Holidays

Santa lights the tree at the Holtsville Ecology Center last year. Photo from Town of Brookhaven

By Heidi Sutton

While  a few communities took part in holiday tree lightings last week, the majority of tree lightings on the North Shore will take place this weekend and next weekend with caroling, treats and a special visit from Santa Claus. 

Centereach

The Centereach Civic Association invites the community to its annual holiday tree lighting and menorah lighting at their 2nd annual Dickens Festival on the lawn of Capital One Bank, 2100 Middle Country Road, Centereach on Dec. 5 at 7 p.m. Enjoy caroling, hot cocoa, cookies and a visit from Santa. Rain date is Dec. 8 at 6 p.m. 

Cold Spring Harbor 

The Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery, 1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor will host a tree lighting ceremony on Dec. 7 from 5 to 7 p.m. Santa Claus will light the hatchery’s Christmas Tree at 5:30 p.m. Free admission after 5 p.m. Suggested donation of $10 per family. 516- 692-6768

Coram

Coram Engine Company 2, corner of Route 112 and Pine Road, Coram will hold its annual Christmas Tree Lighting on Dec. 6 at 7 p.m. Join them in Santa’s Workshop to decorate your own Santa hat while you wait for Santa Claus to arrive to light the tree with music and refreshments. 631-698-9714

East Northport

— Island Christian Church, 400 Elwood Road, East Northport will hold its 3rd annual Community Tree Lighting event on Dec. 7 at 5:30 p.m. Free family activities starting at 2:30 p.m. include ice skating, live nativity, Christmas show, cookie decorating, indoor snowball fights and much more. Visit islandchristian.com/christmas for more info and to register. 631-822-3000

— Join the East Northport Chamber of Commerce for the East Northport Holiday Tree Lighting at Clock Tower Park (corner of Bellerose Ave., and Larkfield Road) in East Northport on Dec. 3 at 6 p.m.  Come say hi to Santa, and enjoy free hot chocolate and cookies courtesy of Copenhagen Bakery.

Farmingville

The Farmingville community will hold its annual Tree Lighting at Triangle Park on Horseblock Road in Farmingville on Dec. 8 at 5 p.m.  Join Santa in lighting the Christmas tree and enjoy the sights and sounds of the holiday. Refreshments will be served at the Farmingville Fire Department after the event.

Flanders

The annual Big Duck Lighting will be held on Flanders Road in Flanders on Dec. 4 at 7 p.m. The event features a visit from Quackerjack, the Long Island Ducks baseball team mascot, duck carols led by students from the Riverhead Middle School Show Choir, refreshments and the ever-anticipated arrival of Santa Claus by fire truck.

Greenlawn

The Greenlawn Civic Association hosts its 32nd annual “Meet at the Tree” Christmas Tree Lighting on Dec. 7 from 3:30 to 5 p.m. at the Harborfields Public Library, 31 Broadway, Greenlawn. Enjoy hot cocoa, cookies, dance and musical performances, plus a special visit from Santa & Mrs. Claus on the Greenlawn Fire Dept. truck Bring your letters to Santa for the North Pole mailbox. www.greenlawncivic.org.

Holtsville

The Town of Brookhaven will hold its annual Christmas Tree Lighting event at the Holtsville Ecology Site, 249 Buckley Road, Holtsville on Dec. 6 at 6 p.m. with costumed characters, musical entertainment, complimentary candy canes and hot chocolate, and a special appearance by Santa Claus, who will arrive via helicopter, and then assist with the countdown to light the tree. 631-451-9276

Huntington

The Town of Huntington’s  Holiday Spectacular Tree Lighting will be held  at 12 Wall Street in Huntington Village on Nov. 30 around 6:30 p.m. The event will be preceded by a vintage holiday parade at 5:30 p.m. 631-351-3000

Kings Park

The Kings Park Chamber of Commerce hosts a Christmas Tree Lighting Ceremony/Menorah Lighting at Veterans Plaza, 1 Church St., King Park on Dec. 8 at 4:15 p.m. Enjoy holiday music selections followed by invocation and welcome remarks from the chamber with hot chocolate and cookies. Held rain or shine. 631-269-7678

Lake Ronkonkoma

Join the Ronkonkoma Chamber of Commerce at Raynor Park, 174 Ronkonkoma Ave., Lake Ronkonkoma on Dec. 1 for their annual Christmas Tree Lighting starting at 1 p.m. Enjoy holiday carols by local schoolchildren and a visit from Santa. 631-963-2796

Miller Place

— The 16th annual Tree Lighting and Polar Express will be held at the Aliano Shopping Center, 691 Route 25A, Miller Place on Dec. 7 at 6 p.m. Enjoy a performance by the Dance Pointe Performing Arts Center, as well as Miller Place students, and a visit from Santa Claus before the tree lighting along with live music, vendors, food and fun. 

— Join the Miller Place-Mount Sinai Historical Society and Santa Claus for a tree lighting at the Daniel Hawkins House on North Country Road, Miller Place on Dec. 6 at 7 p.m. Then follow Santa and carolers on a candlelight tour of the William Miller House, 75 North Country Road, Miller Place and meet Clement Clarke Moore, author of “Twas the Night Before Christmas.” $5 fee. For tickets, visit www.mpmshistoricalsociety.org.

Mount Sinai

Join the North Shore Youth Council and the Mount Sinai Fire Department for their 17th annual Christmas Tree Lighting at Heritage Park, 633 Mount Sinai-Coram Road, Mount Sinai on Dec. 1 at 4 p.m. Listen to festive caroling by the Sing 4 Music choir, warm up with hot chocolate with marshmallows and fresh baked cookies and visit with Santa. 631-403-4846

Nesconset

The Nesconset Chamber of Commerce will hold a Holiday Tree Lighting ceremony at the Nesconset Gazebo on Smithtown Blvd., Nesconset on Dec. 1 at 4 p.m. with music, refreshments, entertainment and a visit from Santa Claus. 631-724-2543

Northport

The Northport Village Tree Lighting event at Northport Village Park will kick off on Nov. 29 at 6:40 p.m. with a performance by the Posey School of Dance followed by Christmas Carols sung by the Northport Chorale! Stick around for the arrival of Village firetrucks carrying some very special visitors. 

Port Jefferson Station 

Join the Port Jefferson Station-Terryville Chamber of Commerce for a Community Tree Lighting at the Chamber Car, corner of Nesconset Highway and Route 112, Port Jefferson Station on Dec. 7 at 6 p.m. Enjoy complimentary hot chocolate, candy canes, cookies, holiday music, dance performances and pictures with Santa & Mrs Claus who will arrive in an antique fire truck. 631-821-1313

Rocky Point

The 40th annual Rocky Point Christmas Tree Lighting will be held on Dec. 7 at 6 p.m. at the corner of Broadway and Prince Road, Rocky Point with live holiday music, hot chocolate and candy canes and a special visit from Santa. 631-729-0699

Ronkonkoma

Join Station Yards, 3 Hawkins Ave., Ronkonkoma for its 1st annual Holiday Tree Lighting on Nov. 30 at 5:30 p.m. Santa himself will lead the countdown to light the tree, followed by storytelling and photos with the children. Come early to explore the Holiday Market from noon to 4 p.m. 631-751-0300

St. James

The St. James Chamber of Commerce, Deepwells Farm Historical Society and the St. James Fire Department invites the community to a Christmas Tree Lighting celebration at Deepwells Farm County Park, 2 Taylor Lane, St. James on Dec. 7 from 4 p.m. to 6 p.m. with holiday music, kids crafts, pictures with Santa, cookies and hot chocolate. 631-584-8510

Shoreham

Tesla Science Center at Wardenclyffe, 5 Randall Road, Shoreham invites the community to their annual Holiday Lighting at Wardenclyffe event on Dec. 7 from 3 to 6 p.m. Enjoy music, festive exhibits and activities for all ages with a special visit from Santa and Mrs. Claus. Rain date is Dec. 14. Register for your free tickets at www.teslasciencecenter.org. 631-886-2632

Smithtown

— Town of Smithtown will host its annual tree lighting ceremony at Town Hall, 99 West Main St. Smithtown on Dec. 3 from 5 p.m. to 6:30 p.m. with live music, performances from local school districts and dance companies, holiday treats, and a special guest from the North Pole, Rain date is Dec. 5.

NEW LOCATION — Smithtown Library, 148 Smithtown Blvd., Nesconset will light their holiday tree on Dec. 6 from 6 to 7:30 p.m. with refreshments, music and photos with Santa. 631-360-2480

Stony Brook

The Ward Melville Heritage Organization hosts a Holiday Tree Lighting with Santa at the Stony Brook Village Center Green, 111 Main St., Stony Brook on Dec. 8 at 5:30 p.m. as part of the WMHO’s 45th annual Holiday Festival. 631-751-2244.

Wading River

The Shoppes at East Wind in Wading River will host its 8th annual Holiday Tree Lighting on Dec. 7 from 4 p.m. to 8 p.m.  Enjoy live DJ entertainment and a dance number by All Star Dance Academy. Children can ride Rudolph on the carousel and put in a letter in Santa’s mailbox. Santa arrives on a Wading River Fire Department fire truck at 6 p.m. to light the tree. 631-846-2372

By Tara Mae

The holidays are a time to celebrate community, both big and small. Local holiday markets abound with opportunities for festive fun and merry memories in the making. 

Whether singular excursions or weeks-long endeavors, these holiday affairs are designed to foster a jovial mood. More than just shopping sites, they enable attendees to forge new traditions as they support local craftspeople and discover one-of-a-kind items. 

Upcoming celebrations include the Holiday Market Wonderland at the Reboli Center in Stony Brook, Winter Holiday Market at Setauket Neighborhood House, and Holiday Gift Bazaar at Gallery North in Setauket, Station Yards Ronkonkoma’s Holiday Market and Holiday Markets of the Huntington Holiday Spectacular.

Set up in a large heated tent behind the Reboli Center for Art and History, 64 Main St., Stony Brook and organized by Tracey Balaker of Freebird Events, the third annual Holiday Night Market Wonderland will be held on Saturday, November 30, from 3 p.m. to 8 p.m.  Reboli’s gallery and gift shop, which normally close at 5 p.m., will stay open for the duration of the occasion.

“I am excited to bring this event to the Reboli Center, right in the heart of magical Stony Brook Village; it is such a great location. I was trying to create a Bryant Park village, Christmas market feel — everyone comes dressed and adorns their spaces with lights,” said Balaker. 

Approximately 55 vendors — both inside and outside the tent — will offer items such as baked goods, handmade crafts, unique gifts, and clothing. A food stand will provide sweet treats, including cider and hot chocolate, for visitors to  enjoy as they are serenaded by carolers, the Celestial Singers. Frosty the Snowman, the Gingerbread Man, and other holiday characters will make cameo appearances, and a pony from Peaches Pony Parties will be decked out as a reindeer and pose for photo opportunities. 

“Everyone who has come to it the past few years says it feels like a Hallmark Christmas movie,” said Balaker. 

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From a film scene to a historic setting, Three Village Historical Society’s (TVHS) fourth annual Winter Holiday Market will take place at the Setauket Neighborhood House, 95 Main St., Setauket on Sunday, December 1, from 11 a.m. to 4 p.m.

Displaying an array of evergreen accent pieces, edible artistry, and artisanal craftsmanship, 32 vendors will be situated throughout the building and on the porch. 

“We have stunning greenery displays and floral arrangements, New York cheese, balsamic glazes, local honey, decorated cookies, delicious baked goods, spices and seasonings and soups, farm fresh preserves, and a brand new distillery with a Culper Spy theme,” said TVHS Community Engagement Manager Kimberly Phyfe. 

Other participants will be offering their artisanal products: jewelry, soaps, candles, pottery, knitwear, clothing, personalized drinkware, and artwork. TVHS will likewise have a pop-up gift shop with trinkets, books, and other selections from its inventory. 

“We are so looking forward to giving our guests a place to shop small & support local,” Phyfe said. 

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Located at 90 North Country Road in Setauket, Gallery’s North’s fourth annual Holiday Gift Bazaar is another celebration of communal appreciation as well as artistic expression. On Saturday, December 14, from 11 a.m. to 6 p.m., it will highlight the work of 12 artists displaying their jewelry, ceramics, wood craft, fiber art, candles, and printmaking. 

“The Gallery North Holiday Gift Bazaar is a special indoor holiday gift market that provides an alternative to online and department store shopping. Artists will display their work on tables in both the Gallery and the Studio,” Gallery North Director of Development Erin Smith said. 

Patrons will also be able to choose works from the gallery’s current exhibition, Deck the Halls, and choose from an array of handmade, local goods in its gift shop. Level Up Kitchen will be onsite, selling food and drinks. 

“The Bazaar is an excellent opportunity to support local artists and businesses,” Smith said. 

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The newly opened Station Yards at 3 Hawkins Avenue in Ronkonkoma and the Holiday Markets of the Huntington Holiday Spectacular will give audiences multiple chances to embrace the joyful camaraderie of the season. 

On Saturdays, November 30 to December 21, from noon to 4 p.m., Station Yards will premiere its first Holiday Market around the Village Green. Shop from a curated selection of local vendors and artisans, offering unique gifts, handmade goods, and seasonal treats—perfect for holiday gifting.

Available every Friday and Sunday in December, from noon to 5 p.m., except Friday, December 6, when it turns into a night market from 5 to 9 p.m., the Holiday Markets along Wall Street in Huntington will be multi-sensory spectacles presenting a collection of shopping and social conveniences. 

At the heart of these five holiday markets is the enticement of strengthening existing  human connections and forging new ones while promoting common interests. 

“When your holiday gifts come from small business owners and local vendors, the money stays within the neighborhood. It’s more than purchasing the perfect present, it’s building up our own community,” Phyfe said. 

Founder of Christmas Magic, Charlie Russo, far left, accepts a check on behalf of the charity.

By Fr. Francis Pizzarelli

Fr. Francis Pizzarelli

It is hard to believe that the holiday season 2024 is so fast approaching. As I write this column, it is still a week before Thanksgiving and the holiday lights are appearing everywhere. For college students, final exams are fast approaching. 

This has been a really challenging year for us as a nation. The election of our President brought out great divisiveness. The negativity was painful and the intense polarization was so infectious.

However, the mood is changing. Thanksgiving is upon us. It’s a time for building bridges, not walls. It’s a time to take pause and be profoundly grateful for all of our blessings. It’s a time for reaching out to our neighbors, even if we’ve disagreed with them. It’s a time for us to celebrate the greatness of our nation.

We should take a moment this holiday season to give thanks for what we have and build upon it in the new year.

Every year I am so impressed with my college students and what they do for others. My university students at St. Joseph’s are so generous with our Thanksgiving and Christmas projects that serve those in need. My Suffolk County Community College students are equally generous with their time and talent. They give so much during this wonderful season that it really makes a difference. I am so proud of them. They inspire me to stay the course and continue in higher education.

More than three decades ago, a young lawyer named Charlie Russo wanted to teach his children the real meaning of the Christmas season. It gave birth to a program that has grown tremendously known as Christmas Magic (christmasmagic.org). It reaches out to all of our children that must spend the Christmas season in our county homeless shelters.

Now more than 30 years later, the organization continues to inspire young people and adults from all over the county to give their time and talent during the holiday season. Hundreds of our high school students volunteer to wrap presents and volunteer as elves. A growing number of college students are also volunteering every holiday season to help and support the efforts of Christmas Magic. 

We also cannot forget the extreme generosity of our larger community who contribute money and presents so Christmas Magic can continue to touch the lives of thousands of little kids who are in our county homeless shelters.

By the time you read this column, you will be in the midst of celebrating this wonderful time of year, a time for love for peace and for gratitude. May this holiday season be a real blessing to all of you.

Father Francis Pizzarelli, SMM, LCSW-R, ACSW, DCSW, is the director of Hope House Ministries in Port Jefferson.

By Jennifer Donatelli

It’s that time of year when Santa Claus comes to town. The jolly old man was spotted at Centerport United Methodist Church on Saturday, Nov. 23, kicking off the holiday season as the church hosted its annual Santaport. Attendees enjoyed a day filled with caroling, shopping, eating and camaraderie.

Santaport is the church’s largest fundraiser, with hundreds of people attending each year. Shoppers browsed through a huge selection of new and vintage jewelry, toys, clothing, white elephant gifts and a visit to the “North Pole” to see Santa and take pictures.

The crowd began forming outside the church an hour before it opened, but no one seemed to mind, especially Eric Holzman of Northport. Holzman explained that waiting in line is a great way to meet new people and start conversations. He added, “I come for the deals and to shop for things people would normally throw out.”

Paul Kozlowski from Greenlawn and his wife, Connie, have been members of the congregation for more than 30 years. Paul serves as a greeter each year. They said the yearly event brings the church community together. “Everyone at the church puts in some type of volunteer role for this event,” Kozlowski explained.

Daphne and John Burns from Greenlawn expressed interest in toys and clothing for their grandkids. Daphne said she likes tools because older ones are sturdier and don’t break as often. She also enjoys shopping for knickknacks for her home.

The event wasn’t just for adults. Kids enjoyed the Children’s Craft Room, where they played with toys and bubbles and made decoupage jars with tissue paper and holiday decals.

Shopping worked up appetites, and food was plentiful. Visitors enjoyed homemade quiches, soups, BBQ pulled pork, fresh blueberry pies and cheesecake — all made and served by church volunteers.

“I enjoy helping prepare the food and working with my friends to help serve the church and community,” said Susan Beck of East Northport, a longtime volunteer and church member.

Judy White from Centerport echoed a similar sentiment. Her team of volunteers made 91 quarts of soup for the day. White explained that the event is a “wonderful opportunity for the church and the community to come together before the holidays.”

The church also hosted Sarah Zagaza, author of “Raising Betty,” for a book signing and appearance with her service dog Fenway. The book is a memoir about the challenges and rewards of raising a guide dog. Zagaza shares personal stories of dedication, compassion and the profound bond formed between a guide dog and its handler.

A visit to Santa inside the chapel was the highlight of each child’s visit. Santa said he has the best job in the world and loves seeing children’s eyes light up when they come to see him.

The holiday bazaar was a heartwarming success, bringing the community together to celebrate the spirit of the season. The event not only raised funds for important church programs but also provided a joyful opportunity for neighbors to connect and share in the holiday cheer. As the day drew to a close, the laughter and goodwill lingered, reminding everyone of the true meaning of the season — togetherness, generosity and faith.

The Suffolk County Vanderbilt Museum’s holiday centerpiece is the summer mansion of William and Rosamond Vanderbilt, decorated each year by local designers and garden clubs. Their creative touch brings additional charm and magic to the spectacular, 24-room, Spanish-Revival house. Built in stages from 1910 to 1936, the grand waterfront house overlooking Northport Harbor in Centerport is listed on the National Register of Historic Places.

Renowned designer and author Tricia Foley has just completed decorating eight rooms for the holidays while five local garden clubs — Asharoken, Centerport, Dix Hills, Nathan Hale, and Three Village — decorated an additional eight rooms. The stunning results will take visitors on trip back in time at the estate of a prominent family whose guests included famous Americans and British royalty.

“The historic mansion has never looked more stunning for the holiday season, thanks to the extraordinary vision of Tricia Foley, her brilliant team, and their collaboration with the garden clubs. The mansion is bright and alive with earthy elegance and the inviting scents of the season — a magical and timeless atmosphere,” said Elizabeth Wayland-Morgan, Executive Director of the Vanderbilt.

Foley, who has decorated houses at Colonial Williamsburg, is principal of Tricia Foley Design. She specializes in all aspects of home design and restoration and is known for her simple, classic style.

“The challenge in decorating historic houses is, what is period appropriate?” she said during a decorating break at the mansion. “In the early days, people did not use much décor. They might place a sprig of greenery on a mirror or looking glass, as they were called.

“Here, we want to bridge the gap. The mansion is elegant, with original furnishings, tapestries, sconces, lamps, and crystal. Red and green is expected, but we’re using silver, gold and cream. Instead of color, we’re using candlelight and crystal — as much sparkle as we can get.”

Foley said she wanted to create a “natural” look, with greenery, garlands, ribbons, and ornaments on the mantelpieces. She also made use of decorative objects the museum had from past years — Tiffany boxes with gold bows, and small brass instruments.

“There are so many beautiful things to work with,” she said. “The Vanderbilts were not here in December, so we have to imagine what it would have been like. If they had been here, they would have used poinsettias, apples, oranges, and greenery.”

Foley has decorated homes for House Beautiful, Victoria, and Country Home as well as four historic houses in Yaphank for their historical society. Her own house on the East End of Long Island has been photographed for Neiman Marcus, the Pottery Barn, and Land’s End for their Christmas catalogs

Enjoy the holiday magic at the Vanderbilt mansion during guided tours now through December. Regular guided tours will take place on Fridays from 11:30 a.m. and 3:30 p.m. and weekends from 12:30 p.m. to 3:30 p.m. Special candlelight tours will be offered on Saturday, Dec. 7 and 14, and Friday, Dec. 20, from 5 p.m. to 8 p.m. Private tours of the mansion are also available. 

The Suffolk County Vanderbilt Museum is located at 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport. For more informaton and ticket prices, visit www.vanderbiltmuseum.org.

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By Jennifer Donatelli

While many people enjoy a day off work or school to celebrate Thanksgiving with family and friends, others are struggling just to put food on the table each day. With the aid of Helping Hands Rescue Mission, a nonprofit organization based in Huntington Station, hundreds of families will have a lot to be thankful for this holiday season.

The mission introduced a program called Fill a Box, Feed a Family in 2021 that collects food donations for Thanksgiving. Donors pick up a box at the outreach center, fill it with all the fixings for a Thanksgiving meal and return the box by Nov. 22 to Huntington Assembly of God in Huntington Station. Some people fill one box, others fill multiple boxes.

With a mission rooted in compassion and community support, Helping Hands Rescue Mission seeks to alleviate some of the burdens faced by the underprivileged, offering both immediate relief and long-term hope. Through the generosity of donors and the tireless efforts of 125 volunteers, they work to ensure no one goes without the essentials for survival and dignity.

The mission was founded in 1965 by newlyweds Rev. J.A. Gaines, his wife, Rev. Rose Marie Gaines and her mother Florence E. Meringola, after witnessing local poverty firsthand. The couple returned from their honeymoon and used their wedding money to start the mission with the viewpoint that if they could help even one person, it was worth the investment.

The foundation’s work continues 59 years later under the direction of their daughter, Rev. Kim Gaines-Gambino, who functions as the president and pastor of the nonprofit. “My parents were the best ambassadors of what it means to love, serve and give,” said Gaines-Gambino. “Those were the core values of their mission, and we continue to do that today.”

When asked about what it means to run the mission on a daily basis, Gaines-Gambino said it means so much to her because she grew up with the mission and doesn’t know what life is like without it. “Serving the community has always been a part of my life,” she said.

Working with Food Rescue U.S., a nonprofit that transfers fresh food from restaurants, grocers and other food industry sources, the mission is able to provide prepared meals for the more than 250 people they serve each week.

One of the oldest members of the organization is Huntington resident Kay Jahn, who, at 90 has been volunteering since the mission first opened. She described her work as “a gift from God.”

Mary Reid of East Northport has been volunteering in the food pantry for seven years. This week was special because her grandsons, Nicholas and Robert Parisi, ages 9 and 7, visited from South Carolina during their school break to work with her in the food pantry. “We get to help people, and it feels good when you can see people be happy for one day,” said Nicholas.

Gaines-Gambino explained the town has been very generous to them over the years. “Whole Foods in South Huntington gave us a $10,000 donation and delivers food to us three times a week,” she said. The mission also receives donations from Trader Joe’s, Starbucks and Lidl, to name a few.

In addition to the outreach program, Helping Hands Rescue Mission introduced a monthly program in 2017 they call Baby Blessings. “We were running out of diapers in different sizes for the moms who came to the outreach,” Gaines-Gambino said, “so we set aside one special day a month where we can do outreach just for moms and their babies.”

Held on the third Tuesday of each month at the Huntington Assembly of God in Huntington Station, Baby Blessings provides more than 160 underprivileged families in the community with diapers, baby clothes, baby supplies, toys and a warm breakfast and coffee donated by Starbucks. Shoppers can also take home formula, baby food, strollers, car seats and bassinets.

Registration is necessary to participate in the program, and all moms must be residents of Huntington, with some referrals accepted.

Claudia Gaffoor, a referral from Flushing, experienced poverty firsthand when she was laid off from her job as a crossing guard and couldn’t afford to pay her rent or buy food for her family. A single mom of two boys, Gaffoor has been coming to Baby Blessings since her 3-year-old was born. “I fell on some hard times,” Gaffoor said. “I can’t afford to buy my son clothes.”

Through a partnership with the Allied Foundation, a nonprofit comprised of pediatricians from Long Island, Baby Blessings is able to meet their diaper needs each month.

Liz Sturm from Commack, a retired doctor and longtime volunteer, comes every Monday to unload the truck. “My parents came from Poland after the war. We didn’t have anything like this to help us,” Sturm said. “So I like to help others as much as I can.”

Baby Blessings, run by Donna Fortmeyer of Hauppauge along with a team of volunteers, sorts, folds and pre-packs bags of donated clothes by size, making sure each bag has matching outfits along with pajamas, sweaters, pants and shoes. “It’s a great feeling knowing how many families we can help and how happy we can make them,” said Fortmeyer.

Ann Macchia, from Huntington, volunteers each week and even takes clothes home with her to fold and sort. “It gives me a great feeling to help other people and see the smiles on their faces,” she said. “At the end of the day, this is what it’s all about.”

Through fundraising and generous donations from the community, the mission is in its final stages of building a house they call The Community Kitchen — a homelike space that will provide fresh, nutritious meals to food-insecure families, veterans and the homeless on a daily basis.

The mission opens its outreach center to the Huntington community every Tuesday through Friday from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. People can come to the pantry once every 15 days to get household items, clothing and food.

“Every person is deserving of love and compassion, regardless of their circumstances,” Gaines-Gambino said. “By offering a helping hand to those in need, we hope to spread the message of God’s unconditional love.” For more information visit www.helpinghandsrescuemission.org.

Stony Brook Village Center invites the community to celebrate the start of the holiday shopping season with a free, festive Black Friday event on Friday, November 29.

Throughout the day, visitors can enjoy exclusive deals from shops across the open-air village, while a lineup of family-friendly activities adds to the holiday cheer.

From 1:30 pm to 3:30 pm, the Steppin’ Out Ponies Petting Zoo will set up in front of D.K. Brothers. This experience offers guests the chance to feed and interact with a variety of animals, providing a delightful break from shopping.

To add to the holiday ambiance, The Celestial Holiday Carolers will perform live from 1:30pm to 3:30pm throughout the Village Center. Shoppers can expect holiday favorites and seasonal classics that will set the perfect holiday mood for a memorable day in Stony Brook.

For more information about Black Friday in Stony Brook Village, visitstonybrookvillage.com or call (631) 751-2244.

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Honor your friends and family with healthier Thanksgiving option

By David Dunaief, M.D.

Dr. David Dunaief

Research tells us that Americans are more likely to gain weight between Thanksgiving and New Year’s Day. This is when many accumulate the greatest weight gain of the year, and most do not lose the weight they gain during this time (1). In the study group, those who were already overweight or obese had the greatest weight gains. If you can avoid weight gain during the holidays, think of the possibilities for the rest of the year.

It’s difficult to maintain healthy eating habits during the Thanksgiving holidays, and the additional stress of the season doesn’t help. Even when we intend to resist, it’s too tempting to indulge in a sprawling buffet or seasonal treats.

Unfortunately, this can have significant health consequences. And if you tend to overeat, be aware that there are short-term consequences of stuffing ourselves. Overeating during a single meal can increase your heart attach risk in the near term, according to the American Heart Association (2).  

How can you turn Thanksgiving dinner into a healthier meal? The secret is often hidden in the side dishes on your table and the snacks you offer. 

Increase the carotenoids

Carotenoids help to prevent and potentially reverse diseases, such as breast cancer, amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (Lou Gehrig’s disease), age-related macular degeneration, and cardiovascular disease. Foods that contain these substances are dark green leafy vegetables, as well as orange, yellow and red vegetables and fruits. These phytochemicals (plant nutrients) have antioxidant and anti-inflammatory effects (3).

Prepare veggies in an appetizing way

Vegetables are often prepared in either an unappetizing way or smothered in cheese and butter, negating any benefits. Fruits are often buttered and sugared beyond recognition or used as a garnish for more decadent dishes. 

Other plant-based foods, like whole grains and leafy greens, are often afterthoughts. Here are some suggestions to get you thinking about ways to shift the heavy holiday meal paradigm:

Elevate plant-based dishes. Supplement tradition by adding mouthwatering vegetable-based dishes. One of my favorites is steamed “sweet” vegetables – cauliflower, broccoli, snap peas, onions and garlic. To make it sweet, I sauté it in a splash of citrus-infused balsamic vinegar and add sliced apples. Who doesn’t love poached apples? You can make this a primary dish by adding diced tofu or garbanzo beans to make it more filling without overwhelming its delicate sweetness.

Add seasonings. Why would you serve vegetables without any seasoning? In my family, we season vegetables and make sauces to drizzle over them. Personally, I’m a fan of infused vinegars. Choose your favorites to add varied flavors to different vegetables. 

Our teenaged nephew, who never liked vegetables, fell in love with my wife’s roasted Brussels sprouts and broccoli while on summer vacation together. He texted her afterward to ask for the recipes, which are surprisingly simple: place them on a roasting tray, add salt-free spices, and roast to your desired tenderness. Now, he makes them for himself. Resources for appealing vegetable dishes can be found at PCRM.org, mouthwateringvegan.com, and many other online resources.

Replace refined grains and starches. A study in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition showed that replacing wheat or refined grains with whole wheat and whole grains significantly reduced central fat, or belly fat (4). The participants lost superficial fat found just below the skin, as well as visceral adipose tissue, the fat that lines organs and causes chronic diseases such as cancer.

For even better results, consider substituting riced cauliflower or mashed cauliflower for rice or potatoes. You can purchase frozen riced cauliflower in grocery stores now. Be sure to choose one that’s unsalted. If you prefer mashed potatoes, here’s a simple recipe for mashed cauliflower, which is delicious: https://medicalcompassmd.com/post/mashed-cauliflower-recipe-vegan. 

Offer healthy snacks. Choose to lay out trays of whole grain brown rice crackers, baby carrots, cherry tomatoes and healthy dips like low-salt hummus and salsa instead of creamy dips, cheese platters and candies. Help people choose wisely.

Improve dessert options. You might include a dairy-free, sugar-free pumpkin pudding or fruit salad. Both are light and won’t make you feel overstuffed.

Your overarching goal should be to increase your appealing, nutrient-dense options and decrease your empty-calorie foods. Express your gratitude for family and friends and promote their good health with a delicious, thoughtful, festive meal.

References:

(1) N Engl J Med. 2000 Mar 23;342(12):861–867. (2) www.heart.org. (3) Crit Rev Food Sci Nutr 2010;50(8):728–760. (4) Am J Clin Nutr 2010 Nov;92(5):1165-71.

Dr. David Dunaief is a speaker, author and local lifestyle medicine physician focusing on the integration of medicine, nutrition, fitness and stress management. For further information, visit www.medicalcompassmd.com or consult your personal physician.

 

By Heidi Sutton

Twenty years ago, Theatre Three’s Douglas Quattrock decided to put down on paper an original bedtime story he had been telling his nieces and nephews for years. Joining forces with Jeffrey Sanzel, they created an adorable musical about a little elf and a tiny reindeer who teach us that “Christmas lies within our hearts.” Titled Barnaby Saves Christmas, it has become a beloved tradition that comes to life on the theater’s stage for the holidays.

It’s Christmas Eve and Santa’s workshop is a flurry of activity as elves Sam, Crystal and Blizzard make last minute preparations before they join Santa and his reindeer in delivering presents. The newest elf, Barnaby, is busy finishing a special request from Santa — a little stuffed bear with dark blue pants, buckles on his shoes and a bright yellow vest. 

When everyone else leaves on Santa’s sleigh, Barnaby soon realizes that the stuffed bear has been left behind and convinces Franklynne the littlest reindeer to help him track down Santa and give him the toy. Along the way they meet a Jewish family and learn all about Hanukkah and bump into an evil villain named S. B. Dombulbury who, with his partner in crime Irving, are stuffing chimneys with coal in order to steal all the presents. 

Directed by Colleen Britt, the show, featuring 9 adult cast members — Matthew J. Hoffman (Barnaby), Cassidy Rose O’Brien (Franklynne), Steven Uihlein (S.B. Dombulbury), Julia Albino (Sam), Jason Allyn (Santa, Andrew), Jason Furnari (Irving), Gina Lardi (Mrs. Claus, Sarah), Katy Snair (Blizzard, Rebecca) and Delaney Jessica (Crystal, Dalia) — is always evolving. For this special anniversary, Quattrock has added a new song, “Light the Candles,” with additional characters in the second act and the sound effects and lighting have reached new elevations.

Many of the actors are given a chance to shine with solos with special mention to Hoffman’s rendition of “Still With A Ribbon on Top,” Uihlein’s “S.B. Dombulbury,””Gina Lardi’s “Miracles,” and Allyn’s “Within Our Hearts,” all beautifully executed. 

With choreography by Sari Feldman, the holiday show is jam packed with singing (including a fun rap song) and dancing (even tap!), comedy, suspense, hypnosis, surprises and a fun chase scene through the theater your kids will love. It even snows on stage! The show utilizes the set of the theater’s current production of “A Christmas Carol,” giving it an authentic feel and the sparkly and elegant costumes by the multi-talented Jason Allyn complete the magic.

Kick off your holidays with Barnaby Saves Christmas and experience an afternoon of pure joy. Souvenir elves and reindeer are available for purchase before the show and during intermission and the entire cast will be in the lobby after the show for photos. 

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Theatre Three, 412 Main St., Port Jefferson presents Barnaby Saves Christmas through Dec. 28. Children’s theater continues with Hansel & Gretel from Jan. 24 to Feb. 8, Dorothy’s Adventures in Oz from Feb. 19 to March 29, The Adventures of Peter Rabbit from April 16 to May 10 and Snow White from May 29 to June. 21. All seats are $12. To order, call 631-928-9100 or visit www.theatrethree.com.