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Seniors from the Gurwin Jewish-Fay J. Lindner Residences assisted living community in Commack celebrated what would have been the 90th birthday of Elvis Presley with a “Viva Las Vegas” themed celebration and concert on January 8, featuring acclaimed Long Island-based Elvis impersonator Lamar Peters in the headlining role. 

“This is a great day that our residents will be talking about for weeks,” said Joel Gali, Vice President and Administrator for Gurwin’s assisted living community. “Seeing them up and dancing with smiles on their faces is priceless.” 

To complete the “Viva Las Vegas” theme, Gurwin residents played casino-style games at green felt-topped gaming tables, staffed by Gurwin team members dressed as dealers. They also dined on Elvis-inspired snacks, including peanut butter and banana sandwiches and ice cream floats, and sipped on sparkly “pink Cadillacs,” the event’s signature drink. Gurwin also offered special photo station for pictures with Elvis plus his classes sunglasses and scarves to complete the experience.  

Residents remembered the days of Elvis at the peak of his popularity. 

“I liked his music a lot,” said Hedda Pessin, a Gurwin assisted living resident. “When my husband and I used to drive in the car we would hear him on the radio. Usually I didn’t like rock and roll, but I liked Elvis.” 

“He was very young, very sexy, and very alive,” said Gurwin resident Judy Gottesman.

“I remember him on the Ed Sullivan Show,” gushed Millie Frankel, another Gurwin resident who attended the concert. “And it was the first time I saw someone on television who wiggled and did his thing.” 

Author Fern Pessin (right) poses with her mother, Hedda, a Gurwin Assisted Living resident. Photo courtesy of Gurwin Healthcare System

Author Provides Insightful Talk on Caregiving and Family Dynamics

Gurwin Jewish ~ Fay J. Lindner Residences Assisted Living Community  in Commack recently hosted and local family caregivers were treated to an inspiring and thought-provoking discussion with distinguished author Fern Pessin. Known for her insightful works, Can We Talk?, I’ll Be Right There and The Caregiver Gap Year, Pessin offered valuable perspectives on the complexities of caregiving and family dynamics.

Pessin’s talk captivated the audience as she delved into the emotional and practical aspects of caregiving, drawing from her personal experiences and research. Her books, which have resonated with readers nationwide, explore the challenges and rewards of caring for loved ones, and she shared key insights with the attendees, many of whom have navigated or are currently navigating similar journeys.

“We were honored to have Fern Pessin speak at our community,” said Joel Gali, Vice-President & Administrator of Gurwin Assisted Living. “Her understanding of the caregiver’s role and the importance of communication within families certainly struck a chord. It was a meaningful experience for everyone involved.”

The event provided an opportunity for residents and family caregivers to engage in a lively Q&A session, where they questioned Pessin about her experiences, discussed their own and gained new perspectives on managing the caregiver relationship. The conversation highlighted the importance of communication, self-care and finding balance in caregiving roles, and attendees left feeling inspired and better equipped to manage the challenges of caregiving. Pessin’s books have been praised for their relatable, compassionate approach to topics that affect so many families. 

For more information about upcoming events at Gurwin Jewish ~ Fay J. Lindner Residences, please visit the Events page at www.gurwin.org/events.