Mel and Paula Blum celebrated their 55th anniversary with a wedding vow renewal ceremony at Fountaingate Gardens in Commack on July 11. Both are New York City natives. While Mel spent his early years in Colorado until the age of 12, he frequently visited family in Brooklyn. Paula, on the other hand, grew up in Brooklyn, solidifying her roots in the bustling borough.

Their paths converged in Manhattan, in a serendipitous street encounter involving a mutual acquaintance. This acquaintance, having dated Paula a few times and knowing Mel, failed to introduce the two. Paula took the initiative, prompting Mel to introduce himself, and from that moment, a connection was forged.

Their life together includes raising a daughter and building impressive careers. Mel was a chemical executive, while Paula’s professional journey spanned from teaching and college admissions counseling to serving as a field coordinator with the Nassau County Department of Senior Citizen Affairs. Later, Paula joined Mel’s companies, where she adeptly handled advertising, marketing, and personnel management.

Now, as founding members of the Fountaingate Gardens Independent Life Plan Community in Commack, where they moved in September 2022, they chose this perfect location to renew their vows. The ceremony was officiated by long-time friend Barbara Epstein and featured beautiful decorations and delicious treats. Following this special ceremony with their Fountaingate Gardens family, Mel and Paula will celebrate at a small gathering of family and friends in August.

Reflecting on their journey together, Mel and Paula offer this advice for a long and happy marriage: “Do not sweat the small stuff; it isn’t worth it. And make sure the bedroom is always the DMZ (demilitarized zone).”

Their story is a testament to love, resilience and the importance of making connections, no matter how unexpected the circumstances.