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Third Annual Event Hosted by Cona Elder Law honors couples and their secrets to relationship success

 Long Island couples who have been married 50 years or more gathered for a pre-Valentine’s celebration at the 3rd Annual “Lasting Love” Valentine’s Dinner on Feb. 11 to toast their successful relationships.

“This room is full of beautiful people who got it right,” said Jennifer Cona, Founder and Managing Partner of Cona Elder Law. “There are a lot of things older adults can teach us, including the secrets of staying together. Lessons of patience, of compromise. All those things that it takes to stay together for so long.”

Held at Verona Ristorante in Farmingdale, each participating couple feasted on a complimentary traditional Italian dinner including appetizers, dinner and dessert plus a glass of wine or a cocktail.

Couples also had the opportunity to share their stories about how they met and how they have been successful in their marriages and offer advice to younger couples on their own path to relationship success.

“We got married very young and we grew up together,” said Shelley Rudes of Woodbury. She and her husband Jonathan have been together for 51 years. “We never go to bed angry.”

“I think it takes a lot of patience and a sense of humor,” said Diane Powell, of Roslyn. She and her husband Tom have been married 52 years. “You need to keep your relationships with friends and family and be ready to face things you don’t expect. You have to stick together in good times and bad.”

The event was sponsored by Melville-based Cona Elder Law, which concentrates in the areas of elder law, estate planning, estate administration and litigation, and health care law. Cona Elder Law takes a holistic approach to elder law, providing support and resources for older adults and caregivers, and maintains long-term, partnering relationships with clients to provide the best solutions for multiple generations.

 

Detectives from the Suffolk County SPCA have charged a Kings Park woman with alleged animal cruelty, possession of a controlled substance, and possession of drug paraphernalia after the execution of a search warrant on her residence on Feb. 8.

Roy Gross, Chief of the Suffolk SPCA, said that its detectives charged Cazandra Nucci, 42, with multiple misdemeanor animal cruelty charges, alleging that Nucci neglected eleven sugar gliders and nine cats in her care by failing to provide a safe and clean environment. Additionally there were 9 dead sugar gliders and 1 dead snake.

The operation was executed with assistance from the Suffolk County Police Department’s Emergency Services Unit, Homicide Section, 4th Precinct Patrol, Suffolk County District Attorney’s Office BEAST Unit, Town of Smithtown’s Fire Marshal’s Office, Code Enforcement and Animal Shelter.

Upon executing a search warrant in the afternoon of February 8, 2025, detectives found the home the animals were confined inside had noxious air and odor of feces, urine, and rot were so pungent it made personnel cough and gag upon entry and stung their eyes. The animals found indoors were in an overcrowded area of hoarded garbage over six feet high in some spaces. Dozens of apparent drug paraphernalia were strewn about the residence, crack cocaine and MDMA were recovered along with nine deceased sugar gliders. The conditions inside were so extreme that personnel had to crawl over the piles of debris inside. The residence has been placarded as unfit for human occupancy by the Town of Smithtown Code Enforcement.

Nucci was booked at the Suffolk County Police Department 4th Precinct and released. She is scheduled to appear at First District Court in Central Islip, on February 28. The animals will soon be available for adoption at the Smithtown Animal Shelter.

The Suffolk County SPCA remains committed to ensuring the safety and well-being of all animals in the county. Animal cruelty will not be tolerated. If you witness any incident of animal cruelty or neglect in Suffolk County please contact the Suffolk County SPCA at (631) 382-7722.

By Beverly C. Tyler

“To My Best playmate Blanche GUESS FROM WHO?”  

This is the message on a 1925 Valentine’s Day postcard sent to my mother in Port Jefferson. Mom was born in November 1914, so she was ten years old when she received the postcard. The front of the card shows a cherub with pots of heart flowers. The address on the postcard was simply addressed to her at “Port Jefferson, L.I.” This particular postcard was sent from Brooklyn, NY. Mom kept only a few valentine postcards. The majority of the valentine messages she kept were cards in the shape of the figure or image. 

In the first three decades of the 20th century, Valentine’s Day figure and image cards were favored over postcards, especially by children. In my mother’s case most of these cards were put in envelopes and hand-delivered to the mailbox on the street or to the front door by their neighborhood friends. This makes it difficult to know what year the cards were sent. The presence of a few postcards with 1920s postmarks helps, especially as my mother kept both the postcards and the cut out cards in the same box. 

Greetings cards became a world-wide phenomenon. This remarkable development was fueled by the postcard’s convenience and cost. The postcard was, before the wide-spread use of the telephone, the quickest means of making contact with a friend, relative or tradesman. 

Interestingly, within a century, the personal computer, through the use of the internet, would begin to fill the same need. The only major difference being that, at the end of the 19th century, everyone had mail delivery, whereas at the end of the 20th century personal computers and the internet were not yet in every home.

Many greetings cards such as these were saved and placed in postcard albums. Today they provide us with a glimpse of life in the late 19th and early 20th centuries. 

Beverly C. Tyler is Three Village Historical Society historian and author of books available from the Three Village Historical Society, 93 North Country Rd., Setauket, NY 11733. Tel: 631-751-3730. www.TVHS.org

The Terryville Fire Department was called to extinguish a USPS mail truck that became engulfed in flames in Terryville on Feb. 8 at approximately 11:30 a.m. The fire, which was due to an electrical issue, broke out on Terryville Road near Tulip Drive.

Crews from Engine 12 quickly extinguished the fire, while Engine 2 and Rescue 24 provided additional support.

There were no injuries reported.

See video here.

— Photos courtesy of Joan Nickeson and Terryville Fire Department, video courtesy of Joan Nickeson

 

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Suffolk County Police cited two drivers for an unlawful speed contest and reckless driving in Shirley on Feb. 7.

Members of the Suffolk County Police Street Takeover Task Force observed a 2020 Infiniti Q50 and a 2016 Audi S3 traveling westbound on the LIE, near Exit 68, allegedly racing each other at speeds of 109 mph with the headlights off at 9:45 p.m.

Officers safely stopped both vehicles and cited their drivers, Randy Lopez, 20, of Middle Island, who was driving the Infiniti, and Evan Hacker, 20, of East Patchogue, who was driving the Audi, for Illegal Speed Contest, Reckless Driving, and multiple misdemeanor violations and other traffic infractions.

They will be arraigned at First District Court in Central Islip on February 27. Both vehicles were impounded.

By Bill Landon

As temperatures fell and with a respite from the unrelenting wind, skaters of all ages, including tomorrow’s hockey stars, flocked to Miller Place Duck Pond and Millers Pond in Smithtown. In Smithtown, hockey players weren’t the only ones enjoying the perks of the cold weather; a furry friend wandered onto the ice, prompting skaters to take a short intermission. 

— Photos by Bill Landon and Sabrina Artusa

On Feb. 4 the Walt Whitman boy’s basketball challenged Riverhead High  School. After a slow first start, the Wildcats pounced in the second quarter, gaining a lead that Riverhead could not overtake. The Wildcats wrapped the game up nicely with a win, 74-61.

Photos by Media Origin Inc.

On Wednesday, February 5, Kevin Heavey was sworn in as a Deputy Undersheriff for the Suffolk County Sheriff’s Office. Suffolk County Sheriff Errol D. Toulon, Jr. appointed Deputy Undersheriff Heavy, who spent 21 years in the New York City Police Department (NYPD), and he will oversee the Academy, Ceremonial and Wellness Unit.

“Deputy Undersheriff Heavey’s leadership and deep understanding of law enforcement operations will enhance our ability to serve and protect Suffolk County,” said Sheriff Toulon. “His commitment to integrity, accountability, and public safety will be invaluable as we continue strengthening our initiatives and supporting the men and women of this agency. I look forward to the work he will contribute to our Office and Suffolk County.”

Deputy Undersheriff Heavey brings over two decades of law enforcement experience, having served in the NYPD in various leadership roles, including the Internal Affairs Bureau and the Ceremonial Unit. His expertise spans criminal investigations, crisis intervention, and interagency collaboration, according to a press release.

 

Catalina to Serve as the 16th Police Commissioner of the Suffolk County Police Department

On Feb. 5, Suffolk County Executive Ed Romaine joined with the Suffolk County Legislature, Suffolk County Clerk Vincent Puleo, and members of the Suffolk County Police Department as Kevin Catalina was sworn in as the 16th commissioner of the Suffolk County Police Department.

Catalina’s nomination was approved by the Suffolk County Legislature at its Feb. 4, general meeting. Catalina, who previously served as deputy police commissioner with the Suffolk County Police Department, has more than 33 years of law enforcement experience with two of the largest police departments in the country.

Kevin Catalina

“Today serves as a monumental day in Suffolk County as we are proud to introduce Kevin Catalina as our Police Commissioner formally,” Romaine said. “Commissioner Catalina is a man of honor and integrity and will serve as a tremendous leader of the men and women of the Suffolk County Police Department while serving as a steward to our communities.”

“I am grateful for the opportunity to become commissioner of the Suffolk County Police Department, the best police department in the country,” Police Commissioner Kevin Catalina said. “This is a dream come true. I am excited to utilize my more than 30 years of law enforcement experience and work alongside a knowledgeable and professional executive team to implement strategies to continue to drive down crime while building relationships with our residents through community policing efforts.”

“Kevin Catalina has shown over the course of a distinguished career why he’s said to be “a cop’s cop,” said Presiding Officer Kevin McCaffrey.  “I fully expect that the leadership, innovation, and achievements that make up his remarkable experience over three decades will prove invaluable in making Suffolk County a safer place. I’m proud to support him as commissioner.”

Commissioner Catalina is nationally recognized as a subject matter expert and innovator of anti-gang violence strategies. He brings 20 years of experience on the executive level, which has led to a unique crime prevention and management skill set.

Before his time at the SCPD, Catalina served as the undersheriff for the Suffolk County Sheriff’s Office for more than five years. Catalina oversaw approximately 250 deputy sheriffs as well as the Corrections Division Intelligence Bureau of 30 investigators and a unit of analysts. Catalina was successful in creating and implementing a corrections-based intelligence model utilizing jail-based intelligence that assisted in solving and preventing crimes within the community.

Catalina’s law enforcement career began in 1992 as a police officer in the New York Police Department’s 103rd Precinct. He quickly moved up the ranks, spending 20 years in supervisory roles including three stints as a commanding officer.

Catalina was then promoted to deputy Chief and served as the Commanding Officer of the Gang Division. Catalina developed and implemented all gang investigative and suppression strategies that continue to be utilized citywide.

By Melissa Arnold

There’s something about a train set that captures the imaginations of kids and adults alike. Maybe the clatter of the tiny wheels on their metal tracks calls to mind our favorite Christmas movies, a busy day at Penn Station, or the promise of a future adventure.

For me, the memories are of my mother’s Uncle “G” (for Guido), who maintained an elaborate miniature world in his basement for the family’s youngest visitors to enjoy. His sprawling setup included trains, buildings, snow-flecked trees, people and even animals. I was enthralled by the scene. And at Christmastime, my Dad and I would set up a more humble collection of Lionel train cars under the tree. Our big highlights were the functional log car and cardboard mountain tunnel. 

In Dix Hills, nearly 80 members of the TMB (Train Masters of Babylon) Model Train Club meet regularly to bring their own imaginary scenes to life. The group includes men and women of all ages who are united in their love of O-gauge trains.

Founded in 1994, the group has gathered in various locations around the Island to build and eventually run train displays. New venues were required as both the membership and its displays continued to grow. They’ve recently moved from a 4,000-square foot space in Farmingdale to their new 6,500-square foot location rented from a Dix Hills private school, and are looking forward to sharing their new build with a series of open house events.

“We are not just a bunch of people who forgot to put the trains away after Christmas. For us it’s a full-time, year-round hobby,” explained club president Steve Scagnelli. “A home-based layout can be set up in as quick as a few weeks. When you tackle a layout as large as our club’s, it takes several years.”

Scagnelli, a retired accountant from Plainview, got his first Lionel train set for Christmas in 1961. He shelved the hobby when he went to college and started working, but the interest rekindled years later when his young son got hooked on – you guessed it – Thomas the Tank Engine.

“I wanted to do something that I could share with my son,” Scagnelli said. “[Building scenes] encompasses all the elements of the STEAM acronym: science, technology, engineering, art and mathematics.”

The work of planning and executing a build can be intense, especially with so many people involved. It’s a democratic process, and Ideas and suggestions from group members are funneled through committees that determine the best ways to include them and when. It’s also dependent on what materials are available 

The club meets four days a week, though members have 24/7 access to the space. Everyone has their own interests and areas of expertise, and all are encouraged to help out regardless of their skill level. First the track is planned, then the table is built and the tracks are laid. Wiring and electronics go down next, with lots of detailed scenery to add depth to the display. 

“The old adage is that you’re never really done. A model train layout is never truly complete because there’s always a new idea, or something you can add or repurpose,” Scagnelli said. 

The previous Farmingdale setup had four train lines and a separate subway station. The new Dix Hills location features steam and diesel trains, a NYC subway replica, and the layout from the Blue Comet episode of HBO’s iconic crime drama, “The Sopranos.” The club’s version is slightly altered from the one seen on the show, and it includes interactive buttons so that visitors can be a part of the action. The current layout has been in progress for more than a year and will continue to expand.

Each showing will feature a different set of trains, providing a fresh experience and a fun way to show off the club’s collection. Many of the members buy trains, scenery kits and other supplies from local hobby shops, including Trainland in Lynbrook and Nassau Hobby Center in Freeport, online markets like eBay and even amongst themselves.

It can be a pricey hobby for collectors, Scagnelli admits — box cars can cost around $75, while detailed engine and passenger cars with sounds sell for hundreds of dollars. But no one in the club is required to buy their own trains, and those that do tend to save up as others might for a concert or vacation.

Over the years, more than 50,000 people from across the country have visited the club, sometimes with several generations of family in tow. Many have trains of their own.

The group also travels occasionally to train meets held around the northeast, where they can connect and learn from other enthusiasts. Some members also enjoy traveling to see “real” trains as well.

“I enjoy all the aspects of the hobby, whether that’s operating my trains, collecting trains or building the layout. We strive to grow our membership and a world-class model train layout,” Scagnelli said. “But what keeps me involved is the friendships of the members, interacting with other clubs and the hundreds of connections made online. We want to be active in the community and share our love for the hobby with our neighbors.”

The next open house for the TMB Model Train Club will be held from 11 a.m. to 4 p.m. on Feb. 8 and from 1 p.m. to 5 p.m. on Feb. 9 in the Upper Room Christian School basement, 722 Deer Park Ave., Dix Hills. Admission is free, donations are welcome. For more information, visit www.tmbmodeltrainclub.com.