Celebrating the life of JoJo LaRosa

Celebrating the life of JoJo LaRosa

By Serena Carpino

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The Joseph “JoJo” LaRosa Foundation held its second annual golf outing at St. George’s Golf and Country Club in Setauket Monday, July 29. The event honored Joseph “JoJo” LaRosa, who passed away in August 2021 after a three and a half year battle with desmoplastic small-round-cell tumor/sarcoma. 

JoJo was an avid athlete who played football and lacrosse at Ward Melville High School. “He was an athlete from the very first minute,” said Gina Mastrantoni, JoJo’s mother and executive director of the foundation. “His very first word was ‘ball,’ so he’s played almost every single sport.” 

JoJo was not only a dedicated athlete, but he was often described as kind, friendly and selfless. “He was always looking out for everyone – his friends and family. He was a very loyal friend and brother. Not only for his friends and family, but also for the kid in the next bed at the hospital,” said Emily LaRosa, his older sister and vice president of the organization. 

“He struggled so much physically [and] emotionally, and he still had space to think about his family, his friends and other kids that were in the same situation as him. And so I think that shows his selflessness and his ability to have empathy and compassion for other people,” she added.

Mastrantoni said, “He was often worried about me being his caretaker, always checking on me. He was selfless that way.”

Because of his illness, JoJo had to undergo several surgeries, which resulted in him having a large incision down the front of his body. The scar left him unable to be tackled again, leading him to commit himself to golf “as a way to release his anxiety and perfect his swing,” his mother explained. “He was a perfectionist. He was a really driven athlete.”

The foundation chose St. George’s as the location for the outing specifically for several reasons. “We were members at one time. We gave up our membership because we didn’t have time to come with his illness,” Mastrantoni said. Still, JoJo would play with his stepfather’s best friend, Chris Van Tuyl, who was a member. In addition, one of JoJo’s best friends worked in the pro shop and St. George’s was JoJo’s favorite course. “He loved this sport,” Mastrantoni added. “It was meant to be.”

LaRosa further commented on JoJo’s passion for golf: “He played as often as he could, even when he was sick. It was a way for him to escape and one of his favorite hobbies.”

She explained how the foundation plans to use the funds collected from the outing. She highlighted that the event’s purpose is not only to celebrate JoJo’s memory and keep his legacy alive, but also “provide support to other children and families that are in similar situations to my brother when he was sick. Specifically young patients who have cancer, diseases or illnesses. We’re raising funds to be able to do all those things to give back to those afflicted.”

The outing is not the only way the organization is committed to helping families in need. During the winter holidays, they hold a toy drive, collecting and donating toys to hospitals in the area as well as out of state. 

This past year, “We went [from] five hospitals to nine hospitals [to which] we gave toys in his name,” JoJo’s mother said.

Furthermore, the foundation is holding a blood drive on Aug. 8 at St. James R.C. Church, 429 Route 25A in Setauket from 1:45 to 7:45 p.m. 

“He needed so much blood during his illness,” Mastrantoni explained. “I can’t even count the number of transfusions that he needed. At his last surgery he needed 80 units of blood, which I think is like 35 people’s [donations]. And there’s a blood shortage right now so we’re doing this in his honor for other people.”

More information can be found at jojostrong.org.