Yearly Archives: 2024

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Christopher Reeve played the cinematic hero Superman in four films. Photo courtesy of © Warner Bros./ DC Studios

Reviewed by Jeffrey Sanzel

Born in 1952, Christopher Reeve graduated from Cornell before studying acting at the Juilliard School, appearing in a range of stage productions. His cinematic work encompassed nearly two dozen films, including Somewhere in Time (1980), Deathtrap (1982), and The Remains of the Day (1993). But he will be forever remembered as the legendary Man of Steel in Superman (1978) and its sequels Superman II (1980), Superman III (1983), and Superman IV: The Quest for Peace (1987). 

In 1985, after learning to ride for the television version of Anna Karenina, Reeve became an avid equestrian. On May 27, 1995, his horse made a refusal (a failure to jump a fence which stops forward movement). Reeve fell and shattered his first and second vertebrae, resulting in a cervical spinal injury that resulted in paralysis from the neck down. 

Super/Man: The Christopher Reeve Story is a well-crafted, riveting documentary chronicling Reeve’s life, emphasizing his career as the cinematic superhero, his accident, and its aftermath. Directors Ian Bonhôte and Peter Ettedgui (who co-wrote the script with Otto Burnham) created a loving, dimensional tribute to a beloved personality in a sensitive but unflinching account. 

In the film’s first ten minutes, Reeve is established as Superman and superstar and quickly shifts to the accident: “In an instant, everything changed.” Over one hundred and four well-paced minutes, the filmmakers interview his children from his relationship with British modeling executive Gae Exton—Matthew Reeve and Alexandra Reeve Givens—and his son from his marriage to actor-singer Dana Morosini—Will Reeve. Exton, Glenn Close, Susan Sarandon, Whoopi Goldberg, Jeff Daniels, and John Kerry are interviewed, sharing their working and personal relationships with Reeve. 

The film touches on Reeve’s difficult childhood with unsupportive parents who divorced when he was three and remarried. In archival footage, Reeve discusses his father’s perpetual disappointment in his choices. Reeve saw theatre as providing a “neutral place that felt like home.” Theatre offered security with a beginning, middle, and end. The filmmakers emphasize his friendship with Juilliard classmate Robin Williams as well as his early days as a stage actor. While appearing in an off-Broadway play, Reeve flew to London for a Superman audition at Pinewood Studios. (Fellow castmate William Hurt discouraged him from selling out.) Immediately cast, the milestone changed the entire course of his career.

The film alternates between tracing the Superman films with his life post-accident, smartly weaving and contrasting the two worlds. His personal life is respectfully but thoroughly explored, focusing on his time with Exton and the birth of their two children. Realizing that they were incompatible, they separated but shared custody. Over the next several years, Reeve led a more Hollywood lifestyle until meeting Morosini. After a short courtship, Reeve realized he was ready to settle down, and they married in 1992. Their idyllic life was devastated just three years later.

The days immediately following the accident segue into the years of challenges and soul-searching. He states, “I ruined my life and everyone else’s.” The highly active Reeve pondered his shift from intensely “no fail” and “never quit” to a more reflective worldview. His sense of isolation, his weeks on the ventilator, and his fear of not just death but if I live, “Now what?” are part of the many interviews documented with Reeve. His shift in his approach to parenting is intimate and insightful. 

Super/Man draws on hundreds of hours of footage of Reeve’s struggles. (One odd note is the use of clips from the 1998 remake of Rear Window; they seem strangely integrated as they are not indicated as fictional.) Reeve became an outspoken activist, raising awareness for others in similar situations. He and Morosini founded The Christopher Reeve Foundation (later The Christopher and Dana Reeve Foundation), whose mission is “dedicated to curing spinal cord injury by advancing innovative research and improving the quality of life for individuals and families impacted by paralysis.” Reeve became a high-profile advocate, beginning with his first public appearance at the 68th Annual Academy Awards.

Central is the committed family bond—all three children, Exton, and, especially, Morosini—supported Reeve, who required twenty-four-hour care. (At the time, the cost was $400,000 a year.) Reeve’s gradual return to film, directing In the Gloaming and occasional acting appearances are traced until his sudden death on October 10, 2004 of heart failure at the age of 52. The coda is Morosini’s cancer diagnosis and passing two years later. 

The film is raw, compelling, and heartbreaking. Reeve lost much but embraced a difficult future: he made his path about giving visibility to those in similar straits. Ultimately, Super/Man is an honest and eye-opening look at the person who once said, “I am not a hero. I never have been, and I never will be.” On the contrary, Reeve was a hero in the real sense of the word—a person who has “the strength to persevere in the face of overwhelming obstacles.” Super/Man celebrates this truth.

The documentary is now playing in local theaters.

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Howell E. Leming

Prepared by the Leming family

Howell E. Leming, a 55-year resident of Stony Brook and one of the first graduate students at Stony Brook University, died May 28, at 90.

Leming was born in Chicago where his father was a doctor at Hines Veterans Hospital. He spent his early years in La Grange Park, Illinois before his family returned to his father’s home state of Arkansas. He graduated from Fayetteville High School in 1951 and from the University of Arkansas at Fayetteville in 1955 with a degree in chemistry. In college, he was a cadet in the Army ROTC Chemical Corps.

Leming attended graduate school in physics at Washington University in St. Louis, Missouri then followed his adviser, Alexander Pond, to become one of the first graduate students at the State University of New York at Oyster Bay (now Planting Fields). When the Stony Brook campus opened in 1962, he was among its first graduate students during its early years of mud and scaffolding. Like many students, he rented an apartment in Port Jefferson. In 1969, he moved to Stony Brook where he lived for the rest of his life.

He worked for many years in the publishing and printing industries, first as an editor at Prentice Hall and Exxon’s publications division and then in sales for Mergenthaler Linotype Company and Hell Graphic Systems, a printing equipment firm owned by Siemens. His career spanned the transition from hot type letterpress mechanical typesetting to the desktop publishing revolution and the dawn of the internet age.

Leming was a true gentleman and a Renaissance man, educated in the sciences with a deep love for history and literature. He had a way with words both spoken and written and read widely—from Xenophon and Caesar to A.A. Milne and Chinua Achebe. He was a font of knowledge, a gentle man and a true gentleman. Ave atque vale.

He is survived by his children Mary Claire of Stony Brook and Nicholas Reynolds of the United Kingdom, as well as five grandchildren. He was predeceased by his wives Christine Reynolds and Beatrice Willard Leming.

After retirement, Leming spent many happy hours in local libraries. Donations in his memory may be made to the Port Jefferson Free Library, 100 Thompson St., Port Jefferson, NY 11777 (portjefflibrary.org) or the Emma S. Clark Memorial Library, 120 Main St., Setauket, NY 11733 (emmaclark.org).

A memorial service will be held Tuesday, Oct. 29, at 2 p.m. at St. James Episcopal Church, 490 North Country Road, St. James, 11780.

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John Leahy

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John J. Leahy Jr., 79, of Selden, passed away on Sept. 22.

He was born Dec. 30, 1944, in Atlanta, Georgia, to the Honorable John J. Leahy and Catherine Ryan Leahy. John grew up in both Southampton and Astoria, graduating from All Hallows High School. He went on to earn a bachelor’s degree in business administration from Fordham University.

John had a distinguished career as a senior sales account manager for Coca-Cola and Cablevision until his retirement in 2010. He also proudly served in the Army during the Vietnam War.

An avid sports enthusiast, John was passionate about all sports and was a devoted fan of the New York Yankees and New York Giants. He loved barbecuing and treasured time with his family, especially during their yearly trips to Woodloch Pines in Pennsylvania. Known for his great sense of humor, he kept friends and family laughing throughout the years and was affectionately called “Bud” by those closest to him.

John enjoyed dining at his favorite restaurants, Paces Steakhouse and The Elbow Room, and had a lifelong love for the Rolling Stones.

He is survived by his beloved wife of 56 years, Pamela; his three children, Heather Leahy, Christina Leahy Gregory and Brian Leahy Jessica; and his three adored grandchildren, Brielle Leahy, Ethan Gregory and Jameson Leahy.

Arrangements were entrusted to Bryant Funeral Home of Setauket. Visit www.bryantfh.com to sign the online guestbook.

Ron Darling will this year's keynote speaker. Photo from PSEG Long Island

Energy efficiency workshops, products and programs will provide backdrop for Darling’s personal account as player, sports commentator, author and actor

New York Mets World Series champion and recently inducted College Baseball Hall of Fame honoree, Ron Darling, will deliver the keynote address at PSEG Long Island’s Energize Long Island conference on Thursday, Nov. 7 from 7:30 a.m. to 4 p.m. The all-day event at the Hilton Long Island/Huntington, 598 Broadhollow Road, Melville will feature more than a dozen educational workshops to help attendees reduce their carbon footprint, maximize efficient energy usage and cultivate renewable energy resources. Darling’s inclusion in the program will delight baseball fans and sports enthusiasts in attendance.

“We are thrilled to have Ron Darling as our keynote speaker for the Energize Long Island conference this year as his former team makes a playoff run,” said Michael Voltz, director of Energy Efficiency and Renewables for PSEG Long Island. “I am certain attendees will enjoy hearing about his amazing career as a major league ball player, actor, author and award-winning sports commentator – even as he’s currently calling the Yankees playoff games. We’re glad to provide this value-added opportunity for our attendees. This will be the ninth year we’re providing this venue to educate people on saving money and protecting the planet through energy efficiency measures.”

Energize Long Island is geared for business owners, property managers and developers, architects, engineers, contractors, consultants and consumers interested in implementing cost-effective, proven and sustainable energy efficiency solutions. Led by industry experts, the agenda includes discussions on a wide variety of topics and best practices to benefit business owners and builders, the local economy and environment. The more than 500 expected attendees will learn about financial incentive programs, new technologies and programs that lead to reduced energy usage. Along with Ron Darling as the keynote speaker, attendees will also have the opportunity to see and learn about many products and new technologies that will be on display at a vendor showcase throughout the day.

Registration for the Energize Long Island conference is free for PSEG Long Island customers, and only $50 for all other attendees. Sponsorship and exhibiting opportunities are available. For additional information please visit www.energizelongisland.com.

 

SBU's Elizabeth Watson, second from right, and her team coring.

By Daniel Dunaief

Daniel Dunaief

I used to liken the process to sitting on a highway divider where the speed limit was 70 miles per hour, holding a notebook and trying to read and record as many license plates as I could, sometimes in the pouring rain, under a bright sun, or in thick fog.

Working for a wire service, with its 24-hour news feed and its endless space for stories, was exhilarating and exhausting. My editors sometimes called me at 4 a.m. to tell me about an important story that was breaking and to encourage me to come into the office to get to work.

Oh, and every three months, when the companies I covered reported earnings, I’d arrive at work for at least a week around 7 in the morning, wait for the numbers to come out, and then spend the day reading the reports, talking with analysts and investors, getting on media conference calls with top executives and watching the stock price of the company rise and fall.

My job was to search through all that information to anticipate how people would react to piles of electronic news.

It was a great opportunity to write on deadline and to experience the absurd. One day, I helped write a few headlines and then had to use the bathroom. As I pushed the door open, my editor, following uncomfortably closely behind me, hovered.

“Can I help you?” I asked, as I stopped and turned around.

“Yeah, how long are you going to be in here?” he asked in his usual staccato, urgent tone.

“As long as it takes,” I shrugged.

“Yeah, well, there’s a headline out there and you need to send out the first version of the story within 15 minutes,” he reminded me, as if I didn’t know our rules.

“I know,” I said, “and I’m sure my system will comply with the requirements.”

Those were tough days at the office.

I’m sure everyone has difficult days at work, whether it’s a police officer dealing with someone who is in an altered, drug-induced state who may be a danger to himself or others, a teacher helping a high-stress student prepare for a standardized test, a truck driver taking a long detour around a crash site, or any of the many other possible strains or obstacles between the start of the day and the workload.

Recently, I spoke with several climate scientists who are a part of the Science on Stage free celebration at Stony Brook University’s Staller Center, which is coming up on October 28th at 4 p.m. (see related story in the Arts & Lifestyles section).

These scientists endure everything from creature discomforts, to resistance to the work they’re doing, to their own deadlines and the need to conduct their studies, publish their results and apply for funding.

Indeed, Elizabeth Watson, Associate Professor in the Department of Ecology & Evolution at Stony Brook University, shared several challenging moments.

“I’ve gotten stuck in the mud, covered with ticks, I’ve gotten Lyme, crawled across mudflats, pushed boats across mudflats, had to row our power boat back to the launch ramp more than once, [and] got forgotten about on a raft in a lagoon,” Watson wrote in an email.

Each of those challenges could have become the focal point of action for a biopic about a scientist.

Heather Lynch, Professor in the Department of Ecology & Evolution, explained that her research on penguins in Antarctica requires considerable advanced planning.

“The main challenge of working in Antarctica is really the uncertainty imposed by the weather and logistics,” she explained in an email. “It’s not enough to have Plan B, it’s more like Plan B through Plan F and then some. Covid and now avian flu have made an already difficult situation even harder.”

Still, at their most challenging moments, waiting for the weather to change, hoping someone will remember to pick them up, or living without creature comforts, these researchers find joy and derive satisfaction in doing valuable and constructive work.

“I’m like a bricklayer, adding more bricks to an enormous wall of knowledge that was started long before I started working on penguins and will continue to be built long after,” Lynch wrote.

Or, to put it another way, Watson wrote that “I love my job! No regrets.”

METROCREATIVE CONNCETION

By Leah Dunaief

Leah Dunaief,
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My college class is hosting a forum on friendship and how to define it. During this time, when loneliness seems to be a problem for many, what role should friendship play, especially in our later years?

I read someplace, not too long ago, that most people claim to have five or six good friends, and that is ideal, according to the professionals who study this subject. It made me think about how many good friends I have, and whether I have the requisite number for a happy life.

What makes people become friends?

Perhaps friends play a different role in one’s life at different stages. I tried to remember the friends I had in my earliest years. There was Evelyn in Second Grade. What attracted me to her was her ability to draw. I was enamored with The Lone Ranger at that point, read as many books by Fran Striker (who I later learned was Frances, a woman author) as I could find, and I asked Evelyn to draw scenes from the books for me. I would give her some particulars, and she would follow up and make drawings on looseleaf sheets of paper that illustrated the vignettes I would describe to her. And she did so quickly, as I talked, which was amazing.

Why did she do that for me? She was terrible in arithmetic, and I would do her homework for her, probably as quickly as she could draw. So we had a mutual attraction as a result of our individual skills. Also she lived down the block from my family’s apartment, and we would walk home together from school. So convenience and mutual needs played a part in encouraging friendship.

It all ended, of course, when the teacher realized I was doing her homework. It was innocent enough. I never meant to abort her learning and hope she caught on to numbers and what one could do with them.

I went to an all-girls junior high school that only one other classmate entered, and she was put into a different section, so I had no friends immediately. But I was attracted to a small group who came from the other side of town and seemed to have a lot of fun with each other.

They were sophisticated. In particular, they would slip out of school 15 minutes before the end of the last class, run down the stairs of the subway outside the school building and ride to the Broadway Theater District, where they would arrive just as the plays would break for intermission.

When the audience members would then walk back in, they would, too, and carefully find empty seats. In that way, they saw the second act of some of the most famous musicals of the 1950s. I wanted desperately to be part of that group, and somehow they accepted me. They were my junior high friends, and I still think of them fondly.

So common interests make for friendships.

In high school and college, my friends were a couple of classmates that I most admired. They brought different ideas to class and had the courage to speak about the subjects in an original way. There were others, too, who were enjoyable companions throughout those early years, and with whom I kept up until we each went our separate ways after we married and moved from New York. But I kept in touch with those original two I most respected. So respect is another factor in deep friendships.

As we had children, our friends most often were the parents of their friends, which was convenient. And we had friends from work. But then, our children grew up, left the nest, and we were again on our own, with the time to rediscover old friends who were witnesses to our earlier years and to make new ones.

Witnesses and shared experiences now make for strong glue in friendship. And mutual admiration, loyalty and empathy for all that has happened and is happening to us as we age, are powerful bonds among friends.

Ward Melville High School. File photo

By Mallie Jane Kim

New York Regents Exam scores can no longer lower student course grades in Three Village Central School District, after the school board unexpectedly resurrected a policy that directs teachers to only include the scores if they help a student’s GPA.

“I believe we have reached a point in time where it makes sense to let these grades help our kids and let that be their incentive to do well,” said board President Susan Rosenzweig, in bringing the issue back to the table at an Oct. 9 board meeting. “But if it doesn’t, their academic work through the course of the year should stand toward their final grade.”

Just before Regents exams began last June, a new wave of parent advocacy led the board to reconsider the so-called “Do No Harm” policy, but at that time trustees reaffirmed their November vote to include the scores at 10% — down from about 12% before the pandemic.

After the last Regents season, though, students did report lower grades due to exam scores. Superintendent of Schools Kevin Scanlon called out the physics Regents as one that particularly impacted student course grades.

“Teachers and administrators always want to see the students do their best on whatever we give them, and want to give them the best opportunity,” Scanlon said, adding that some comparable districts do not include the scores in final grades since the state does not require it. “It’s not a perfect system.”

This decision comes as the state’s Education Department is considering a new vision for graduation requirements, which would provide alternate means of demonstrating proficiency, rather than requiring the exams for everyone.

But district administrators made clear the exams themselves are not a waste of effort.

“The Regents Exams are extremely important to us as far as the data we get,” said Brian Biscari, assistant superintendent for educational services. “They are one of the only tools of standardization that we have that we can look at our instructional program and see how our kids are doing.”

Celebrating cellphone policy success

The district’s effort to reduce the use of cellphones at school is showing positive results, according to Scanlon. He indicated the culture within the junior high schools, in particular, is improving.

“Seeing students without their faces buried in phones and literally having conversations at cafeteria tables is a real heart boost for everyone,” he said. “We’ve sort of turned a corner on this.”

High school students have welcomed the policy, as well, according to senior Hazel Cohas, Ward Melville High School’s student representative to the board.

“In the past, there have been policies that have faced a lot of backlash,” she shared, pointing specifically to a vandalism-prevention policy instituted last year requiring students to carry their IDs and swipe them to use restrooms. But on limiting cellphone use, she hasn’t heard complaints: “I haven’t heard anything, and I think it’s going well.”

Bullying complaints have seen a “very large decline” from this time last year, Scanlon reported, and particularly those associated with social media.

Scanlon urged vigilance, though, because it is still early in the school year and since “students are very smart,” some may look for ways around the policy.

Junior high to middle school preview

Three Village junior high schools will get new names in fall 2025, officially transitioning to Paul J. Gelinas Middle School and Robert Cushman Murphy Middle School, both comprising sixth through eighth grades.

More will shift than just the name and grade makeup, according to Biscari, who called the focus on transition supports a “comprehensive philosophical change in our middle school model.”

The most significant change is the addition of a standalone nine-minute advisory period to allow a specific time for the Pledge of Allegiance and announcements, as well as for activities to build social skills, social emotional learning and relationships. The schedule can also shift to allow for an extended advisory period on days where the student body participates in special activities, like on Unity Day.

According to the presentation by junior high principals, Corinne Keane (PJG) and Michael Jantzen (RCM), advisory groups will be heterogeneous, allowing students who would normally be in different level classes to be together.

“They start to forge connections with people — with kids, with staff members — that are hopefully making them feel a little bit more connected to their school and their environment,” explained Keane, who said area middle schools she’s spoken to have implemented the advisory period concept. “It’s a cornerstone of middle school culture.”

Sixth grade will operate under “teaching teams,” where a cohort of students will all be assigned the same set of teachers in core academic subjects. This way, teachers can better collaborate to help students succeed, and parents can meet with all of their child’s core teachers at once.

Students will also be able to spread requirements for technology, art, and family and consumer science over three years instead of two, allowing space for an additional elective each year.

The schools are already collaborating with elementary schools to aid in the transition of two grade levels up to next year’s middle schools, and they are looking ahead to additional ways to bridge the gap between middle school and high school. One part of that plan is to allow for some dances, celebrations and a theme-park field trip to be joint affairs with both eighth graders from the middle schools and ninth graders from the high school.

“We want to make sure that the transitions are as smooth as they can be,” said Jantzen, adding that junior high administrators will continue talking with staff from the other schools to continue to fine-tune transition supports. “We are taking into account all concerns.”

Changing to middle schools, though, means saying goodbye to a seventh-through-ninth-grade junior high model that has been around Three Village for nearly 60 years. The principals want to use this year’s junior high yearbooks to recognize that.

“We’re both looking to use the yearbook as a tool to commemorate,” Keane said. “In 50 years when someone picks up the yearbook, they get the sense that this was the year — this was the last year as a junior high school.”

 

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Suffolk County Crime Stoppers and Suffolk County Sixth Precinct Crime Section officers are seeking the public’s help to identify and locate the people who allegedly stole from a Medford store.

A man and woman allegedly stole approximately $200 worth of merchandise from TJ Maxx, located at 2799 Route 112, on October 13 at approximately 4 p.m.

Suffolk County Crime Stoppers offers a cash reward for information that leads to an arrest. Anyone with information about these incidents can contact Suffolk County Crime Stoppers to submit an anonymous tip by calling 1-800-220-TIPS, utilizing a mobile app which can be downloaded through the App Store or Google Play by searching P3 Tips, or online at www.P3Tips.com. All calls, text messages and emails will be kept confidential.

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Calling all job seekers! Northport Public Library, 151 Laurel Ave., Northport hosts a Job Fair on Wednesday, Oct. 23 from 10 a.m. to noon.

Come meet representatives from area companies including Cold Spring Harbor Labs, SCOPE, Family Service League, BAE Systems, United Parcel Service, New York Life, Suffolk County Civil Service, Max Security USA, Schivo Medical, Sterling North America, Citizens Options Unlimited, Aides at Home, Long Island State Veterans Home, United Way of LI and American Regent to discuss job opportunities. 

Bring your resume and dress for success! Arranged by Suffolk County One Stop Employment Center. No registration required. For more information, call 631-261-6930.

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By Britt Burner, Esq.

Britt Burner Esq.

If you are a parent of a young child, you have probably heard that you should have a will. But do you know why? There are two main reasons a parent of a minor child needs a Last Will and Testament and, in some cases, a revocable living trust. The first is to create a testamentary trust to hold assets distributable to the child who cannot legally inherit assets as a minor. The second is to name a guardian in the event both parents pass away before the child reaches the age of eighteen. 

So, what happens if you die without a will or trust? This is referred to as dying “intestate.” If you die intestate, to the extent that you have assets in your sole name, they will be distributed according to the state’s intestate succession statute. 

In New York, the spouse inherits the first $50,000 of your assets and the balance is distributed 50% to the spouse and 50% to the child(ren). This is usually not practical for a married couple, since most people want the surviving spouse to inherit everything, with children inheriting only upon the death of both parents. 

If you are not married and 100% of the assets go to your child(ren) or if you are married and it is only 50%, the default scenario is incredibly inefficient. If assets are to be paid out to a minor rather than to a testamentary trust created by your will or trust, a guardian of the property will be appointed by the court to handle the finances. Even if a family member or friend is eventually appointed, the court still appoints a guardian-ad-litem to represent the interests of the child. This is expensive, intrusive and ongoing. An annual budget is required and any deviations must be approved by the court. 

Furthermore, the assets remain in an account that is held jointly with the court and can only be accessed by court order. Additionally, the child will be able to take possession of all remaining assets at either 18 or 21 years of age – a time when the child may be too emotionally immature or inexperienced with finances to handle this sum of money. 

It makes sense to engage in estate planning that creates a trust for the benefit of your child(ren) upon your death. Any life insurance, bank accounts or retirement assets can list the trust as beneficiary. Organizing the disposition of your assets is crucial to making sure that those that are dependent upon you will be cared for at the time of your death.

Beyond the finances, there is the consideration of physical custody or guardianship of the minor child. If both parents pass away without a will that nominates a guardian, someone must petition the court to be appointed. This someone could be anyone, not necessarily the individual(s) you would choose to raise your child in your absence. This could lead to different family members or friends asserting control, with a judge ultimately deciding who will take on this responsibility. 

The simple solution to make this awful situation smoother for those you leave behind is to prepare a will. That way you can choose who will raise your child, who will handle your child’s inheritance and under what circumstances your child will inherit.

Britt Burner, Esq. is a Partner at Burner Prudenti Law, P.C. focusing her practice areas on Estate Planning and Elder Law. Burner Prudenti Law, P.C. serves clients from New York City to the east end of Long Island with offices located in East Setauket, Westhampton Beach, Manhattan and East Hampton.