A photo of Julia Diane Wilson is surrounded by her cousin, Ava Felice; Anna Lanze, and Julia’s best friend, Heidi Lanze. Photo by Donna Newman
Ten-year-old Julia Diane Wilson of Sound Beach lost her battle with acute lymphocytic leukemia two years ago this week.
Family and friends — both old and new — marked the anniversary with the second annual Team Julia — Fight Like a Girl memorial fundraiser held Aug. 21 at Stony Brook Yacht Club.
Mary Byrne, holding her son, Declan, who sports a Team Julia T-shirt. Photo by Donna Newman
Julia’s grandparents, Dan and Diane Donahue, are longtime Setauket residents and this is the second year the fundraiser was hosted by the yacht club, where they are members.
The building was filled with supporters of all ages, from infants to senior citizens. Gift baskets were raffled off, T-shirts were sold and donations were accepted. Led by Julia’s parents and grandparents, the event seemed more a celebration of the girl’s life and spirit rather than a memorial.
This support group was an outgrowth of Julia’s compassion for others. Even while undergoing treatment herself, she wanted to make things better for the children around her. So the adults in her life committed to doing just that for Julia.
“Grandma, when I get better … Mommy, when I get better … we have to help these kids,” Diane Donahue recalled her granddaughter saying. She spoke of creating things at the hospital and watching Julia bring them to the child in the next bed, hoping to make him or her smile. “She was a true jewel — way beyond her years,” she said.
Team Julia is all about supporting children and their parents. They create goody bags to distribute at Stony Brook Children’s hospital. They help parents pay bills, and stock the pantry at the hematology/oncology clinic at the hospital with easy meals and snacks to help families through the long chemotherapy and infusion days. They also plan to feed families at Ronald McDonald House. Last year Julia’s father Dave Wilson said they created a prom for the children at Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center in the city, bringing in lots of dresses for the girls to wear.
Brian Donahue shows off a spider on his face. Photo by Donna Newman
Julia’s mother Erin Wilson wants to start a group for bereaved parents. She feels there isn’t enough support for the grieving process, as losing a child to cancer usually involves months and months of treatment and hope.
Julia’s grandmother said the group considers educating the public, including representatives and senators in the U.S. Congress, another one of its top priorities.
“I don’t think anybody’s aware of it until they are in it,” Diane Donahue said. “And when you’re in it, it’s not a group you want to belong to, but I’ll tell you what, you can make a difference.”
She joined the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society, sent messages to her congressman and lobbied the folks who control the lighting on the Empire State Building to light it up gold, the color symbolizing pediatric cancers. “They’ve made it other colors, but they won’t make it gold for the children,” she said.
According to the National Institute of Health’s website focusing on childhood cancers, an estimated 10,380 new cases of cancer will be diagnosed in children aged birth to 14 in the U.S. this year. More than 1,200 children are expected to die from the disease. Pediatric cancer death rates have declined by nearly 70 percent over the past 40 years, but cancer remains the leading cause of death from disease among children.
Kristin Laudicina of St. James is the winner of TBR's Adult Coloring Contest
Dear Readers,
We recently held our first adult coloring contest in conjunction with Melissa Arnold’s Aug. 8 article, “A technicolor world: How coloring brings fun and freedom to adults.” Readers age 21 and older were asked to color in the cover of Arts & Lifestyles.
The response was overwhelming, and we received many colorful entries from readers all along the North Shore who used many different types of medium, including colored pencils, markers and glitter to create their masterpieces. Even two of our employees joined in just for fun!
Kristin Laudicina of St. James is the winner of TBR’s Adult Coloring Contest!
Along with her entry, Anne Groben of Stony Brook enclosed a wonderful letter describing how she took up adult coloring as a form of art therapy after being confined to bed rest after hip surgery. She writes, “I found that this was indeed therapeutic and had many fast-paced hours of enjoyment.”
Linda Sardone of Sound Beach was inspired by stained glass windows, using acrylic paint, marking pens and metallic inks to color in the design. Susan Saviano of Selden added gold and pink glitter to enhance her coloring page, and Rosemarie Lang of Setauket commented, ‘T’was Fun.’
Although it was extremely difficult to choose a winner as every entry was unique in its own way, Kristin Laudicina of St. James edged out the competition with her beautiful shading skills and receives a three-year subscription to the Times Beacon Record. All other entries will receive a one-year subscription. Congratulations to all!
So on that note, let’s keep the momentum going with a new contest for adults!
Design a unique graphic for our readers to color in and enter to win a three-year subscription to the Times Beacon Record (a $99 value). Contest is open to ages 21 and older. Mail your entry to Times Beacon Record Newspapers, P.O. Box 707, Setauket, NY 11733 or email a high-resolution image to [email protected]. Please include your name, age and town. Deadline to enter is Sept. 17. The winner will be announced in the issue of Sept. 22. Questions? Call 631-751-7744, ext. 109.
The Bonacasa family and members of the North Shore Jewish Center get together after the ceremony. Photo by Donna Newman
When Rabbi Aaron Benson of the North Shore Jewish Center in Port Jefferson Station learned of the passing of a North Shore resident in Afghanistan, he knew he wanted to help, he just wasn’t sure how at the time.
“Some events bring the news home to you in a personal and direct way,” Benson said. “This one struck me personally.”
Benson recalled learning of the death of Staff Sgt. Louis Bonacasa while attending Suffolk County Executive Steve Bellone’s (D) inauguration Dec. 30. Bonacasa was a local hero from Coram who left behind a widow and 5-year-old daughter when he was killed by a suicide bomber four days before Christmas last year. Benson wanted to do something to help the family.
He called upon congregant Doris Weisman, chairperson of military support services at the synagogue, to form a plan of action. Weisman, is a member of a military family and became widowed young.
“Having had so much military around me all my life, it was natural for me to reach out to Deb,” she said of contacting Bonacasa’s wife Deborah. “I will do everything I can to help her and [their daughter] Lilianna find their way, which they are doing. They have a lot of good support.”
A fundraising effort began thanks to the efforts of Benson and Weisman.
At a ceremony held Aug. 19 at the Jewish Center, Benson welcomed Bonacasa family members, and led a prayer for Louis Bonacasa, lit a memorial candle for him and presented a check to his widow.
Benson gave Lilianna a hamsa, which is a palm-shaped amulet popular in the Middle East and North Africa.
“[It] is meant to represent the hand of God as a source of protection and blessings as a reminder of our love for your family and respect for your father, whom we all admire very much,” he said to the child.
“It’s a way to show concern, to bring something good to the lives of others, to increase the love in the world.”
—Aaron Benson
Members of the congregation had little trouble getting behind such a worthy cause.
“I have never been so proud of our North Shore Jewish Center congregation for reaching out to someone in the community who needs our support,” congregant Beverly Kasper said. She also brought a gift bag for Lilianna.
Benson echoed that sentiment in a telephone interview. He recalled his Jewish New Year sermon last fall in which he challenged members of the congregation to go above and beyond at tikkun olam, a Hebrew phrase that refers to performing acts of kindness in an effort to perfect or repair the world. He asked people to make an effort on the 18th of each month to do something positive beyond what they’d normally do. The 18th was symbolic because in Hebrew, 18 spells “chai,” which means “life.”
He named this effort Team Malachim, the Hebrew word for angels, with the intent to encourage people to reach out to someone they didn’t know, someone who might not be looking for help but could use some.
Helping the Bonacasa family clearly fit his outreach plan to go beyond the synagogue and into the greater Long Island community, and he was proud of the response he got.
“It’s a way to show concern, to bring something good to the lives of others, to increase the love in the world,” he said of the fundraising effort and the desire to help.
Other North Shore communities also reached out to the Bonacasas.
The Sound Beach community welcomed the family into their new neighborhood in June, after Rocky Point VFW Fischer/Hewins Post 6249 Commander Joe Cognitore and Landmark Properties owner Mark Baisch helped build a home for the family, which came with a reduced, more affordable mortgage.
There was a local outpour from neighboring hamlets, which came bearing welcome home gifts for the Bonacasas, such as gift cards, toys and a new bike for Lilianna, when they receivedkeys to the home.
North Shore Jewish Center president Andy Polan agreed that Jewish values need to extend beyond the walls of synagogues and homes.
“It’s very important for all [religious] denominations to encourage members to do things for our country as a whole,” he said. “We learn tolerance, to embrace others and to be sensitive to other people’s tragedies. It really shows what the United States is all about.”
Strawberry Fields, a Beatles tribute band, performed a free concert at St. Anthony of Padua Parish in Rocky Point. Photo by Greg Catalano
Suffolk County Legislator Kara Hahn (D-Setauket) introduces Strawberry Fields, a free Beatles tribute concert, at St. Anthony of Padua Parish in Rocky Point. Photo by Greg Catalano
Strawberry Fields, a Beatles tribute band, performed a free concert at St. Anthony of Padua Parish in Rocky Point. Photo by Greg Catalano
North Shore residents danced the night away as Strawberry Fields, a Beatles tribute band, performed a free concert at St. Anthony of Padua Parish in Rocky Point. Photo by Greg Catalano
Strawberry Fields, a Beatles tribute band, performed a free concert at St. Anthony of Padua Parish in Rocky Point. Photo by Greg Catalano
Strawberry Fields, a Beatles tribute band, performed a free concert at St. Anthony of Padua Parish in Rocky Point. Photo by Greg Catalano
Strawberry Fields, a Beatles tribute band, performed a free concert at St. Anthony of Padua Parish in Rocky Point. Photo by Greg Catalano
Strawberry Fields, a Beatles tribute band, performed a free concert at St. Anthony of Padua Parish in Rocky Point. Photo by Greg Catalano
Hundred flocked to Rocky Point to see Strawberry Fields perform a free Beatles tribute concert at St. Anthony of Padua Parish in Rocky Point. Photo by Greg Catalano
Strawberry Fields, a Beatles tribute band, performed a free concert at St. Anthony of Padua Parish in Rocky Point. Photo by Greg Catalano
Strawberry Fields, a Beatles tribute band, performed a free concert at St. Anthony of Padua Parish in Rocky Point. Photo by Greg Catalano
Strawberry Fields, a Beatles tribute band, performed a free concert at St. Anthony of Padua Parish in Rocky Point. Photo by Greg Catalano
Strawberry Fields, a Beatles tribute band, performed a free concert at St. Anthony of Padua Parish in Rocky Point. Photo by Greg Catalano
Strawberry Fields, a Beatles tribute band, performed a free concert at St. Anthony of Padua Parish in Rocky Point. Photo by Greg Catalano
Strawberry Fields, a Beatles tribute band, performed a free concert at St. Anthony of Padua Parish in Rocky Point. Photo by Greg Catalano
On Aug. 23, and despite Suffolk County Legislator Sarah Anker (D-Mount Sinai) being unable to attend, Legislator Kara Hahn (D-Setauket) introduced Beatles cover band Strawberry Fields as the second-to-last free concert as part of a four-part series this summer at St. Anthony of Padua Parish in Rocky Point. Hundreds flocked to see the band perform early and later songs in the Beatles’ career and danced the night away as band members rocked the stage. Mike DelGuidice and Big Shot, a Billy Joel tribute band with roots in Miller Place, will perform the last concert of the series on Aug. 30 at 7 p.m.
The Veterans Comedy Assault team performs at the Comix Comedy Club at Mohegan Sun. Photo from Facebook
VFW Santora and Bonacasa Memorial Post 400 presents Comedy for a Cause featuring the Veterans Comedy Assault Team on Aug. 27, 8 p.m. at the Moose Lodge in Mount Sinai.
The Veterans Comedy Assault Team started in January 2015 as a part of Project 9 Line, a 501(c)3 nonprofit dedicated to helping veterans with reintegration back to civilian life, and help those veterans suffering from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. The team is made up of veterans from Long Island.
Since it’s inception, the group has performed various shows on Long Island as well as at the Broadway Comedy Club in Manhattan and the Comix Comedy Club at Mohegan Sun.
Tickets are $15 in advance and $20 at the door, and all proceeds from this show will benefit a veteran family in need.
To purchase tickets, call 631-806-1699. Visit www.veteranscomedyassault.org for more information about the organization.
Zoe Anaxagorou, 4, from Port Jeff screams with joy during the Greek Festival Sunday. Photo by Bob Savage
A young man gets sprayed at the cooling tent during the Greek Festival in Port Jefferson Sunday. Photo by Bob Savage
Adreana Scaduto, 2, of Port Jeff Station waves from a ride during the Greek Festival Sunday. Photo by Bob Savage
A Greek Festival attendee tries her hand at darts during the Greek Festival in Port Jefferson Sunday. Photo by Bob Savage
Eliana Presso, 3, from Wading River takes a ride during the Greek Festival Sunday. Photo by Bob Savage
Children enjoy the Fun Slide at the Greek Festival Sunday. Photo by Bob Savage
Food vendors play a large role during the annual Greek Festival in Port Jefferson. Photo by Bob Savage
Toddler Alexa Verderosa from Shoreham enjoying her ice during the Greek Festival Sunday in Port Jefferson. Photo by Bob Savage
Greek Festival goers shopping at a jewelry vendor Sunday. Photo by Bob Savage
One of the many carnival rides on site at the Greek Festival in Port Jefferson. Photo by Bob Savage
Young boys on an amusement park style ride during the Greek Festival Sunday in Port Jefferson. Photo by Bob Savage
Family photos taken in one of the festival cut-outs during the Greek Festival in Port Jefferson Sunday. Photo by Bob Savage
A view of the Greek Festival in Port Jefferson from atop the Ferris Wheel. Photo by Bob Savage
Thumbs up for the Greek food available at Port Jefferson's Greek Festival. Photo by Bob Savage
Cosmo Austine, 3, from Nesconset gets his face painted during the Greek Festival in Port Jefferson Sunday. Photo by Bob Savage
Port Jefferson’s 2016 Greek Festival kicked off Aug. 18 and has three remaining dates from Aug. 26 to Aug. 28. The annual cultural celebration is hosted by the Greek Orthodox Church of the Assumption at Port Jefferson and features food, activities, music, fireworks and more.
Dog House Blues Band performs during Summerfest 2016 at Heritage Park in Mount Sinai on Aug. 20. Photo by Greg Catalano
Five-year-old twin brothers Luke and Logan Persen, of Wading River, got their faces painted during Heritage Trust's 2016 Summerfest on Aug. 20 at Heritage Park in Mount Sinai. Photo by Greg Catalano
Vendors set up shop across Heritage Park in Mount Sinai during Heritage Trust's 2016 Summerfest on Aug. 20. Photo by Greg Catalano
John “Rattlesnake" Hensler, the lead vocalist and percussion player for Dog House Blues Band, belt sout a tune during Summerfest 2016 at Heritage Park in Mount Sinai on Aug. 20. Photo by Greg Catalano
“Gorgeous” Geo Ellert, the bassist of Dog House Blues Band, jams during Summerfest 2016 at Heritage Park in Mount Sinai on Aug. 20. Photo by Greg Catalano
North Shore residents spread out across Heritage Park in Mount Sinai to listen to live music, eat food or relax during Heritage Trust's 2016 Summerfest on Aug. 20. Photo by Greg Catalano
Five-year-old Luke Persen, of Wading River, gets his face painted during Sumemrfest 2016 on Aug. 20 at Heritage Park in Mount Sinai. Photo by Greg Catalano
John “Rattlesnake" Hensler, the lead vocalist and percussion player for Dog House Blues Band, plays the tambourine during Summerfest 2016 at Heritage Park in Mount Sinai on Aug. 20. Photo by Greg Catalano
The Buonarosa family from Miller Place enjoys Summerfest 2016 at Heritage Park in Mount Sinai on Aug. 20. Photo by Greg Catalano
Joe "the Professor" DeGaetano, keyboardist for Dog House Blues Band, rocks the keys during Summerfest 2016 at Heritage Park in Mount Sinai on Aug. 20. Photo by Greg Catalano
On Aug. 20, Mount Sinai’s Heritage Trust, a 501(c)3 not-for-profit, hosted Summerfest 2016 at Heritage Park.
The event featured live music, including Dog House Blues Band, The Jukebox Explosion and Rock Nation; vendors; a beer tent; raffles and other family fun.
The Noah Hallock House will undergo renovations with Rocky Point Historical Society’s newly received grant money. File photo by Erin Duenas
By Desirée Keegan
Thousands of dollars have made their way to North Shore historical nonprofits, which will help continue to preserve Long Island’s rich history and educate others on it.
The Robert David Lion Gardiner Foundation funds Long Island’s history-based 501(c)(3)s, museums and universities to help with object conservation, historical preservation, education programs and exhibits. The organization was established in memory of Gardiner’s Island, a part of East Hampton town.
“The foundation grants have become highly completive,” Executive Director Kathryn Curran said. “For this round, the board reviewed 43 applicants that covered every form of historic outreach. Projects included restorations, exhibitions, programs and collection digitization.”
Most recently, local historical societies, Friends of Science East Inc., Suffolk County Historical Society, The Nature Conservancy, 3rd NY Regiment Long Island Companies and Stony Brook Foundation, among others, were the 2016 first round recipients.
A volunteer and child practice on a loom at an event at the Huntington Historical Society. File photo
Joseph Attonito, chairman of the board of directors, said there were many great groups to choose from.
“It is very gratifying to have so many worthwhile organizations overseeing our local heritage and preserving our history,” he said. “Bob Gardiner would be very pleased.”
Rocky Point Historical Society received $7,500 for restoration use and, according to historical society President Natalie Aurucci Stiefel, the funds are being used for repairs and restoration of The Noah Hallock House, built in 1721.
“We feel very privileged to have the foundation choose us for that grant,” she said. “It is important to keep this historic house in good shape. We would’ve had a hard time fundraising that money.”
According to Stiefel, the house, which holds tours on Saturdays between 1 and 3 p.m., was the birthplace of revolutionary soldiers, and had the possibility of being torn down several years ago before Mark Baisch, owner of Landmark Properties in Rocky Point, stepped in to help.
“We still have staircases that the servants and slaves used,” Stiefel said. “It’s filled with artifacts and photographs from the 18th and 19th century, and there’s even a 20th century room dedicated to the radio history of Rocky Point.”
The Port Jefferson Harbor Educational and Arts Conservancy received $16,354.09 for it’s annual Heritage Weekend festivities.
Port Jefferson Harbor Educational and Arts Conservancy used it’s funds from the grant to host a larger and more in-depth Heritage Weekend celebration. Photo by Alex Petroski
According to Nicole Christian, a consultant for grant writing for Port Jefferson Village, about 50 percent of the funding from the weekend came from the grant.
“The larger, more impactful exhibits and reenactments that would have lasting public benefit, that’s what they supported,” she said.
“We made sure that we tailored a lot of the activities that you see with the cars and the beach scene — we made sure that it all weaves together to celebrate the history of Long Island, particularly the 18th century.”
All 19 locations around the village that hosted the event covered a particular time period in Long Island’s history. According to Christian, the funding helped Port Jefferson be able to create a larger and grander event than would have originally been possible.
“We had all levels of recreational activities here,” she said. “We’re hoping that [visitors took] away a greater appreciation for Long Island’s role in 18th century history, the colonial period, the Revolutionary War, a recreational pastime. People don’t know that [Port Jefferson was] a magnet of recreation for all families.”
The Historical Society of Greater Port Jefferson also received grant money, totaling $22,000 for restoration purposes.
The 3rd NY Regiment Long Island Companies was awarded $12,000 to substitute payment customarily made by collaborators, host sites and venues during the campaign season, allowing those organization to apply those resources to other priorities associated with their missions. The Regiment partakes in re-enactments to educate Long Islanders on the Revolutionary War.
“They are quite an extraordinary group of volunteers who perform a vital role in helping our county’s residents and visitors get a very personal education about colonial life and the role Long Island played in the Revolutionary War,” Richard Barons, the executive director of the East Hampton Historical Society, said.
Smithtown 350 Foundation volunteers walk in a parade celebrating the town. File photo
The Smithtown 350 Foundation received a $5,000 grant toward anniversary events, as the town celebrated its 350th anniversary this year. The Walter S. Commerdinger Jr. County Park Preservation Society in Nesconset received $100,000 for restoration and preservation purposes.
The Huntington Historical Society received a $12,728 grant that Executive Director Claudia Fortunato-Napolitano said will be used to purchase new technology products and technical support.
“With the new technology and updated software that [the] funding will provide for, the society can continue to stay relevant in the 21st century,” Fortunato-Napolitano said in an email. “We will be able to stay better connected with our members and donors, while increasing the number of people who we can help with their research… [It] will lead directly to the growth of the organization as the goal is for the society to successfully engage more members of the public and the community. For small not-for-profits like ours with a limited budget, vital technology updates is often an item that can seem too costly to afford.”
The Old First Presbyterian Church in Huntington received $50,000 for restoration and conservation of the steeple.
The Ward Melville Heritage Organization was awarded $22,500 for an educational program called Distance Learning.
According to Gloria Rocchio, president of the organization, an instructor will give a lesson, in say, the Bewster House, and it would be filmed and broadcasted onto the Distance Learning website.
The Tesla Science Center in Shoreham is looking to get on the National Register of Historic Places with help from the grant funds. File photo by Wenhao Ma
“People from around the world could learn about the rich history we have here,” she said. “We already have the cameras installed in the Thompson House and the Brewster House, and we’re developing programs for them. Once program should be ready this fall, and the other should be ready next spring. It’s very exciting.”
Friends of Science East Inc., more commonly known as Tesla Science Center at Wardenclyffe in Shoreham, received $17,500 for capacity-building technology and $3,800 for collections care.
According to board of directors President Jane Alcorn, the funding will be used to survey the property, especially the lab building and power base, to study its historic nature — identify which parts are historic, have architectural drawings done, and figure out which parts are critical to preserve and protect, and how to do it.
“The funding will help as we continue to protect the site as we work toward getting it on the National Register of Historic Places,” Alcorn said. “We know the history of the project is historic. It has significance because of Tesla’s work there—it’s a scientific site. Its architectural origins, in inspiration of Stanford White, an important architect at his time, [are also significant].”
Alcorn said that every dollar is significant, as the nonprofit looks toward the future of turning part of the site into a museum — and the funding makes the creation of a museum more exciting, if the organization can get the property on the national list.
“We believe in preserving and making the best possible choice in how we use that space,” she said. “Having the grant enables us to develop ideas that bring together the past and the future. We have far more fundraising to do moving forward, so the contribution really helps us realize and achieve the steps necessary to move forward. The Robert David Lion Gardiner Foundation has been magnificent, and we applaud their foresight into giving to organizations such as ours, who want to preserve the best of the past.”
Victoria Espinoza and Alex Petroski contributed reporting.
The new trail will move from Port Jefferson Station to Wading River, passing through where old Miller Place railroad tracks used to be. Photo by Desirée Keegan
Every project has its perks, and in the case of one large North Shore endeavor, the possibilities are endless.
U.S. Rep. Lee Zeldin (R-Shirley), along with other local officials, recently announced a 2018 completion year for the Port Jefferson Station to Wading River Rails to Trails project— that has been more than 30 years in the making. With the plan, which involves paving a bike path where old railways existed to be used for cyclists, potential is everywhere.
While the project will provide a safe space for biking enthusiasts, skateboarders, roller-bladers and even those just looking to take a scenic stroll, there is also a huge chance for economic growth, with the path connecting so many Town of Brookhaven hamlets. Bikers, hikers and anyone in-between could stop at kiosks along the path to grab a bottle of water or an ice cream cone, or groups may stop in any hamlet along their travels to grab dinner or go shopping. The trail could also be a way to connect locals, and tourists too, to local beaches, museums and other landmarks.
It’s also just a great opportunity to explore the wonders of the North Shore. The plan helps preserve even more open space while stringing together breathtaking views that tend to get lost in all of the development on Long Island.
Further, the trails should serve as inspiration for cars to be left at home occasionally, which can only have a positive impact on the environment around us.
This project is attractive on multiple levels and across multiple layers of government. We applaud officials for being able to work together and across party lines to achieve a common goal with so many benefits.
Brookhaven Town will hold a blood drive Tuesday, Aug. 23, from 8:30 a.m. to 4 p.m. in the Town Hall auditorium in the hopes of alleviating an emergency blood shortage. Brookhaven Town Hall is located at 1 Independence Hill in Farmingville. Those seeking more information are advised to call 631-451-9100.