Alexa Timo with the return for Centereach in a League III matchup at home April 11. Photo by Bill Landon
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Centereach senior Alexa Timo serves for the Cougars in a home game against West Babylon. Bill Landon photo
Centereach outside hitter Kayla Peters from the service line in a League III game against West Babylon. Photo by Bill Landon
Centereach sophomore Kayla Peters attacks at net for the Cougars at home against West Babylon April 11. Bill Landon photo
Centereach junior Gianna Buscarino sets the play in a home game against West Babylon April 11. Photo by Bill Landon
Senior Alexa Timo keeps the play alive for Centereach in a home game against West Babylon April 11. Bill Landon photo
Alexa Timo with the return for Centereach in a League III matchup at home April 11. Photo by Bill Landon
Centereach junior Bethany Velardi with the return for the Cougars at home against West Babylon. Bill Landon photo
Centereach junior Bethany Velardi with the return for the Cougars at home against West Babylon. Bill Landon photo
Senior Alexa Timo keeps the play alive for Centereach in a home game against West Babylon April 11. Bill Landon photo
Sophomore Sydney Kirschner puts the ball in play for Centereach in a League III matchup April 11. Photo by Bill Landon
Centereach outside hitter Kayla Peters keeps the ball in play in a League III home game against West Babylon. Photo by Bill Landon
Centereach outside hitter Kayla Peters attacks at net in a League III home game against West Babylon. Photo by Bill Landon
Centereach senior Kimee Sokolowski from the service line in a home game against West Babylon April 11. Bill Landon photo
The Cougars of Centereach in a rare Sunday morning performance took the best of four sets in a League III matchup from visiting West Babylon 25-9, 19-25, 25-16 and 25-14 April 11. It was senior day for the Cougars and before the game the team honored seniors Kimee Sokolowski (defensive specialist) and (outside hitter) Alexa Timo.
Centereach won the opening set-in convincing fashion before falling in the second to make it a new game. The Cougars found their stride and put away the next two sets for the 3-1 win.
Sokolowski had four aces and five digs and Timo had 11 kills. Gianna Buscarino a junior tallied 18 assists.
The win lifts the Cougars to 4-5 in league and will retake the court in a home game against cross town rival Newfield April 14 and finish up regular season play with a road game the following day against Eastport South Manor. First service for both games is 4p.m.
Libero Sydney Kondracki sets the play for the Bulls in a home game against West Islip Mar. 30. Photo by Bill Landon
Libero Sydney Kondracki with a return for Smithtown West in a home game against West Islip. Photo by Bill Landon
Smithtown West co-captain Sally Tietjen at net in a home game Mar. 30. Photo by Bill Landon
Smithtown West co-captain Sally Tietjen at net in a home game Mar. 30. Photo by Bill Landon
Smithtown West co-captain Sally Tietjen returns the ball in a home game Mar. 30. Photo by Bill Landon
Smithtown West co-captain Sally Tietjen returns the ball in a home game Mar. 30. Photo by Bill Landon
Smithtown West’s Meghan Catania returns the ball in a league III contest at home Mar. 30. Photo by Billl Landon
Meghan Catania with a spike for Smithtown West in a league III match up against West Islip Mar. 30. Bill Landon photo
Meghan Catania from the service line for Smithtown West in a league III match up against West Islip. Bill Landon photo
Lauren Fels sets the play for the Bulls at home Mar. 30. Photo by Bill Landon
Kira Pirrera sets up the play for the Bulls in a league III home game against West Islip Mar. 30. Bill Landon photo
Smithtown West Co-Captain Kasey Tietjen battles at net against West Islip Mar. 30. Photo by Bill Landon
Smithtown West co-captain Kasey Tietjen with a kill shot against West Islip Mar. 30. Photo by Bill Landon
Kasey Tietjen with a save for Smithtown West at home Mar. 30. Photo by Bill Landon
Kasey Tietjen from the service line for Smithtown West at home Mar. 30. Photo by Bill Landon
Smithtown West co-captain Kasey Tietjen lets an out of bounds return fall to the floor Mar. 30. Photo by Bill Landon
Co-captain Hannah Naja battles at net for Smithtown West in a home game against West Islip Mar. 30. Photo by Bill Landon
Co-captain Hannah Naja with the return for Smithtown West in a home game against West Islip. Photo by Bill Landon
Co-captain Hannah Naja sets the play for Smithtown West in a home game against West Islip. Photo by Bill Landon
Emily Giacini sets up for Smithtown West in a League III matchup against West Islip Mar. 30. Photo by Bill Landon
Smithtown West went head-to-head with West Islip vying for the top spot in League III volleyball action at home where the Bulls swept West Islip in three sets winning 25-19, 25-22 and 25-21 March 30.
With the win on their home court, Smithtown West remains unbeaten with a 5-0 record while the loss drops West Islip to 8-2.
The Bulls have a busy schedule in the COVID-compressed season and will play four games over three days beginning with a doubleheader April 1 at home against Bellport at 10 a.m. and a road game against Deer Park at 2.
Emily Brown digs one out for the Royals at home March 22. Bill Landon photo
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Port Jefferson’s Evelyn Walker battles at net in a home game against Center Moriches March 22. Photo by Bill Landon
Emilia Guzzetta from the service line for the Royals at home against Center Moriches. Photo by Bill Landon
Port Jefferson’s #34 sets up for the Royals in a home game against Center Moriches March 22. Photo by Bill Landon
Port Jefferson’s #34 from the service line for the Royals in a home game against Center Moriches March 22. Photo by Bill Landon
Port Jefferson’s #34 returns the ball for the Royals in a home game against Center Moriches March 22. Photo by Bill Landon
Calli Saieva with a return for the Royals in a home game against Center Moriches. Photo by Bill Landon
Calli Saieva puts the ball in play for the Royals in a home game against Center Moriches. Photo by Bill Landon
Alexa Ayotte blocks at net in a league VI home game against Center Moriches March 22. Photo by Bill Landon
Alexa Ayotte with a return in a league VI home game against Center Moriches March 22. Photo by Bill Landon
Port Jefferson’s Alexa Ayotte sets the play in a league VI home game March 22. Photo by Bill Landon
Port Jefferson’s #34 blocks a shot at net for the Royals in a home game against Center Moriches. Bill Landon photo
Emily Brown digs one out for the Royals at home March 22. Bill Landon photo
Livia Alvarez digs one out for the Royals in a home game against Center Moriches March 22. Photo by Bill Landon
Port Jefferson’s Lucy Dewitt sets up for the Royals at home March 22. Bill Landon photo
Port Jefferson’s Erin Henry returns the ball in a home game against Center Moriches. Bill Landon photo
Port Jefferson’s Erin Henry with a kill shot in a home game against Center Moriches. Bill Landon photo
Selena Roth-Veno from the service line for the Royals in a league VI matchup at home March 22. Photo by Bill Landon
Selena Roth-Veno with a return for the Royals in a league VI matchup at home March 22. Photo by Bill Landon
Port Jefferson’s Erin Henry with a return in a home game against Center Moriches. Bill Landon photo
Port Jefferson’s Evelyn Walker from the service line in a home game against Center Moriches March 22. Photo by Bill Landon
Awaiting service
Selena Roth-Veno with a save for the Royals in a league VI matchup at home March 22. Photo by Bill Landon
Port Jefferson’s Evelyn Walker steps out of the way of a long service ball for the point in a home game against Center Moriches March 22. Photo by Bill Landon
The Port Jefferson Royals opened their season with four straight wins with shutouts against Babylon, Southampton and Pierson/Bridgehampton, before they were blanked by Mattituck 0-3 on March 20. Looking to get back to their winning ways the Royals had their hands full in a home game against Center Moriches falling to the Red Devils 3-1 in four sets, 18-25, 25-23, 23-25 and 21-25 in League VI play March 22.
The loss drops Port Jefferson to 4-2 for third place in league behind Center Moriches at 5-1 and undefeated Mattituck who sits atop the leaderboard at 5-0. The Lady Royals retake the court March 24 with a road game against Shelter Island before returning home against Pierson/Bridgehampton two days later. Game times are 6:15 p.m. and 4:30 respectively.
Photos from left to right: Evelyn Walker from the service line in a home game against Center Moriches; Port Jefferson’s #34 spikes it; Selena Roth-Veno with a save for the Royals.
Rocky Point Co-Captain Celine Singh digs one out against Sayville in a league IV game Mar. 13. Photo by Bill Landon
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Anna Lanze and Kylie Modine battle at net for the Eagles in a league IV home game against Sayville Mar. 13. Photo by Bill Landon
Rocky Point’s Anna Wood from the service line in a home game against Sayville Mar. 13. Photo by Bill Landon
Rocky Point’s Anna Wood from the service line in a home game against Sayville Mar. 13. Photo by Bill Landon
Rocky Point Co-Captains Celine Singh and Julia Wheeler block at net for the Eagles in a league IV matchup at home against Sayville Mar. 13. Photo by Bill Landon
Celine Singh with a return for Rocky Point in a league IV matchup at home against Sayville Mar. 13. Bill Landon photo
Rocky Point Co-Captain Celine Singh with a return against Sayville in a league IV game Mar. 13. Photo by Bill Landon
Kylie Modine from the service line for the Eagles in a league IV matchup at home against Sayville Mar. 13. Bill Landon photo
Rocky Point Co-Captain Celine Singh digs one out against Sayville in a league IV game Mar. 13. Photo by Bill Landon
Rocky Point Co-Captain Celine Singh spikes at net against Sayville in a league IV game Mar. 13. Photo by Bill Landon
Rocky Point libero Chloe Graham sets up the play for the Eagles at home Mar. 13. Bill Landon photo
Rocky Point libero Chloe Graham digs one out for the Eagles at home Mar. 13. Bill Landon photo
Home spectators socially distanced
Rocky Point Co-Captain Jessica Barrett sets the play for the Eagles at home against Sayville. Photo by Bill Landon
Rocky Point Co-Captain Julia Wheeler with a return against Sayville in a league IV game Mar. 13. Photo by Bill Landon
Rocky Point Co-Captain Julia Wheeler spikes at net against Sayville in a league IV game Mar. 13. Photo by Bill Landon
Rocky Point Co-Captain Julia Wheeler with a kill shot against Sayville in a league IV game Mar. 13. Photo by Bill Landon
Rocky Point Co-Captain Julia Wheeler at the service line against Sayville in a league IV game Mar. 13. Photo by Bill Landon
Rocky Point Co-Captain Julia Wheeler battles at the net against Sayville in a league IV game Mar. 13. Photo by Bill Landon
Kylie Modine and Anna Lanze at the ready for the Eagles in a league IV home game against Sayville Mar. 13. Photo by Bill Landon
Kylie Modine with a return for the Eagles in a league IV matchup at home against Sayville Mar. 13. Bill Landon photo
Kylie Modine from the service line for the Eagles in a league IV matchup at home against Sayville Mar. 13. Bill Landon photo
Riley Trentkowski with a block for the Eagles at home against Sayville Mar. 13. Bill Landon photo
Rocky Point scores
The Eagles of Rocky Point opened their season with a nail-biting win against Hills West that went 5 sets but had all they could handle against Sayville in a league IV matchup March 13 at home falling to the Golden Flashes 25-13, 25-18, 25-14.
Rocky Point edged ahead early in the second set but Sayville had the upper hand at net to win their first game of the season.
The loss drops the Eagles to 1-2 where they’ll look to regain their winning ways on the road against Harborfields March 18 before returning home to host Kings Park the following day. Game time for both is 4 p.m.
Mount Sinai senior running-back Matthew LoMonaco drags a Babylon defender out of the back field in the semi-final playoff round at home Nov. 15, 2019. Photo by Bill Landon
Players in Suffolk schools will be hitting the courts and fields come the start of the September sports season … well, some will be.
Gov. Andrew Cuomo announced Aug. 24 that certain sports are allowed to start up Sept. 21, though all leagues must stay in their home region until Oct. 19.
Sports have been divided into what are considered low or high risk. Low risk sports include soccer, tennis, cross county, track, field hockey and swimming. High risk sports would be football, wrestling, rugby, hockey and volleyball. How the distinction between the two was made was up to the New York State Department of Health.
All those sports deemed high risk will be allowed to practice starting Sept. 21 but not to play against other teams until after Dec. 31.
There are still lingering questions about how some sports were determined to be high risk while others remain medium or low. The Department of Health guidance about sports details that a low risk sport is mostly individual activities like running, swimming or golf, or any sport that maintains little cross contamination of equipment. Medium risk sports have more but still manageable interaction between shared equipment (or the ability to clean between use) but with limited ability to maintain distance, which includes sports like baseball, soccer or even flag football. Games that need to have shared contact with equipment like volleyball or games that mandate close confines like wrestling are off the table, at least for the rest of this year.
Not every region will be participating in the fall. Nassau County school officials and Section VIII, which handles Nassau high school sports, have already made the decision this week to postpone all sports until the start of 2021. Meanwhile members of the Section XI board, which governs Suffolk sports, voted to host its sports season as described by the governor’s parameters.
What the exact guidelines for practices and games is still to be determined. Section XI wrote in a release Aug. 26 that the New York State Public High School Athletic Association has already met twice based on Cuomo’s Aug. 24 announcement. The association said it will come up with guidance for school districts to help them get started on their sports seasons.
“Over 200,000 students participate in the fall high school sports seasons and yesterday’s announcement was certainly a positive step for all those athletes,” said NYSPHSAA’s Executive Director Robert Zayas.
There will be several known restrictions for the start of the fall sports season. Indoor facilities can be at no more than 50% occupancy and districts must limit spectators to no more than two spectators per player. This is in addition to the normal masks and social distancing guidelines.
Coaches whose students will be left out of the chance for a fall sports season said it’s a hard pill to swallow. More so because of the vagaries still left for how the sports year will progress after December.
“I am in contact with the kids and I think all they want is a plan — something concrete — whether we play in the fall, or a condensed schedule starting in February,” said Mount Sinai High School Football Coach Vinnie Ammirato. “It would just be nice to get some clarity and a plan.”
Still, he understands why the decision was made.
“Everyone wants to play — with that said we need to keep the health and safety of all the players and coaches at the forefront.”
A scene from the second annual volleyball tournament at the Holiday Inn Express Stony Brook. Photo by Ronald Monteleone
Participants compete in a volunteer tournament at the Holiday Inn Express Stony Brook July 25 to raise funds for the Lt. Joseph P. DiBernardo Memorial Foundation. Photo by Ronald Monteleone
Participants compete in a volunteer tournament at the Holiday Inn Express Stony Brook July 25 to raise funds for the Lt. Joseph P. DiBernardo Memorial Foundation. Photo by Ronald Monteleone
Participants compete in a volunteer tournament at the Holiday Inn Express Stony Brook July 25 to raise funds for the Lt. Joseph P. DiBernardo Memorial Foundation. Photo by Ronald Monteleone
Participants compete in a volunteer tournament at the Holiday Inn Express Stony Brook July 25 to raise funds for the Lt. Joseph P. DiBernardo Memorial Foundation. Photo by Ronald Monteleone
Participants compete in a volunteer tournament at the Holiday Inn Express Stony Brook July 25 to raise funds for the Lt. Joseph P. DiBernardo Memorial Foundation. Photo by Ronald Monteleone
Participants compete in a volunteer tournament at the Holiday Inn Express Stony Brook July 25 to raise funds for the Lt. Joseph P. DiBernardo Memorial Foundation. Photo by Ronald Monteleone
Joseph P. DiBernardo, Sr. and Holiday Inn Express owner John Tsunis. Photo by Ronald Monteleone
Firefighters from all over Suffolk County, as well as New York City, took to the courts at a special volleyball tournament at the Holiday Inn Express Stony Brook July 25. The second annual tournament at the hotel was organized to raise funds for the Lt. Joseph P. DiBernardo Memorial Foundation.
The foundation is named after Joseph P. DiBernardo Jr., who was a volunteer with the Setauket Fire Department and one of three New York City Fire Department firefighters injured during a tenement fire in the Bronx in 2005. In 2011, DiBernardo died from the injuries he sustained in the fire, and in 2013, the DiBernardo family, members of the Setauket Fire Department and Jeff Cool, who DiBernardo helped saved during the fire, established the foundation.
On July 25 firefighters from Farmingville, Centereach, Mount Sinai, Coram, Terryville, Setauket, Selden and FDNY Ladder 120, along with a team from Gold Coast Bank including CEO and Chairman John Tsunis, competed. At the end of the matches, the Farmingville firefighters were the champions and donated their $1,000 winnings back to the foundation.
Northport High School hosted a charity volleyball tournament with more than 30 student and staff teams Nov. 19 to support Miles Lerner. Photo by Sara-Megan Walsh
Northport High School hosted a charity volleyball tournament with more than 30 student and staff teams Nov. 19 to support Miles Lerner. Photo by Sara-Megan Walsh
Northport High School hosted a charity volleyball tournament with more than 30 student and staff teams Nov. 19 to support Miles Lerner. Photo by Sara-Megan Walsh
Northport High School hosted a charity volleyball tournament with more than 30 student and staff teams Nov. 19 to support Miles Lerner. Photo by Sara-Megan Walsh
Northport High School hosted a charity volleyball tournament with more than 30 student and staff teams Nov. 19 to support Miles Lerner. Photo by Sara-Megan Walsh
Northport High School hosted a charity volleyball tournament with more than 30 student and staff teams Nov. 19 to support Miles Lerner. Photo by Sara-Megan Walsh
Northport High School hosted a charity volleyball tournament with more than 30 student and staff teams Nov. 19 to support Miles Lerner. Photo by Sara-Megan Walsh
Northport High School hosted a charity volleyball tournament with more than 30 student and staff teams Nov. 19 to support Miles Lerner. Photo by Sara-Megan Walsh
Northport High School hosted a charity volleyball tournament with more than 30 student and staff teams Nov. 19 to support Miles Lerner. Photo by Sara-Megan Walsh
Northport High School hosted a charity volleyball tournament with more than 30 student and staff teams Nov. 19 to support Miles Lerner. Photo by Sara-Megan Walsh
Northport High School hosted a charity volleyball tournament with more than 30 student and staff teams Nov. 19 to support Miles Lerner. Photo by Sara-Megan Walsh
During the week ofThanksgiving, Northport students and faculty wanted to make clear their unwavering support for one of their own.
Northport school district held a charitable volleyball tournament Nov. 19 at the high school to raise funds and show support for 14-year-old Miles Lerner.
Miles was on his way to cross-country practice Sept. 4 when he was struck by a 2005 Honda sedan traveling eastbound on Laurel Hill Road at 8:06 a.m., according to police. He was airlifted to Stony Brook University Hospital with serious head trauma. He has recently
returned home but faces extensive recovery.
More than 30 teams participated with players including Superintendent Rob Banzer and Dan Danbusky, principal of Northport High School.
The tournament winners were student team Ralph’s Italian Ices and staff Team Equation. The total amount raised was not available by press time Nov. 20.
An Aug. 23 volleyball tournament will help raise funds to buy bailout systems for firefighters through the Lt. Joseph P. DiBernardo Memorial Foundation. DiBernardo, right, is pictured with his father Joseph DiBernardo Sr., left. File photo
Local firefighters are training to serve up some fun and to help members of firehouses around the country.
On Aug. 23, a 4-on-4 volleyball tournament will be held at the Holiday Inn Express Stony Brook with fire departments competing to win and raise money for the Lt. Joseph P. DiBernardo Memorial Foundation. The money raised will help to buy “bailout systems” for fire departments who lack the vital equipment. The personal escape kits are used when rescue workers find themselves in fires that are difficult to escape, like when they are a few floors up, a building collapses or there is a backdraft.
Joseph DiBernardo after recovering from shattering both his feet and breaking bones below his waist. File photo
Tanya Lee, the hotel’s director of sales and marketing, said she came up with the idea for the fundraiser when DiBernardo’s father, Joseph DiBernardo Sr., stopped by the hotel to book a workshop. Lee, who is a volunteer with the Centereach Fire Department along with her son, said she was looking for a way the hotel could give back to the community and saw DiBernardo’s visit as a sign. She said she discovered while talking to him that many fire departments in the country don’t have the funds to pay for bailout systems and the training required to use them, which together can cost up to $1,000 per firefighter depending on the manufacturer.
“It was kind of like that ‘Aha’ moment,” Lee said. “Like he walked right in when I was looking to do something for the community.”
DiBernardo Jr., who was a volunteer with the Setauket Fire Department, was one of three New York City Fire Department firefighters injured during a tenement fire in the Bronx in 2005. Three firefighters also died in the blaze, and the tragedy was called “Black Sunday.” During the fire, DiBernardo Jr. helped his fellow firefighter Jeff Cool escape the building using a rope and then secured it to a child safety guard to lower himself from a window. The rope broke, and DiBernardo Jr. fell four stories, breaking practically every bone from his waist down and shattering both feet. During his recovery in the hospital, he suffered respiratory arrest and
developed pneumonia. While DiBernardo retired as a firefighter due to his injuries, he traveled the country and assisted in safety trainings for firefighters despite the physical pain he continued to suffer, according to his father. In 2011, the firefighter died from the injuries he sustained in the 2005 Bronx fire. In 2013, the DiBernardo family, members of the Setauket Fire Department and Cool established the foundation.
“We decided to [start] the foundation, so no other firefighter would have to die due to lack of personal safety ropes,” DiBernardo Sr. said.
Lee said the 4-on-4 tournament will consist of eight teams that will compete in a 15-point game until one team is left standing. For teams that are eliminated earlier in the tournament and for spectators, there will be a Cornhole toss, raffles, food and beverages. Attendees who stay overnight at the hotel will also receive a discount on their room.
“I just want them to feel good about helping their brothers, whether they’re a fire department in Schenectady or they’re a fire department here, they’re all brothers,” Lee said.
“I just want them to feel good about helping their brothers, whether they’re a fire department in Schenectady or they’re a fire department here, they’re all brothers.”
— Tanya Lee
So far there are five teams consisting of firefighters set to participate — FDNY, Hicksville, Jericho, Selden and Centereach. Kevin Yoos, fire commissioner with the Setauket Fire District and vice president of the foundation, said volunteers in Setauket are currently organizing a team. Lee said there will also be a team consisting of Gold Coast Bank employees.
The tournament was one that John Tsunis, the owner of Holiday Inn Express Stony Brook, said he was on board from the moment he heard about it. The hotel donated $1,000 to the tournament, and it will be awarded to the winning team, according to the hotel owner. Tsunis, who is also CEO and chairman of Gold Coast Bank, said he believes in giving back to the community the hotel serves.
“We’re not big hotels in Las Vegas or international banks in New York City,” Tsunis said. “We’re neighbors and friends, and we work together, and we live together.”
DiBernardo Sr., who is a retired FDNY firefighter, said his son wanted to fight fires since he was a kid. He would play with fire trucks as a child, and when he was a bit older, would visit his father at work at his station house in Brooklyn.
When he was 18, DiBernardo Jr. became a fire alarm dispatcher on Long Island, and the next year he became a volunteer with the Setauket Fire Department, according to his father. During his tenure with the department, he became a lieutenant and captain. In 1993, DiBernardo Jr. became an FDNY fire alarm dispatcher, and in 1995, his dream of becoming a firefighter in the city was achieved.
“That’s what he always wanted,” the father said. “It’s nice to see your son achieve his dreams.”
The father said he was touched when he heard about the volleyball tournament and the $1,000 donation.
“Someone would care in the community to do something for us like that … it’s fantastic,” he said.
The Holiday Inn Express Stony Brook is located at 3131 Nesconset Highway, Stony Brook. Entry donation is $20 for players and spectators and includes food and beverages. For more details about the event, contact Tanya Lee at 631-471-8000. Or visit www.facebook.com/HIExpressSB/ for a link to sign up. For more information on the Lt. Joseph P. DiBernardo Memorial Foundation, visit www.joeydfoundation.org.
Pennsylvania Convention Center in Philadelphia this past weekend. Let’s face it, I and — more importantly — my genes, fell short.
It’s not necessarily a character flaw, but it’s not exactly the kind of advantage I’d want to give my children.
There I was, cheering on my vertically challenged daughter in a game where height matters. Despite her stature, she has developed a royal passion for volleyball. The perpetual smile that crosses her face when she steps across the lines makes it all worthwhile, despite the effort, the expense, the endless attempts to get the stink out of her knee pads — and the driving through horrific traffic.
She couldn’t be happier than when she’s throwing her small body around the floor, trying to get to some giant’s smash that seemed only a moment earlier out of her reach.
When you have children, you want them to find their way, to develop outlets that they find rewarding and to contribute to something bigger than they are.
Sports, I know, don’t cure disease. And yet, somehow, it’s become part of the American way, with people flying, driving and caravanning from all over the country to play in competitive tournaments where, if they succeed, they can get enough points to make it to nationals.
So, there we were, listening to whistle after whistle at this volleyball attention-deficit-disorder factory when it occurred to me how my genes did my daughter no great favors. Many of the fathers towered over me. If I lived in a land where food were placed near the ceiling, I and my offspring would starve.
My mother played volleyball when she was younger. She was tallish for her generation. I played volleyball as well, although not nearly at the competitive level that has taken my daughter to places around the area, including Penn State.
While my daughter is involved in numerous activities inside and outside school, it is volleyball that tops the list. When we go on vacation anywhere, the first thing she looks for is a place to play volleyball.
As I watched her warm up for the third match of the day, I chatted with some of the parents from Virginia, Texas and Arizona that we met this past weekend. After some pleasantries about the event, the conversation inevitably turned toward the identity of our daughters.
I could see the satisfaction they felt at pointing out their children from across the convention center floor. “My daughter is the one ducking her head down to walk under the exit sign over there.” “My daughter? She’s just a hair over 6 feet tall, but she’s still growing. How about you?”
I’d smile sheepishly. “My daughter is in the middle of her teammates over there.”
“Where?” they’d ask politely.
“She’s No. 9.”
They’d squint into the group. Just then, my daughter would laugh her way to the outside of a circle of girls that looked like a group of gnats, diving in and out of the center of a circle of joy.
Then again, as I watched her throw herself across the floor, I thought about the match between her personality and the role she plays in this sport. Sure, it’d be easier for her to stand out if she were taller. But, given her need to defy expectations, she’d probably want to be a jockey if she were 6 feet tall.
As the weekend came to a close, I asked her if she wished she could play volleyball every day. “Of course,” she said.
“Can you imagine having a job one day that made you feel that way?” I asked.
“Yeah,” she smiled, trying to imagine a job that fits her interests as well as volleyball.
The Kings Park girls volleyball team, above, takes its annual team photo before heading to states, which has become a tradition within the successful program. Photo from Erika Benson
The Kings Park girls volleyball team has been there seven straight times, but this time, the result was different.
The 20-0 Kingsmen were confident as they headed upstate, blasting Miley Cyrus’ “Party in the USA” to get excited to compete in the state championship at Glens Falls Civic Center Nov. 18 and 19.
The Kings Park girls volleyball team celebrates on the court after winning a state set. Photo from Erika Benson
“We knew that we had all the tools to be successful, and we were anxious to get on the court and execute,” senior Lexi Petraitis said. “We’re such a tight-knit team, but what hurt us a little bit was that our nerves didn’t kick in until the first serve of our first set.”
After splitting pool play sets 3-3, Kings Park was eliminated from contention for Sunday’s state championship, but outscored Burnt Hills-Ballston Lake to salvage a third-place finish. Last year, the Kingsmen made it to the final match where they fell to Walter Panas in straight sets.
“There were sets where everything just clicked,” Petraitis said. “We had Meagan Murphy getting sick digs, which made it easy for Haley [Holmes] to set perfect sets, which our big hitters, me, seniors Kara Haase, Erika Benson, Sam Schultz and freshman Liv Benard, slammed into the ground. I think we played to our absolute fullest potential. Out on the court our energy was electric. There were just a few sets that didn’t really go our way.”
Kings Park faced Williamsville East first, dropping set one 26-24 before coming back to win the second 25-12.
“We gelled more during that second set and then throughout the day we just had to realize what worked and what didn’t and change things up,” senior Benson said. “Our ultimate goal is to place first, but third is still something very special, something that we’re proud of. It’s been a great season with my team and I really loved every minute of it.”
Haley Holmes reaches for a save with Meagan Murphy and Megan Sticco alongside her to back her up. Photo from Haley Holmes
Benson said she appreciated how supportive everyone in the district community was. The team was sent off to states escorted by the Kings Park Fire Department and led by the high school’s marching band, with members of the high school and elementary school marching, too. The positive mindset carried through the weekend even as the team stumbled in trying to capture a state championship.
“We practiced hard all year with states in the back of our minds — entering the tournament, our mindset was to take it one set at a time and to not look too far ahead,” senior setterHolmes said. “We ended up not executing the way we had hoped, but we stayed positive and worked as a team. We performed great, but it’s the state tournament, every team there is elite.”
The Kingsmen amped up the intensity in the semifinals, battling for every point in a 25-19, 25-22 win.
“I feel like we had moments where we weren’t so sharp, but as the day went on we straightened it out,” senior Haase said. “Being a Kingsman has been the greatest honor and I look forward to seeing the
program grow.”
Benson agreed, adding how much she wishes others could share in the seasoned legacy her team has experienced.
“Being a Kingsman is something most people will never experience and I wish they could,” she said. “It’s really an amazing thing, especially with this team, knowing I have 17 best friends and sisters that I can depend on. It’s really special to me and I don’t take it for granted. I just wish I had more time with them.”