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By Jennifer Donatelli

The Leo B. Ostebo Kings Park Heritage Museum, located inside Ralph J. Osgood Intermediate School (RJO) in Kings Park, offers visitors a rare glimpse into the everyday lives, struggles and technological advances that shaped the 20th century.

Nestled in a quiet corner of town, the museum boasts an impressive collection of vintage items spanning key historical periods. From the late 1800s to the rise of modern appliances, iconic cars and the enduring appeal of typewriters, cameras and electronics, it provides a fascinating gateway to history.

The museum’s creation was inspired by the closing of the Kings Park Psychiatric Center, one of the country’s largest, oldest and most medically significant mental hospitals. Retired Kings Park High School history and English teacher Leo Ostebo, along with two other townspeople and a group of high school students, opened what remains the only school community-managed museum in the United States.

Developed, maintained and cultivated for educational purposes, the museum’s mission is to preserve the town’s rich historic past and educate youth, the community and the public.

The 6,000-square-foot museum features nine rooms, each with a distinct theme. One of its most captivating rooms pays tribute to wars fought and soldiers who died for the country. The collection includes military uniforms, helmets, ration cards and other artifacts, offering a powerful glimpse into the lives of soldiers and civilians during turbulent times. Military equipment such as tools, gas masks and communication devices is displayed alongside personal items like photographs, providing an intimate perspective on history.

“Grandma’s Kingdom,” another themed room, showcases the evolution of domestic life, highlighting kitchen appliances such as 1940s refrigerators and iceboxes alongside hand-powered washers and dryers from the late 1800s. The exhibit offers a nostalgic look at innovations that shaped family life in the early 20th century. Visitors can also marvel at dolls, wooden strollers and bassinets from pre-World War I, and period clothing and furniture.

For car enthusiasts, the museum’s collection of vintage automobiles is a standout. Highlights include a 1923 Ford Model T, owned by Gary Richards, founder of P.C. Richard & Son, and a 1931 Plymouth that cost $535 at the time and features a rumble seat. These vehicles showcase the evolution of automotive design and the golden age of engineering.

The electronics room celebrates the typewriter, an invention that revolutionized communication and office work. Rows of vintage typewriters, from early models to more modern versions, illustrate the evolution of writing technology.

What sets the Kings Park Heritage Museum apart is its ability to connect the past to the present. Unlike many museums with static displays, it offers an immersive experience, inviting visitors to engage with artifacts. Guests can try a vintage typewriter or explore a classic car up close. Educational programs, workshops and events delve deeper into the cultural, technological and social changes reflected in the museum’s collection.

New donations arrive weekly, ensuring visitors always discover something new. The museum serves as a testament to the ingenuity, resilience and creativity of the 20th century, preserving the past for future generations. Whether you’re a history buff, a vintage enthusiast or simply curious about the past, the Kings Park Heritage Museum promises an unforgettable journey through time.

Museum Director Sal Iraci encapsulates its charm: “You could work here seven days a week for 10 hours a day and still find something new each time you come in.”

The Leo B. Ostebo Kings Park Heritage Museum, the only school community-managed museum in the U.S., is independently run by donations and volunteers, without funding from the Kings Park school district. It is open for tours during school days until 4 p.m. or by appointment. For more information on upcoming events, visit kpheritagemuseum.net.

By Jennifer Donatelli

While many people enjoy a day off work or school to celebrate Thanksgiving with family and friends, others are struggling just to put food on the table each day. With the aid of Helping Hands Rescue Mission, a nonprofit organization based in Huntington Station, hundreds of families will have a lot to be thankful for this holiday season.

The mission introduced a program called Fill a Box, Feed a Family in 2021 that collects food donations for Thanksgiving. Donors pick up a box at the outreach center, fill it with all the fixings for a Thanksgiving meal and return the box by Nov. 22 to Huntington Assembly of God in Huntington Station. Some people fill one box, others fill multiple boxes.

With a mission rooted in compassion and community support, Helping Hands Rescue Mission seeks to alleviate some of the burdens faced by the underprivileged, offering both immediate relief and long-term hope. Through the generosity of donors and the tireless efforts of 125 volunteers, they work to ensure no one goes without the essentials for survival and dignity.

The mission was founded in 1965 by newlyweds Rev. J.A. Gaines, his wife, Rev. Rose Marie Gaines and her mother Florence E. Meringola, after witnessing local poverty firsthand. The couple returned from their honeymoon and used their wedding money to start the mission with the viewpoint that if they could help even one person, it was worth the investment.

The foundation’s work continues 59 years later under the direction of their daughter, Rev. Kim Gaines-Gambino, who functions as the president and pastor of the nonprofit. “My parents were the best ambassadors of what it means to love, serve and give,” said Gaines-Gambino. “Those were the core values of their mission, and we continue to do that today.”

When asked about what it means to run the mission on a daily basis, Gaines-Gambino said it means so much to her because she grew up with the mission and doesn’t know what life is like without it. “Serving the community has always been a part of my life,” she said.

Working with Food Rescue U.S., a nonprofit that transfers fresh food from restaurants, grocers and other food industry sources, the mission is able to provide prepared meals for the more than 250 people they serve each week.

One of the oldest members of the organization is Huntington resident Kay Jahn, who, at 90 has been volunteering since the mission first opened. She described her work as “a gift from God.”

Mary Reid of East Northport has been volunteering in the food pantry for seven years. This week was special because her grandsons, Nicholas and Robert Parisi, ages 9 and 7, visited from South Carolina during their school break to work with her in the food pantry. “We get to help people, and it feels good when you can see people be happy for one day,” said Nicholas.

Gaines-Gambino explained the town has been very generous to them over the years. “Whole Foods in South Huntington gave us a $10,000 donation and delivers food to us three times a week,” she said. The mission also receives donations from Trader Joe’s, Starbucks and Lidl, to name a few.

In addition to the outreach program, Helping Hands Rescue Mission introduced a monthly program in 2017 they call Baby Blessings. “We were running out of diapers in different sizes for the moms who came to the outreach,” Gaines-Gambino said, “so we set aside one special day a month where we can do outreach just for moms and their babies.”

Held on the third Tuesday of each month at the Huntington Assembly of God in Huntington Station, Baby Blessings provides more than 160 underprivileged families in the community with diapers, baby clothes, baby supplies, toys and a warm breakfast and coffee donated by Starbucks. Shoppers can also take home formula, baby food, strollers, car seats and bassinets.

Registration is necessary to participate in the program, and all moms must be residents of Huntington, with some referrals accepted.

Claudia Gaffoor, a referral from Flushing, experienced poverty firsthand when she was laid off from her job as a crossing guard and couldn’t afford to pay her rent or buy food for her family. A single mom of two boys, Gaffoor has been coming to Baby Blessings since her 3-year-old was born. “I fell on some hard times,” Gaffoor said. “I can’t afford to buy my son clothes.”

Through a partnership with the Allied Foundation, a nonprofit comprised of pediatricians from Long Island, Baby Blessings is able to meet their diaper needs each month.

Liz Sturm from Commack, a retired doctor and longtime volunteer, comes every Monday to unload the truck. “My parents came from Poland after the war. We didn’t have anything like this to help us,” Sturm said. “So I like to help others as much as I can.”

Baby Blessings, run by Donna Fortmeyer of Hauppauge along with a team of volunteers, sorts, folds and pre-packs bags of donated clothes by size, making sure each bag has matching outfits along with pajamas, sweaters, pants and shoes. “It’s a great feeling knowing how many families we can help and how happy we can make them,” said Fortmeyer.

Ann Macchia, from Huntington, volunteers each week and even takes clothes home with her to fold and sort. “It gives me a great feeling to help other people and see the smiles on their faces,” she said. “At the end of the day, this is what it’s all about.”

Through fundraising and generous donations from the community, the mission is in its final stages of building a house they call The Community Kitchen — a homelike space that will provide fresh, nutritious meals to food-insecure families, veterans and the homeless on a daily basis.

The mission opens its outreach center to the Huntington community every Tuesday through Friday from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. People can come to the pantry once every 15 days to get household items, clothing and food.

“Every person is deserving of love and compassion, regardless of their circumstances,” Gaines-Gambino said. “By offering a helping hand to those in need, we hope to spread the message of God’s unconditional love.” For more information visit www.helpinghandsrescuemission.org.

By Jennifer Donatelli

Calling all Vikings! Whether attendees were Norwegian, Swedish, Danish or simply fans of the Viking spirit, visitors found a warm welcome at the Sons of Norway Loyal Lodge 252’s annual Scandinavian Bazaar. Held Saturday, Nov. 16, at St. James Lutheran Church in St. James, the event ran from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m., drawing crowds eager to immerse themselves in the Nordic culture.

The bazaar, a vibrant mix of heritage and community, featured handcrafted Norwegian items, including intricately designed textile

The day’s culinary offerings were a major highlight. The dining room buzzed with the aroma of fresh waffles, served with lingonberries, while volunteers Reidun Rasmussen and Centoral Stevens enjoyed sharing the simple yet satisfying dish of potatoes, carrots and onions, in broth. “It’s an easy meal and feeds a lot of people,” Stevens said.

Adding to the festive spirit was live accordion music performed by Ellen “The Swedish Meatball” from Bay Ridge, whose cheerful tunes and motto of “good music, good liquor, good friends and good times,” brought smiles to attendees.

Hundreds of attendees from across Long Island gathered for the event, which has been a cornerstone of the lodge’s activities for more than 50 years. While no one could pinpoint the exact start date, members fondly recalled attending as children alongside their parents.

“This event is part of our history,” said incoming lodge president Ben Johnson, who first joined the Sons of Norway in the 1950s as a child.

“It provides me with a connection to my heritage and insight into the culture and history of Scandinavia and my ancestors, who came over through Ellis Island three generations ago,” he continued. 

Stacey Johnson, Ben’s daughter, reminisced about growing up with the lodge’s event. “It’s like one big family. To see all these people come and enjoy the day gives me complete joy,” she said.

Joan Hildebrand of Northport attended after falling in love with Scandinavian culture during a trip to the region, and was drawn to the event because of “the people, the scenery and the [Nordic] style — it’s what brought me here today,” she said.

Proceeds from the bazaar will support the Sons of Norway Loyal Lodge 252, an organization founded in 1924 by 30 immigrants. For nearly 100 years, the lodge has celebrated Norwegian-American heritage through cultural events and programs.

For more information about the Sons of Norway Loyal Lodge 252 or membership opportunities visit their website at loyallodge.org.

By Jennifer Donatelli

The Leo B. Ostebo Kings Park Heritage Museum, located inside Ralph J. Osgood Intermediate School (RJO) in Kings Park, came alive on Nov. 15 for the museum’s second annual Asian Heritage Night. The event transformed the space into a celebration of culture, showcasing the talents of Asian dancers, musicians and singers in a night dedicated to community and connection.

This free event featured 14 performances by local artists and community groups, highlighting the beauty and diversity of Asian cultures. Through music and dance, the evening brought together tradition, creativity and a spirit of cultural exchange.

“The melodies tell stories, the rhythm sparks joy and the movements convey the depth of character,” said Joseph Piacentino Jr., media director for the Kings Park Heritage Museum. Museum Director Sal Iraci echoed this sentiment, calling the performances “a connection of beauty and tradition to the power of creativity.”

Among the highlights was a vibrant Bollywood performance by three young dancers from Rhythm Dance Academy in Stony Brook. Bollywood, a colorful and energetic style popularized by Indian cinema, blends classical Indian, rustic and folk dances with lively music.

Local student performers also shone. Eighth grader Arianna Yang from Stony Brook captivated the audience with her solo performance of “Beautiful,” sung entirely in Chinese. Yang shared that the song, with its harmonious melodies and inspiring lyrics, represents “the simple joys of life.” She added, “Sharing my singing with others brings me great joy.”

The Infant Jesus Prayer Group of Nassau Dance Troupe performed the Filipino folk dance “Polka sa Nayon,” a lively polka that reflects a mix of cultural influences. Member Jane Rupa described their rehearsals as moments of camaraderie, filled with “food, fun and laughter.”

Community appreciation for the event was palpable. Kings Park resident Kalbana Bhanbari, originally from Nepal, called the performances “inspiring, amazing and moving.”

The Long Island Chinese Dance Group, based in Stony Brook, also contributed to the program. Their Tibetan-inspired performance conveyed themes of endurance, harmony and resilience, capturing the essence of life in the snowy Tibetan mountains. “It is a cultural expression that honors the spirit of the people who live in these areas,” explained dancer Ming Lu.

Dr. Yan Yu, a professor of applied mathematics at Stony Brook University and organizer of the evening, said many of the performers were from the local community. “As immigrants, we like to showcase our culture and bring our heritage to the United States,” she said.

The Nepali Team Dance Group, featuring three sisters aged 4 to 9, delivered a heartfelt rendition of “Maitighar,” a classic folk song from the 1966 Nepali film of the same name.The song’s title, which translates to “maternal home,” captures the event’s celebration of cultural pride and tradition while honoring the performers appreciation for the American way of life. Meanwhile, the Philippine Line Dance troupe wowed the crowd with a cha-cha performance, reflecting the shared cultural ties between the Philippines and the United States.

The evening also honored community leaders. Agnes and Duanfeng He, attendees from Stony Brook, called the event “a celebration of Asian-American cultures.” Mr. He said, “We are so proud to be American.”

The night concluded with a performance of “You Raise Me Up,” led by Dr. Yu and the Stony Brook Chorus, a group of professors, scientists and researchers united by their love of vocal music. “We benefit so much from being American, and this is our way of giving back,” Yu said.

The Leo B. Ostebo Kings Park Heritage Museum, the only school community-managed museum in the United States, continues to fulfill its mission of preserving the town’s historic past and educating the community through events like Heritage Night. Independently run by volunteers and donations, the museum is open for tours during school days after 4 p.m. or by appointment.

For more information on upcoming events, from the Kings Park Heritage Museum, visit kpheritagemuseum.net.

By Jennifer Donatelli

The Visiting Nurse Service & Hospice of Suffolk (VNSHS) hosted its 34th annual Hospice Trees of Light ceremony on Nov. 17, honoring the memories of loved ones lost in the past year.

The event, held at the VNSHS headquarters in Northport, drew community members for an evening of reflection, music and remembrance. Silvia Cota, CEO of VNSHS, addressed the audience, emphasizing that hospice care is about more than medical support.

“It’s about compassion, dignity and the deep connection we share with those nearing the end of their life,” Cota said.

The Northport Pipe and Drum Band performed “Amazing Grace” as hospice volunteers read more than 470 names of individuals honored during the ceremony.

“This was an evening of celebration, joy and remembrance,” said Connie Alexander, director of patient services.

Bonnie Gruber, hospice support services coordinator, described hospice as “a program for those who have a terminal illness with a prognosis of six months or fewer,” with the goal of meeting the physical and emotional needs of patients and their families. VNSHS provides bereavement services for the patients families, as well, for up to 13 months after a loved one’s death. Gruber added that preparing for the first holiday season without a loved one can be especially difficult, and that is precisely why VNHS provides events like this during this time of year.

Many attendees spoke of the comfort this tree-lighting ceremony provided. Mary Slappay of Deer Park attended the night for the first time to honor her husband of 35 years. 

“The Visiting Nurse Service made the last 24 hours of his life comfortable and peaceful and gave me the tools to cope with his death,” Slappay said.

For others, this was not their first visit to the ceremony. A Kings Park resident. Janice Slott, has attended the event for two years. In 2023, she honored her son Greg Sill, a Smithtown history teacher who died unexpectedly, and this year returned to honor her husband of 53 years.

“I promised myself I was going to come and honor him, and wasn’t going to cry,” Slott said.

Father Edward Sheridan, pastor of St. Anthony of Padua in Northport and St. Francis of Assisi in Greenlawn, gave the invocation, calling for unity in prayer. “No matter what our faith is, we pray for those souls who have gone before us to a place of light, happiness and peace,” Sheridan said.

Rabbi Marcey Wagner, who delivered the benediction, spoke about finding hope amid darkness. “Times of darkness can suddenly lead to rebirth when the light of the beautifully lit trees shines through,” Wagner said.

“This time of remembrance is an opportunity to celebrate their lives, the lessons they taught us and the legacies they left in our hearts,” Alexander concluded.

For more information about the Visiting Nurse Service & Hospice of Suffolk visit visitingnurseservice.org.

A scene from the visual immersion concert at the Vanderbilt Planetarium. Photo by Jennifer Donatelli

By Jennifer Donatelli

On November 10, as strings played, music and the cosmos united in a concert that took its audience on a journey through time and space at the Suffolk County Vanderbilt Planetarium’s annual Strings Under the Stars event. 

Performing to a sold out crowd, professional musicians from Long Island Chamber Music played a program of introspective classical music, as visuals of space were projected onto a 60 foot dome.

Dave Bush, Program Director of the Planetarium, explained the dome video sequences displayed “things related to outer space.”

“[Some things shown] are stellar nurseries and explosions, paired with scenes that are slow moving, all set to music, so it’s comforting and transportive at the same time,” Bush explained.

““The music,” he went on, “is amplified by the sound system, and the visuals have been specifically picked to match the mood of all of the pieces.”

Long Island Chamber Music is a non-profit organization, founded by husband and wife team, Eric Huckins and Gergana Haralampieva. Their mission is to make professional classical music of the highest caliber accessible to Long Island audiences. 

Huckins said the artists they work with are world-class musicians from Long Island and New York City and are chosen from institutions such as Carnegie Hall’s Ensemble Connect, the New York Philharmonic, the Boston Symphony Orchestra, Concert Artist Guild, among others.

“In addition to being leaders in their art form, our musicians are teaching artists, entrepreneurs, and socially-minded advocates for classical music,” Huckins explained.

Haralampieva elaborated, explaining that the immersive quality of concerts like these makes it easier for a wide range of audiences to “connect with classical music.”

Bush added that this type of show has grown in popularity through the years, and that Long Island Chamber Music consistently added new music and visuals to their performances.

Marc and Daniela Wong of Huntington, enjoyed their night out under the stars.

“We go to concerts a lot, but I have never seen or heard anything quite as spectacular as this. The music is amazing and the immersive idea is brilliant,” said Wong.

For more information on upcoming concerts and educational programs held by Long Island Chamber Music, visit their website at, www.longislandchambermusic.com. And to see upcoming events held at the Vanderbilt Museum, Mansion & Planetarium, visit www.vanderbiltmuseum.org.

By Jennifer Donatelli

As part of a week-long celebration in honor of Veterans Day, Major Chad Lennon (R, Mt. Sinai), Suffolk County Legislator in the 6th Legislative District, Marine Corps veteran and Purple Heart recipient, along with Stony Brook University, honored veterans and residents of the Long Island State Veterans Home (LISVH) at their facility at a Nov. 8 breakfast on the university campus.

Suffolk County lawmakers, including Executive Ed Romaine (R), thanked the veterans for their service, promising to continue advocating for their rights. Lennon, reflecting on veterans sacrifices, expressed his gratitude for their dedicated service to the country. He told the crowd that Suffolk County has the largest veteran population in New York State.

In his keynote address to hundreds of veterans, Lennon said, “I would not be here today if it wasn’t for you. Your identity completely changes when you go off to war. Someday my title as legislator will end, but the one title that will follow me for the rest of my life is that of a Marine.”

The LISVH also recognized John LaSpina with its Distinguished Service Award. LaSpina is the president of Maple Family Centers, a 59-year-old family business that owns and operates bowling centers across Long Island, Queens and Brooklyn. He personally hosts events throughout the year that raise hundreds of thousands of dollars for the veterans home.

Over the past decade, LaSpina’s commitment to Long Island’s veteran community has significantly improved the lives of veterans and their families. He was recognized for his volunteer work and funding that allowed the home to purchase a virtual reality system to treat veterans with post-traumatic stress disorder. Fred Sganga, executive director of the LISVH, said the technology has since expanded to serve 100 other veterans homes across the country.

Reacting to his award, LaSpina said, “I stand on the shoulders of these great people before me, and am proud to be among them. It is our job to educate the younger generation about veterans and what they do and continue to do for our country. We fly the flag for you and our freedom.”

LaSpina also received a flag from Rep. Nick LaLota’s (R, NY1) office that had flown over the U.S. Capitol.

Addressing veterans last week, LaSpina said, “This place does wonderful things for our heroes. God bless you all. You are our true heroes.”

Sgt. Kuroly, a weapons specialist in the U.S. Air Force, said LaSpina is “one of our greatest guardian angels.”

“We are profoundly grateful for John LaSpina’s exceptional generosity,” added Sganga. “His unwavering support has transformed our recreational programs and uplifted the spirits of our veterans. This endowment fund will enable us to continue to honor our commitment to those who have served our nation.”

“You know that Veterans Day is not just another date on the calendar. It’s a solemn reminder of the sacrifices made by our veterans, regardless of what generation they are or uniform they wore,” said Robert Smith, a U.S. Navy veteran and chairman of the Veterans Advisory Board.

Rabbi Joseph Topek, the Jewish chaplain at Stony Brook Medicine, agreed, telling the crowd, “Let’s celebrate. This is not a time of mourning. Celebrate your service, the sacrifices that you made. Our country is great, and it’s because of the service of our veterans.”

New York State Assemblyman Edward Flood (R, Port Jefferson) said he was privileged to be at the ceremony. “I come from a family of veterans,” he explained. “My father served in the Vietnam War, so I have seen the sacrifices he made.” Flood continued, “It is an honor to be in the presence of all of these heroes.”

Salvatore Scarlato knows firsthand what it’s like fighting in a war. At 93, he is one of the last remaining Korean War veterans on Long Island. He said he and 17 friends joined the Marines, knowing they were about to be drafted and sent to Korea. Scarlato recalled, “At the beginning it was tough. I was 18 years old and didn’t know anything about current events. The only thing I knew was that I was going off to war.” He continued, “When you go to war, and especially in Korea, it really changes your perspective on things. But it had to be done. In seven days, you became a man, and your life was never the same.”

Harry Janson, 76, a Vietnam veteran and Purple Heart recipient, is a member of the Veterans Advisory Board and dedicates all his free time to raise money for veterans. He said, “They deserve it all. These guys are heroes every day.”

Romaine told the audience that democracy will prevail, saying, “We will always survive as a nation that stands for our flag, for our freedom, and for our country.”

Smith asked all the attendees to take a deep breath and then exhale. He added, “That is the taste of freedom. It is veterans who are willing to put their lives on hold for the good of the nation so you and your family can have that taste of freedom. Let us never forget them.”

Philip Sullivan, a U.S. Navy post-Korean War veteran and resident of the home, urged the crowd to honor America’s 68 million veterans and renew their commitment to them. He said, “Pledge to keep the spirit of U.S. veterans alive as the chimes of freedom ring out. Let us not forget the service of these men, who we are humbled to care for each day.”

The LISVH at Stony Brook University is a 350-bed, skilled nursing facility and the largest of its kind out of 163 facilities in the United States. For more information, call 631-444-VETS.

By Jennifer Donatelli

The Girl Scouts of South Huntington honored our nation’s veterans at their third annual Girl Scouts Veterans Luncheon on Nov. 5. Assemblyman Steve Stern was the guest speaker, thanking the veterans for their service and for serving as examples for others to follow. The event took place at St. John’s Episcopal Church in Cold Spring Harbor, with more than 50 veterans in attendance. The veterans were welcomed with live patriotic music by the Strum Bow Long Island Chamber Ensemble, and 95 Girl Scouts greeted them with candy-filled goody bags and personalized cards.

 

By Jennifer Donatelli

The Heckscher Museum of Art, located inside Heckscher Park in Huntington, celebrated Halloween with a free, family-friendly event on Sunday, Oct. 27, from noon to 5 p.m.

Held in conjunction with the museum’s new exhibit, “The Body Politic,” the event showcased how artists use different mediums to interact with and shape the world.

Young attendees received an activity worksheet and worked with their families to choose a favorite artwork on display at the museum. Adding to the fun, children and their families participated in a scavenger hunt throughout the museum, looking for portraits, landscapes, abstract art, and sculptures.

The young artists learned how looking closely at art helps us learn to observe artwork and the world around us more carefully.

Attendees created their own haunted Digital Action paintings, learned about collage-making, and designed spooky ghost crafts—all while learning how to interpret and appreciate various art forms.

“The purpose of this event,” said Joy Weiner, Director of Education and Public Programs for the Heckscher Museum, “is because many parents aren’t comfortable explaining art to their children or don’t know how to make it age-appropriate. The activity guide provides a series of questions to help children learn about art while having fun.”

Mary Porter, a museum docent, mentioned that the event has taken place biannually since 2010 and draws hundreds from the local community and across Long Island to experience art in a fun, hands-on environment.

Jane and Annie Mahoney, sisters from Queens, came with their parents and grandparents, planning to play on the playground but stayed for an hour to explore exhibits and make crafts.

Porter explained that the event is a great way to bring families to the museum, allowing adults to enjoy the artwork while children engage in activities.

Sawa, age 2; Koto, age 7; and Seisuke, age 4—siblings originally from Japan and now living in Syosset—enjoyed making Halloween crafts and learning about different cultures through artwork.

Gary Rubin, 6, from East Williston, came with his dad, both museum members who enjoy attending events. Wearing his Dracula costume with fake blood, Gary said he loved making crafts and had fun getting messy.

Upcoming events at the Heckscher Museum of Art include Artists in the Galleries, every Sunday in November and December from noon to 2 p.m. Visitors can meet the artists and learn about their work.

For more information on programs and exhibits, or to sign up for an event, visit www.heckscher.org.

By Jennifer Donatelli

Are you or someone you know caring for a loved one?

In honor of National Caregiver Month, Huntington Hospital hosted its first-ever Caregiver Retreat on Oct. 29 to highlight the critical role support systems play for those caring for ill or disabled loved ones. Nearly one in four households is involved in caregiving for someone age 50 and older.

The event provided resources to ease the stress caregivers face, helping them navigate the complex healthcare system while creating a platform for sharing experiences with others. It emphasized the importance of self-care when another person depends on you.

Hundreds of caregivers attended the daylong event, participating in support and educational groups that provided tools to manage stressful situations.

Caregivers could also attend a Community Caregivers Resource Fair, guided meditation, and receive goody bags filled with giveaways. Most importantly, they were with others who had given up a part of their lives to be caregivers.

Barbara Roiland is one of many caregivers who attend weekly support groups and take advantage of Huntington Hospital’s programs. For the past 10 years, the Huntington resident has been the primary caregiver for her husband, Gary, who is suffering from Progressive Supranuclear Palsy (PSP), a debilitating brain disease.

Once an active couple who loved sailing, the diagnosis forced them to sell their sailboat, and Gary has since lost his ability to walk unaided and speak clearly. Barbara, with no medical background, has taken on the full-time role of his caregiver — a role that’s become overwhelming, isolating, and emotionally draining.

The support groups not only provide Barbara with emotional support but also help her navigate the medical complexities she faces daily, allowing her to keep Gary as healthy as possible at home.

“The diagnosis was devastating — our whole life has changed,” Barbara said. “I’m constantly worried about him falling or coughing.”

Barbara said that being able to ask medical questions and get support from others going through the same experience has been invaluable. “I don’t know what I’d do without it,” she said.

Northport resident Mary Ellen Mendelsohn has also found solace and guidance through the hospital’s caregiver programs. Mary Ellen’s husband, Andy, was diagnosed with prostate cancer several years ago. Despite treatment, the cancer returned, and since 2019, Andy has been in and out of the hospital, now reliant on a wheelchair due to the toll of his illness.

Mendelsohn shared how essential the hospital’s caregiver support has been in managing Andy’s frequent hospitalizations and medical needs.

“The caregivers have been a huge help,” Mendelsohn explained. “They check in every week or two, and those calls make a difference. They answer my questions, and that support has been vital. I miss spending time with my granddaughter, but having that extra help gives me some peace of mind.”

According to Mendelsohn, one nurse went out of her way to show her how to properly irrigate Andy’s catheter, a critical task given his susceptibility to UTIs. From ordering her husband’s supplies to refilling his medications, Mary Ellen has taken on most of his care, but she emphasizes how much it helps to know she’s not alone.

Two years ago, Huntington Hospital completed the Reichert Family Caregiver Center. The 550-square-foot space, located in the main lobby of the hospital, was designed to offer extra care outside the hospital. The center provides a space for caregivers to sit and talk with trained caregiver coaches who can offer resources as they manage the day-to-day demands of caring for a sick loved one.

Nick Fitterman, executive director of Huntington Hospital, said, “This center will be a destination for caregivers in our community to find resources and respite when they need assistance.”

Trained volunteer coaches and a social worker meet with family caregivers one-on-one to provide emotional support, discuss their concerns and needs, and guide them to community resources, said Kacey Farber, LMSW, program manager.

The Reichert Family Caregiver Center is staffed by a social worker and trained volunteer coaches. The center is open Monday through Friday from 8 a.m. to 4 p.m. It includes a quiet room with a recliner chair, a small meeting room, and a room with three chairs and a computer.

For more information on Caregiver Support Programs, visit www.huntington.northwell.edu