For approximately two decades, clergy members from a variety of faiths have been working together in the Three Village area to bring residents from different religions together for community discussions. The hope is to achieve a better understanding of the issues that face the world today.
The Three Village Interfaith Clergy Association recently set up a website where members alternate writing blogs. To view the site, visit www.3vclergy.blogspot.com.
The TVICA includes leaders from various religious organizations in the Three Village area including:
Rabbi Aaron Benson, North Shore Jewish Center, Port Jefferson
The Rev. Richard Visconti, Caroline Church and Cemetery, East Setauket
The Rev. Chuck Van Houten, Stony Brook Community Church
The Revs. Margie Allen and Linda Anderson, Unitarian Universalist Fellowship at Stony Brook
Ismail Zahed, Islamic Association of Long Island, Selden
Father Farrell Graves, All Souls Episcopal Church, Stony Brook
The Rev. Kate Huddelson, Stony Brook University Hospital
The Rev. Steven Kim, Setauket Methodist Church
Elaine Learnard, Conscience Bay Quaker Meeting
The Rev. Gregory Leonard, Bethel AME Church, Setauket
Father James Mannion, St. James Roman Catholic Church, Setauket
Sister Edith Menegus, St. Charles Hospital and Ursuline Sisters of Tildonk
Rabbi Paul Sidlofsky and Cantor Marcey Wagner, Temple Isaiah Stony Brook
The Rev. Kate Jones Calone, Open Door Exchange — Mission of Setauket Presbyterian Church
The Rev. Mary Speers formerly of Setauket Presbyterian Church
Because of this mission, members of the Three Village Interfaith Clergy Association have garnered the honor of being among TBR News Media’s People of the Year 2018.
“The goal of the clergy association, since the beginning, is to promote understanding among the different faith traditions in our community, to learn from one another, and to come together as people of faith interested in connecting with what’s happening in the world and in our community,” said the Rev. Kate Jones Calone, director of Open Door Exchange, a mission of Setauket Presbyterian Church.
Jones Calone said the members organize events where residents can discuss issues such as the 2017 Muslim ban, children being separated from their parents at the U.S. border and gun safety in the country in such a way that helps to build bridges. She said another hope is that the conversations will get residents involved in a positive way that may “allow us to cross the lines that divide us.”
In the past year, events have included the association’s annual Community Thanksgiving Service and prayer vigils for the victims of the shooting at Tree of Life synagogue in Pittsburgh and those who were separated from their families at the U.S. border. In addition, the group hosted an event titled Interfaith Dialogue on Guns in America and a Good Deeds Day cleanup at West Meadow Beach. The clergy members have also come together to compose letters to the editor, which have been printed in The Village Times Herald.
Town of Brookhaven Councilwoman Valerie Cartright (D-Port Jefferson Station) said she first learned about the TVICA several years ago when she was invited to the annual interfaith Thanksgiving program. She said she finds the events warm, inclusive and responsive to the issues existing in the country, including political and religious segregation.
“Since that time, my staff and I have attended their events whenever the schedule permits,” Cartright said. “The TVICA is a vibrant, dynamic community group within Council District 1.”
She said the association’s mission is not only of critical value and importance to the area but also to the world.
“The act of bringing together religious and spiritual ministers and leaders from all backgrounds has created a ripple effect that encourages diversity of thought, compassion for others, and respect for the rich cultural and religious diversity that exists in our area,” Cartright said.
Since the association’s inception, Joan Marino, an elder at Setauket Presbyterian Church, has attended many of the events along with her husband, Frank. She said events such as the prayer vigil for Tree of Life not only recognize the pain of those who are suffering but the pain of the mentally ill.
“Everybody has a different theology of various types, but we all recognize the sanctity of life and loving your neighbor and standing up for those who are oppressed,” she said.
“Everybody has a different theology of various types, but we all recognize the sanctity of life and loving your neighbor and standing up for those who are oppressed.”
— Joan Marino
Marino added one of her favorite events is the Thanksgiving service because she enjoys witnessing residents of all faiths coming together to give thanks. She also appreciates how the events are held in different houses of worship.
“That’s really wonderful because you go to be with the people in their place of faith,” she said.
Jones Calone said the TVICA has held educational programs where community members have been invited to learn about each other’s faith traditions, touching on topics such as end-of-life rituals and understanding other faiths practicing of prayer.
Marino said the events make her feel optimistic.
“From singing together to praying together, to lifting each other up — when there’s a world out there that’s pretty full of hate — and to find a way to bring people together into a more loving community, we have that here in Three Village,” Marino said.
Jones Calone said the Three Village community and surrounding areas are religiously diverse, and the clergy members have seen how meaningful the events have been to residents of different faith traditions.
“People are just hungry for opportunities to support one another — to be in a relationship with one another — and hopefully doing events like this gives people that chance to really know who their neighbors are even if we spend worship hours in different places,” she said.