Prepared by the Gaebelein family
Donn Medd Gaebelein passed away peacefully at his home on Oct. 9, at the age of 96. He was born July 12, 1928, in Brooklyn, New York, to Frank Ely Gaebelein and Dorothy (Medd) Gaebelein.
Donn graduated from The Stony Brook School in 1945 and from Princeton University in 1949, later obtaining a master’s degree from Columbia University.
He was married to the love of his life, Norma Louise Allen. Their devoted 72-year marriage inspired all who knew them. Donn yearned to be with his predeceased wife, Norma, and daughter, Paula Seligson, and is now in the eternal embrace of his Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.
Donn was noble in character and humble by nature. A deeply committed Christian, serving Jesus Christ was the main focus of his personal and professional life. Throughout his distinguished career in education as a teacher, coach and administrator, Donn served as headmaster and president of two premier private college preparatory schools for more than 30 years. His leadership was characterized by humble service to others, and the number of students and colleagues who regarded him as a mentor is legion. As head of school, Donn was a realist and strategic thinker, always with an eye to the future.
As headmaster of The Stony Brook School, Donn guided the school through the turbulent 1960s, increasing diversity and overseeing the inclusion of young women in co-education. Later, in Atlanta, Georgia, as president of The Westminster Schools, he actively promoted a diverse staff, faculty and student body. He established a substantial endowment and improved the physical plant.
In retirement, Donn served as treasurer of the Rock Stream Presbyterian Church and oversaw the Rock Stream Cemetery. Up to the day he passed, Donn began every day with devotions. He was a lifelong reader and scholar of scripture, literature, history and current events. Just days before his passing, he recited stanzas from memory of his favorite poem, “Elegy Written in a Country Churchyard,” by Thomas Gray.
An avid sports lover, baseball and golf were his passions. He was a lifelong scratch golfer — shooting a 78 at age 90.
Donn is survived by his daughter Laura Mantius (Peter), son Thad Gaebelein (Elektra), son Frank Gaebelein, former daughter-in-law Monika Gaebelein, eight grandchildren and 12 great-grandchildren.
Those who wish to remember Donn in a special way may make gifts in his memory to the Food Bank of Southern Tier, 388 Upper Oakwood Ave., Elmira, NY 14903, (607) 796-6061.
Services will be held at the convenience of the family next summer. Arrangements are entrusted to Baird Funeral Home, 36 Water St., Dundee, NY. Online condolences can be sent by visiting www.bairdfuneralhomedundee.com.