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By Serena Carpino

Alyssa Faro, a junior at Smithtown High School West, recently received the Eagle Scout Award, the highest honor bestowed by Scouting America. Faro is a founding member of Troop 539G in Kings Park and the first female from the Smithtown school district to be presented with this award. 

Although Faro was originally a girl scout, she became interested in joining Scouting America after observing her brother and his troop go camping, hiking and learning more about nature. She, too, wanted to take part in these activities and became an official member of the Scouts in 2019.

At this time, Faro was also still a part of Girl Scouts and even earned the bronze award while in the program. However, the rest of her troop dropped out after the COVID-19 pandemic. As a result, she also left the organization and, from that one point on, was solely a member of Scouting America. 

According to Faro, she preferred this and explained that “in [her] experience, Girl Scouts weren’t fundamentally organized or scout led.” Furthermore, they focused on arts and crafts rather than life skills, much to Faro’s displeasure. In contrast, with Scouting America, she was able to camp, hike, shoot and take historical trips to several cities, including Washington, D.C. and Boston.

For Faro, Scouting America provided the opportunity to learn valuable skills, which was a significant reason why she continued with the program. Her passion for the Scouts motivated her to earn numerous merit badges, with her favorite being the lifesaving badge. She noted, “I loved [this] badge because it challenged me to learn lifeguarding techniques and CPR skills that I had never done before.”

Her commitment and passion for the Scouts is ultimately why Faro was given the Eagle Scout Award. To receive this honor, scouts must demonstrate their dedication to leadership and community service, including earning over 21 merit badges and completing a service project. For her project, Faro held a soccer clinic at the Smithtown schools. She hosted a bake sale and, with the help of some of her soccer teammates, raised enough money to purchase equipment for the clinic, which she then donated to the school. 

Faro has certainly accomplished a lot during her time as a Scout. However, her journey has not been without challenges. In particular, some believe that girls do not belong in Scouting America, despite the organization having been co-ed for decades. 

“The main challenge I’ve faced has been ignoring the comments about girls not belonging to Scouting,” she said. “The leadership, communication and collaboration skills I have gained from Scouting are priceless and I believe that both boys and girls should have the opportunity to learn these skills. My gender doesn’t make me any less qualified to pursue desired achievements, many of them being through Scouting.”

Her mother, Vanessa Faro, also addressed these challenges. She noted that some within the Scouts still believe that it is a “father/son bonding experience.” However, she clarified that, luckily, it is only a small minority who still believe this. She emphasized that the Suffolk County Scouting America Council is committed to ending any persisting discrimination. Faro’s mother hopes that, within the next few years, girls interested in joining the Scouts will not face the same challenges that her daughter did. 

As a rising high school senior, Faro has one year left in the Scouts before she ages out. Once this happens, she can opt to continue volunteering for the organization as an assistant Scout leader. She has yet to decide whether she will occupy this position due to the potential time constraints of college.

Regardless, the Scouts have no doubt been an important part of Faro’s high school career. She has left an important legacy in the Smithtown school district and is an inspiration for other girls to follow in her footsteps. 

She offered the following advice to other young girls interested in joining the Scouts: “There’s always going to be people that don’t want to see you succeed, but don’t let their insecurities block your potential to accomplish amazing things. As my AP Chemistry teacher would say, life takes effort. Don’t hold back because things get hard, they are meant to challenge you.”

By Serena Carpino

On Saturday, June 14, the Setauket Fire Department held a ribbon-cutting ceremony to unveil the latest expansion of their 9/11 memorial, located at Station 3 on Nicolls Road. The memorial now includes the names of the first responders who passed away due to the health conditions caused by toxins at ground zero. This latest addition to the memorial was led by Girl Scout Sara Bally of Troop 227 as a part of her Gold Award project.

The ceremony was a special time for first responders, family members and other community members to remember and reflect on the heroic actions of the victims of 9/11. Speakers at the service also highlighted the importance of honoring the victims who died later due to their exposure to chemicals and harmful debris. 

At the beginning of the service, they remarked on the necessity of the memorial’s expansion to include these first responders. Setauket Fire Department Chief Charles Regulinski said, “We affirm what we have always known: that the sacrifices are no less significant, their courage no less profound. They are heroes in every sense of the word. This space, these names etched into stone, is not just a place to mourn. It’s a place to remember. A place to learn.”

Bally, whose stepfather, Paul DiBiase, has been a member of the department for 34 years, also commented on the necessity of the memorial. She noted, “This memorial is more than just a collection of names. It’s a permanent reminder of the bravery, sacrifice and enduring legacy of those who selflessly served our community.” Bally, who has been a member of the Girl Scouts for 13 years, first had the idea to expand the memorial when she and DiBiase ran the Tunnels to Towers 4k. 

“It’s crucial to me that these individuals, who continued to suffer and ultimately sacrificed their lives in the aftermath of that day, receive the recognition and honor they so rightly deserve alongside those lost on 9/11 itself,” she said. 

Thus, planning for the memorial’s expansion began. In addition to meeting with the fire department and local businesses, Bally and her team fundraised with a spaghetti dinner. As an aspiring art teacher, Bally was particular about the design, as she wanted the expansion to be symbolic and intentional. Ultimately, she decided to surround the existing memorial with pillars of stone. The names of all of the first responders from the tri-state area who lost their lives due to 9/11-related illnesses were to be etched into the pillars. These names were read aloud at the ceremony on Saturday. 

The near two-year-long process has since inspired several Boy Scouts from local troops to further contribute to the memorial. Plans have already been made to add benches, water features and turf to the space. 

Several local politicians were also present at the ribbon-cutting ceremony, including Suffolk County Legislator Steve Engelbright (D-Setauket), Town of Brookhaven Supervisor Dan Panico (R) and Brookhaven Town Councilmember Jonathan Kornreich (D-Stony Brook). 

In his speech, Engelbright noted that county leaders had “hoped when [they] dedicated this memorial that the young people of this community would carry forward [and continue to ensure that] what happened on 9/11 would not be forgotten.” He also thanked the Scouts who contributed to the memorial for bringing everyone together. 

To conclude the ceremony, speakers again underscored the sacrifices of the first responders and the necessity of coming together in remembrance. “We will continue to honor [the fallen],” Regulinski said. “Not just in stone and ceremony, but with action, compassion and remembrance. May this standing memorial be a place of peace, pride and enduring respect for all those we’ve lost and all those who continue to carry their legacy.”

The expansion of the memorial was made possible with the help of several local organizations, including O Sole Mio Italian Restaurant, Olde Towne Gardens and the Three Village Dads. The list of benefactors is continuing to grow.