Hampton.
Art Billadello of Setauket snapped this beautiful photo of a burning bush showing off its fall colors in his backyard overlooking Setauket Harbor on Oct. 15.
Pumpkin pie spice has gone from an occasional ingredient used primarily in Thanksgiving pies to becoming the unofficial flavor of autumn. While you can buy the pre-made stuff from the grocery store, it’s super easy—and more cost-effective—to whisk up a batch of pumpkin pie spice at home. Then try these recipes for delicious Pumpkin Swirl Brownies or a Pumpkin Coffee Cake to celebrate the bountiful fall harvest, courtesy of Sarah Bates of The Chef Next Door or some Pumpkin Pie Spice Popcorn for your next movie night, courtesy of Popcorn.org.
Pumpkin Pie Spice Blend
INGREDIENTS:
3 tbsp. ground cinnamon
2 tsp. ground ginger
2 tsp. nutmeg
1 1/2 tsp. ground allspice
1 1/2 tsp. ground cloves
DIRECTIONS:
Whisk together cinnamon, ginger, nutmeg, allspice, and cloves in a small bowl until well combined. Store in a small jar.
Pumpkin Swirl Brownies
Pumpkin Swirl Brownie
YIELD: Makes 12 servings
INGREDIENTS:
For the Brownies
2 sticks butter, unsalted, room temperature
1 1/4 cups sugar
3 eggs
1 teaspoon vanilla
2 cups flour
1/2 cup cocoa powder
1/4 teaspoon salt
For the Pumpkin Swirl
4 ounces cream cheese, room temperature
1/4 cup sugar
1/2 cup pumpkin puree
1 egg
1 teaspoon pumpkin pie spice
DIRECTIONS:
Preheat the oven to 350° F. Spray a 9 x 13 baking pan with cooking spray and set aside.
In the bowl of a stand mixer, beat the butter and sugar until light and fluffy. Add the eggs, one at a time, beating well after each addition. Add in the vanilla. In a small bowl whisk together the flour, cocoa powder and salt. Add the dry ingredients to the mixer in a few additions, until just combined. Spread the batter evenly into the prepared pan.
In a medium bowl beat the cream cheese and sugar together until smooth. Add the pumpkin puree, egg, and pumpkin pie spice and mix until well combined. Drop spoonfuls of the pumpkin batter onto the brownie batter in the pan. Use a knife to gently swirl the pumpkin batter into the brownie batter using a figure-eight pattern.
Bake the brownies for 30 to 40 minutes, or until a cake tester or toothpick inserted into the center of the brownies comes out clean. Allow the brownies to cool completely before cutting. Store any leftovers in an airtight container.
Pumpkin Coffee Cake
Pumpkin Coffee Cake
YIELD: Makes 12 servings
INGREDIENTS:
For the topping:
4 tablespoons butter, unsalted – melted
1/3 cup brown sugar, packed
1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract
1/4 teaspoon salt
3/4 cup all-purpose flour
For the cake:
3/4 cup canned pumpkin
1/2 cup granulated sugar
1/2 cup vegetable oil
1/2 cup yogurt, plain Greek
2 eggs
1 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
1 1/2 teaspoons pumpkin pie spice
1 teaspoon baking powder
1 teaspoon baking soda
1/4 teaspoon salt
DIRECTIONS:
Preheat the oven to 350° F. Spray an 8-inch square pan with non-stick cooking spray.
To make the topping, whisk together the butter, brown sugar, vanilla and salt until smooth. Stir in the flour and set aside.
To make the cake, in a large bowl, whisk together the pumpkin, sugar, oil, yogurt and eggs. In a separate bowl, whisk together the flour, pumpkin pie spice, baking powder, baking soda and salt. Stir the flour mixture into the pumpkin mixture until just combined.
Spread the batter in the prepared pan. Sprinkle the topping evenly over the batter. Bake for 35-40 minutes, or until a cake tester inserted into the center of the cake comes out clean.
Let the cake cool completely on a wire rack before cutting and serving
Pumpkin Pie Spice Popcorn
Pumpkin Pie Spice Popcorn
YIELD: Makes 12 servings
INGREDIENTS:
12 cups unsalted, unbuttered popped popcorn
3 cups chopped white chocolate or white chocolate chips
1 tablespoon light olive oil
2 teaspoons pumpkin pie spice
1/2 cup toffee bits
1 teaspoon flaked sea salt, crushed
DIRECTIONS:
Line large, rimmed baking sheet with parchment paper or wax paper. Place popcorn in large mixing bowl.
In microwave-safe bowl, combine white chocolate, olive oil and pumpkin pie spice; microwave on medium 2-3 minutes, or until melted and smooth, stirring after each minute.
Pour melted white chocolate mixture over popcorn; add toffee bits and toss to combine. Transfer to prepared baking sheet, spreading to edges of pan; sprinkle sea salt over top.
Let cool; refrigerate 1-2 hours, or until set. Break into chunks for serving.
This week’s featured shelter pets are Joy and Envy, available for adoption at the Smithtown Animal Shelter. These charming, all-black, domestic short-haired, females are only nine months old. When these sisters arrived at the shelter as teeny baby kittens, they were both incredibly timid and shy. After receiving lots of TLC from the team at the shelter, these two have blossomed into affectionate, lovable little ladies ready to find their forever family.
Joy and Envy’s warm and loving nature is evident to anyone fortunate enough to make their acquaintance. Aside from being absolutely gorgeous, these two are extremely sweet and playful. Expect a double dose of purring, lap naps and snuggles while in the company of these fabulous fur babies. These sisters will entertain themselves for hours with a supply of kitty toys, providing one lucky family with an unlimited amount of laughter and amusement. Joy and Envy would thrive in most homes, including a family with other cats, calm dogs, and older children. They are sisters who have never been separated and would do best if adopted together.
If you are interested in meeting Joy and Envy, please fill out an application to schedule time to properly interact with your prospective soul mate in a domestic setting
The Town of Smithtown Animal & Adoption Shelter is located at 410 Middle Country Road, Smithtown. Visitor hours are Monday to Saturday from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. (Sundays and Wednesday evenings by appointment only). For more information, call 631-360-7575.